Where is everybody

Where are ALL the cuckold couples who used to hang about on this site
black bull

From what I see and read, this site is probably 98% male, and mostly cucks or those with an interest in cuck. There are regular posts by a few Alpha Males and a few female halves of a cuck couple. But they're the exception.

I can understand why though. My wife once viewed this site, and she found it very female unfriendly. So she leaves this one to us guys. LOL
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

We watch from the shadows now this site is full of wannabe bulls and cucks now
Droopy and Miss

That may be part of the problem. You don't see a lot of regular posting by females and couples who are actively practicing the cuckold lifestyle. It's also become more of hangout for submissive or bi males and those who are into FemDom, rather than focusing on cuckolding.

My wife still pokes fun at me for hanging out here. When she checked it out all she found was chicks with dicks, ball busting Dommes and dudes wearing panties. She said is was a gay site disguised as a cuck site. I've tried to get her to give it another chance, but she just rolls her eyes.

I keep sifting through the off-topic stuff for the occasional nugget of gold that can still be found, if you look long enough.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Aww thats a shame s I have had some very good cuckold meetings from this site over the years.

It now seems like you've both said, like a talking shop.

Please genuine cuckolds with cuckoldressess come back we need you
black bull

Well this site is predominantly populated with lurkers and wannabe's as others have said, but as the saying goes its dangerous to generalize. Not everyone here lacks authenticity.

I believe its easy to spot those few who are genuine and those many who are not. The genuine tend to be able to hold a civil cerebral conversation, on line, regarding the subject and their experiences. You get the occasional dickhead that wants to pick a fight with anyone who has an alternate view point or does not agree with a position they which to push. But by far, if you ever post anything, you will find 1000's of views and approx. 5 responses/1000 views on average. That means many look/wank/or then move on without commenting or anything, that is the main issue here. It takes effort to post and write about your experiences and most cant even be bothered to say thanks. Even those who do respond do so in three or four words, which while much better than nothing, does not add anything substantive to the site, the experience, or the discussion.

So I contest that due to the heavy presence of lurkers and such, the real people are just getting tired of posting and getting nothing out of it. Hence you get post after post after post from folks like "sexupme" that are just lifted pics from other sites, that add only eye candy to this site, and no real meat whatsoever but give the appearance of activity (maybe its really the site owners doing this?). They also post into others threads and quite often take over the thing. All of which is detracting and damaging to the core intent of this site, but packing the site full of none genuine none cucking crap.

just another of my 2 cents worth!

pops

Popeye my sentiments exactly - It is as if you read my mind

I long for the days when one came on here, posted a message and was certain to rip the rewards within a month or so

Nowadays nothing fruitful comes out if it. I won't if things will change or if this site is now dead for both bulls and cuckold couples who seek REAL fun..?!
black bull

Agreed. I'm not a wannabe. I'm a real married cuck but posting here is frustrating. Most won't reply to my threads because I don't post my wife's pics and I refuse to post pics from online. They're just into jerking off and pic swapping!
Faggot Pussy

I joined the site many moons ago and did not even know it had become a pay site until some friends of mine told me after trying to become members.
I do see the argument on both sides. Owners of the boards not wanting to do it for free. Against a membership who wants exactly that.
I kind of treat the place as somewhere to have a chat. In the past I did meet some people from here real time and as anyone REAL, will tell you. It's nice to put faces to names. Not that anybody would want to remember my ugly mush.

Any message board has its fair share of wannabes, lurkers, troublemakers and those who could never see the other side of an argument to save their lives. It's just the way of the world I guess.

As someone said. A lot of folk post one or two words and that's it. Let's face it. Finding out about someone in a short sentence just does not do it for me.

Anyways.........I was at a farm yesterday and saw a real bull. He looked kind of sad seeing as there was a huge fence separating him from a herd of cows.
stevensmiles

Neither did I. I knew there was a free section, and more content available if you wanted to pay. But I didn't realize you had to pay to join now.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

SheDatesHeWaits

"She said is was a gay site disguised as a cuck site."

