Megan Smith
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When I go out on dates, I generally wear the types of clothes that my husband finds the sexiest, because I love to tease him. Specifically, I wear short dresses that are tight on top to show off my breasts. I wear lacy panties. If I wear a bra at all, it is always a front hook type to make access to my tits as easy as possible. My husband prefers bare legs to stockings, so that is how I go out. Of course, he is not allowed to touch me sexually when I am preparing for a date. The only time he gets to undress me from these outfits is when a date goes poorly and I am still horny when I get home.
Around home, I wear pants and loose shirts. I go with the plain white cotton panties that I find most comfortable. I wear plain, back hook bras. When we go someplace together that I need to dress up more, I wear conservative, loose fitting dresses and panty hose.
The guy I have been dating lately has told me that he prefers thong underwear and stockings with a garter belt. Here is my question: Which would give my hubby more angst as I prepare for a date, seeing me dressed up in the clothes that he wishes he could rip off me, or seeing me dress up according to my boyfriend's preferences?
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Rob Brown
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#2 · Edited by: Rob Brown
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Speaking from experience I'd say definately what your boyfriend prefers.
Watching your wife get ready for a lover is a turn on, there's no doubt about that, and many cucks enjoy the situation because of that turn on. However, if you really want to put your husband in his place go against his wishes - that will initially annoy him, but he'll soon start to accept that having your wife fucked by another man isn't always about what he wants!
The offense he'll start to feel about his wife fucking other men will soon begin to excite him. He won't want it to, but he'll not be able to contain it. It won't be long before he finds the very thing he hates (you humiliating him by favouring the wishes of your lover) is the very thing that turns him on!
Rob
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Leonardo54
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Agreed, it is important that your husband see you leave as your boyfriend wishes to see you. But you could put a twist on it by first letting him see you exactly as he likes and then changing just before you leave to your boyfriend's preferences. That way hubby would have the thrill of seeing you his way and the disappointment of learning that your boyfriend matters more.
Act as if you don't notice the significance of the change, you simply prefer the stockings, etc.
Leonardo
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RenoSissyCuck
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i agree with all of the above and will only add that U should dress as your BF wishes full time even when u are at home so your cuckky knows how important your lover is and that u must be ready because u are his at a moments notice and he could claim u at any moment! maybe even make your hubby wear your old boring cotton panties as a sign of his devotion! Reno sissy cuck sissy lindsey
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E in Bos
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#5 · Edited by: E in Bos
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It should totally be for the boyfriend but her current stud, like me, is a leg/stockings/heels guy and has her dress that way constantly which is rough sometimes as I am in a chastity.
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xschiava
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BOYFRIEND REQUEST SHOULD BE FULFILLED........HUMILIATE YOUR HUBBY THIS WAY.....
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billie poster
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I cant believe your asking.If he was thinking like a cuck he should be on the phone asking for the studs requirements before you set out for the evening.
He should be asking if he wants you shaved,does he want your ass cleaned and lubed,what are his likes in the underwear department,what colour nails would he like to rake his balls,how high does he want your heels,if their going out for a meal etc will they take plastic or do you need to provide her with enough cash to cover the bill.
Hubby should have no say in the matter,its bad enough you have to look outside your marriage for satisfaction.As the saying goes "Put up or shut up" When he fucks you like you cant take any more then and only the can he have an opinion.
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K McDonald
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I agree with Leonardo54 up above. Changing at the last minute, for the reamister that your boyfriend would prefer that, would definately add that mental twist that would keep him on edge the whole night. Do you mean to tell me that you don't let him touch you even AFTER you've had a busy evening with your stud? I mean, coming home with panties that are still soaking wet, and letting your husband remove them, maybe even cleaning them before he removes them would drive him nuts. You wouldn't have to have sex with him, just tell him your a little too sore, and you just need a little TLC (down there) I wish my wife would do that to me! [email protected]
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Justin68
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Megan Smith
Do you have any pics of you dressing up?
