starfly:
it's simple really dom_joe... I've discovered, like many other men before me, that our women feel safe in gay areas.... they arent scared of people leering at them.. fancying them..chatting them up....they find it amusing.. interesting and .. seem to enjoy being there....you try it and see..LOL I dont really understand it all myself.. but who among us really understands our women?
I don't think it is difficult to understand why women feel safe amongst gay men - they're not going to get fucked by them. However I think Bob's goal is to get his wife fucked by a man she likes hence Dom Joe's question.
"We reveal ourselves through the language that we use."