Couldnt agree more. A huge factor in the decline of input from real couples and Bulls involved with cuckoldry.
[email protected]

The question is where did we all go? Cant find any site online now that seems authentic.
[email protected]

I've been a member here for years now. The place is full of wannabes, there is actually very little for real Bulls. All the pics and captions do nothing for me, very much aimed at the submissive male and the lurkers. I pretty much agree with all that has been said..... But there needs to be something here that is actually attractive for bulls and couples. I think I'm going to start a thread that might try and give insight to all.... "Ask a bull" the folk that just want to wank off won't read it as they will want pics.... But I wonder if folk start to really understand what being a bull is actually like then some insight might be useful. Anyway, just my thoughts

I kinda get what your saying (him above)

I consider myself real (last time I looked anyway)

Just can't get my head around this term "Bull"

Can't stand it. For me it really demeans the fetish and artistry of cuckolding.

Just me of course and who the hell listens to me
stevensmiles

Yep. I don't use the term in real life, well I do because I just have. But when I'm with partners it isn't a term we use. That is the point isn't it. The real life situation is in many ways different from the fantasy. And before I forget it is a one way street... You can never go back after starting this... For anyone in the symbiotic relationship

We gotten away from that term, too. I don't see being compared to a farm an1mal as any sort of compliment. We now refer to the other guy as the Alpha male. It just seems a little more descriptive...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I want to know the same. My wife seems to be more interested in blacktowhite.net fyi.

That site focuses on interracial, rather than cuckolding. I would like to find a site that focuses on cuck, real couples, bulls and the dynamics of cuck relationships. We enjoy pics, caps, vids, etc., as long as they're about cuckolding. But many sites portray cuck as gay/bi, crossdressing, piss dr inkers, she-males, etc. You sometimes have to weed through a lot of content about castration and pantysniffers to find a few quality nuggets of cuck material. But we keep trying... LOL
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

The way folks speak and write on this site gives them away. They often refer to the wife as the cuckold or as a cuck wife, which really is a reverse of the situation! Videos are posted on YouCuck that don't show any cucking content at all, yet are referred to as "cuck" this and "cuck" that, when all it is, is two people fucking, and quite often a black man and a white woman. For all we know they could be man and wife!!!

The thing is, it often appears that everyone is fixated on cucking being a black and white thing, where all the black men have huge cocks and all the white men have tiny cocks...well sorry world, its not that way in real life! We have no interest in black men, its just not our scene!

It has been a pay site for many years, but when we joined, even longer ago, it was free and remains free to us and people like us, due to g randfa thering I guess. And that is where the issue lies I believe. This site has to make money, therefore it has to pander to the masses, where it makes the most return. That means that the real niche of cuckolding in its purest sense gets pushed to one side, as we are seeing. Also I believe there is prima facie evidence that the original Mr. Bigcuckold sold this site some years ago, and the new Mr. Bigcuckold retained the name/handle but is in fact a profit driven gentleman, and not the original founder that started this site. Which explains a lot if you ask me.

2 cents + 2 cents = 4 cents worth

pops

popeye1
Exactly.... Hits nail on head

stevensmiles
Amen Stevensmiles. I referred a swinger acquaintance to this site. His comment was, "there is some pretty dark stuff there." There are some wannabes and cucks and swingers who aren't into the *********** that is rampant here. There are others who think some of the IR stuff is dominated by racially-charged or even racist stuff that provokes issues instead of being attractive. There are other sites that do attract a wider audience and women too.
Lukie

I actually have a strong dislike to the IR side of cuckolding. Not that I'm racist you understand.

It's just I don't go along with the falseness that black men have big dicks and white men don't.


Cuckoldplace is a huge mishmash of stuff now. It's nice to actually see this thread getting some intelligent posts. They are few and far between in the other forums.
stevensmiles

My wife just prefers big dick bulls/studs. She doesn't care if they are black, white, hispanic, etc. It's more about the connection for her as long as they are somewhat interesting and most importantly well hung.

That's the point I've been trying to subtly make here and there. To some, interracial IS cuck. To others, cucks must suck dick. Others think cuck is about wearing panties and getting humil1ated. Actually, none of that is cuck. They're other fetishes being hijacked as cuck play, or added on top of cuck.

But the main emphasis of cuck (IMO) should be your wife having sex with other guys. If it doesn't revolve around that simple theme, it's really another fetish.