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wifedateshubwaits
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Megan,
My wife typically wears clothing on dates that excites me as well as her boyfriend. However, I always note that when is dating another guy she dresses much more provacatively than with me. Her skirts are shorter, tops tighter, heels higher, etc. This has to do with her desire to please her date for the night and I don't think it has to do with any intent to tease me, although it does have this effect!
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pomd521
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i just found this thread and thought it would be nice to revisit it.
Although i had been cucked before moving to Ky, my submersion into the lifestyle began there. i was sent overseas for a year, and the night before i left, i put on the panties my Wife wore the day before, and knelt before Her and told Her that i expected Her to date Men while i was gone. She asked why, and i told Her that i knew She had a strong sex drive, that i was an inadequate lover, and my love for Her was complete and by encouraging Her, i felt it was best that She felt open to do so.
Anyway, i got a letter from Her a few weeks later in which She said a real hunk of a guy at work kept telling Her how much He wanted Her. The day i got the letter, i called and told Her She should go for it, and She said yes.They teased back and forth and He told Her He wanted Her to start dressing sexy for work, in garter belt, stockings, short skirts and sheer blouses. She asked what i thought, and i told Her She should dress to please Him if She wanted Him as a lover. She did, They became lovers, and W/we were all happier because of it.
While at a party together She met a Black Man, and They became lovers. He, as many Black Men at the time, liked His women to have hairy legs and underarms. When i came home, i was so surprised and asked why She wasn't shaving. Because He wants me this way, is that a problem?
Of course not!
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colleenslittletoy
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My wife were into extreme offense, for me naturally, so she wore the clothes her lover wanted, not something I preferred, emphasizing my role in the relationship: she was first, he was second and I was last. While we shopped for the clothes I bought for her dates with others I could comment on how sexy I thought an outfit was but invariably she would make the decision based on what she knew his desires would be, making sure she voiced her opinion loud and clear in front of others to embarrass me further.
As I helped her dress she would remind me what her stud would think of her in the outfit, wondering how long it would take for him to rip it off. She often got a thrill out of him tearingapart the brand new clothes I had just purchased, throwing the rags at me while I dove for my position between her legs to clean her out. J
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I_A_S_P
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Neither. Best when wifey dolls herself as she pleases for the occasion. Real knee to hubby's sexuality for his witnessing her choices to doll for another man. Lover also must learn to accept and appreciate wifey's efforts. SHE runs the show! ..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!
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eunuch67
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With my wife it is absolutely what her boyfriend of the moment wants. As her husband, she says I am sort of like a gay brother so there is no need to dress specially for me or bother with what I might think of it. She usually wears one of her favorites too though which is a black leather skirt that fastens at the side with two snaps. She or he can pull and pop them for it to instantly unwrap and poof, she is naked from the waist down to her heels. She never wears nylons or panties for a date with a boyfriend. Her heels are stiletto spikes of black or red leather sandals type or for cold black boots with stiletto heels and up near the knee. Her tops are the bigger variations, from leopard print tight to sheer see thru where her breasts are quite visible underneath. She even has one of her main and longest lasting boyfriends initials tattooed in a heart on her right buttocks so that even naked it is there to remind me and everyone who her Ass and her sex really belongs to. They did that specifically for offense of me so another man's initials were permanently marking her as his sexual property. He is the man of one of our flowers and shortly after impregnating her, they had his initials tattooed on her. It was his idea but she was very much into having her Butt tattooed as his. She has other tattoos and piercings, specifically her nipples and clit and pussy lips have rings and her tongue has one through it. She has a large T-Stamp across the small of her back. She keeps her pussy shaven and on her pussy mound above her split another boyfriend has had the word Whore tattooed also as a reminder. She has a good laugh about it saying everyone already knew that and that I am the only excuse of a man that can't fuck her. As one said above, she runs the show.
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