I always get a kick out of threads titled "The perfect cuck vid!"... only to find a link to some dude nailing a shemale in the ass, or a bi crossdresser sucking off another dude. If you dare make a comment about it, someone blasts you about "judging others". They miss the point. It's not judging. It's just not cuck... and this is a cuck site.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I too like the "This is the best" header in other people's posts.
No such thing. What's best or perfect for one person may not be for someone else.

I also think along the lines of cuckolding as being explained by our learned friend above. Having a wife or partner who has sex with other men.
Although I think even this has many denial variations included.
The hubby being denied sex (or not) as the case may be.

I read of one couple who believed they were living the cuckold lifestyle. The wife having regular sex with other men but allowing her husband to fuck her occasionally. It worked simply because she humiliated his efforts, comparing him to the other men who satisfied her etc.
Now that's cruel
stevensmiles

There is a more precise definition beyond the simple "wife having sex with other men" though.

A wife who simply cheats, without her husband knowing, does not necessarily make him a cuckold, although it would qualify under "wife having sex with other men". It would indeed make her an adulteress, but he would not be a "cuck" IMHO, unless others knew of it and derided him for that. Unless he knows about it and either acquiesced, condoned, enjoyed, allowed or otherwise got some form of direct or pseudo gratification from that knowledge and her actions...then and only then is he a true cuckold or more correctly a wittol within the sense of the modern terminology.

The stakes only go up from there, to where he the husband becomes involved in some manner, either selecting or helping find her men, dressing up, being in the room during sex or serving them, or her, in some way before during and/or after sex with her man etc. etc. In other words he supports her actions in full and open knowledge.

As for the "perfect" or "best" categorization; I take it as read, that the poster is expressing an opinion or personal preference when they do that, and that is fine by me, otherwise what are we all doing writing in this particular thread if not expressing opinions and preferences??? We all, regardless of who we think we are, have preferences and certain "scenario's" that float our boat, and those are wide and far spread in my experience and in the main, only add spice to the scene, again IMHO!


pops

Ahh my friend... actually it does. In fact that's the original definition.

In days past "cuckold" was a derogatory term for a man whose wife had cheated on him without his knowledge. It insinuated that the husband was ignorant, unknowing or naive, and the label was a source of shame.

Nowadays the term cuckold has been molded into a new definition that fits the fetish, where a man not only knows, but actually encourages, his wife to 'cheat'. Of course we all agree that it's not really cheating if the hubby knows. However in the strict biblical sense any wife who fucks around, even with her husband's knowledge, is considered to be cheating.

Edited: As you accurately point out, we are all actually "wittols" not "cuckolds", according to traditional definitions. Cuckolds are unaware of her cheating, whereas wittols are aware and tolerant of her cheating.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I have already copyrighted "Wittolplace.com"
stevensmiles

Well brother, I do in fact know that to be so, but only in the original interpretation, or if you like, substitute "old" for original.

What I believe we are in fact engaged in here, by practicing this life style, and via discussions like this is, is redefining the scene and the language on this subject.

As has been said many times on this site, a cheating wife is not what this life style, in the main stream of this genre, is about. What is sort, practiced and fantasied over time and again, is the "knowledgeable husband" that is not only aware, but encourages and supports his wife fucking and sucking other men. In the more advanced stages he is actually involved with the wife and her new alpha man, by either serving them both or either one of them in a secondary or subservient role.

This I believe is what it means to be a "cuckold" in todays modern terminology, especially when we are talking via this site, and not the biblical terminology.

I know it can all get rather pedantic and tedious debating and fussing over the precise interpretation of the language and terminology, but language is important and keeping it relevant and pertinent is, too.

If you take it to the extreme, if none of use were aware of our wives actions with other men, we would be about our daily business and not sharing or telling our stories, or enjoying the lifestyle and scene, and would be clueless and ignorant, and none of us (in a present company term), I believe, are that!

All this is good discussion and invaluable, I would think, to those who do not know the difference!


pops

I agree. The traditional definition of cuckold is evolving into something very different. But here's the problem.... nobody knows what the new definition is. There's no agreement of the "new" cuckold.

To you it might mean a husband who encourages his wife to play.

To another person the "new" cuckold might mean a submissive male into f0rced bi.

To someone else the "new" cuckold is a man who crossdresses and is only into interracial.

If people can redefine cuckold into anything they choose, then the word eventually has no meaning. That's why traditional definitions are important to all languages.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker