Swinging scene and cuckolding

After a fairly light arguement with another member on this board in the 'London Cuckold Enthusiasts' thread. I started to think about the swinging scene and its relationship to cuckolding.
The reamister being there is a hubby who has shown his wife dressing to go out and telling all about his desires and hoping she has sex with someone that night.........................yet down the page someone has found exactly the same posting on a swingers site (from the same guy)

I guess swinging is an easy option with regard to men, women, couples etc......who enjoy the cuckold scene.
I remember a documentary I watched years ago about swinging. An older chap with a much younger wife was explaining how sometimes when they went to swinging clubs. He never had sex with anyone and just enjoyed watching what was going on....especially with regard to seeing his wife enjoy herself. Not so much cucking but fairly similar in so many ways.
He actually laughed when he said it was not for want of trying that he did not have sex. If no-one at the club fancied him then that was usually why he went without.........his attractive wife never had any such problems.

I just wondered if there were any couples on here who's hubbies are in the same boat.
Do you both enjoy swinging per'say....................or is it because its a way to be cucked.
stevensmiles

Hi Steve
In my case I was working as a Doorman at a Swingers club some years ago and found that a great deal were into the "wife with another man" thing but most dont understand why they have such feelings. I think in my early years I was doing this without even knowing it had a name.
Now I think I can understand what people are going through so like you I am always happy to discuss such thoughts. However, I also know that in a lot of situations it only a mans fantasy and in the vast majority of cases the wife has no idea of husbands thoughts.
My wife did take a Lover with my blessing, but I was not invited to watch or be present but we both enjoyed her telling me what had happend. They still text each other and it get her excited, which I then get the rewards.
I still class myself as a Bull but I could be a secret Cuck, who knows and as long as its fun and no one gets hurt its all fine by me.
As for swinging, it is not for me or us, thats our choice.

Steve

My wife and I got started in the swinging scene. Quite often, I was the one left out, but, on the other hand, there were many memorable times as well where I did not! However, once I decided to devote myself to her only, I became a cuckold. She had no desire, and still does not intend to stop having sex with other men.

The only time I have strayed, was a few months ago, and it was on her suggestion that I do so. A friend of hers and his girlfriend wanted someone to enjoy the evening with and she was not available that evening. I went and over the course of the evening, both sucked the guys's cock and had sex with his girlfriend. She was amazing, and the first woman I had been with other than my wife in several years. But, my guilt was so great that I couldn't cum. I wanted to, but did not.

I don't think I will stray again, even if she suggests it. I love my wife and felt like I was betraying her.

The original post rings a huge bell for me.Briefly:several years ago I discovered that my wife Ann had had an affair,(recently ended).I was distraught,but we talked it through and got back to normal.Over the following weeks,I was satisfied that it had been a one-off.She became more loving and eager to please sexually and for the first time in our marriage we talked about our inner fantasies.To my amazement,though perhaps through feelings of guilt,she told me that she fantasised about watching me with another woman.
After much thought and deciding it would be very difficult to find a willing woman (except a pro,which I didn't want),I asked if she would consider trying to meet a nice married couple.Stressing that she had to like the man,she agreed.After two or three unsuccessful meetings,we found what we were looking for.They were a bit older than us,but attractive,experienced and none-pushy knowing our situation.
At our next meeting,we met in a pub then went to their house.It was there that I discovered that I was a willing cuckold (though I didn't at the time know there was a label for it).We'd told our hosts,George and Margaret,that we preferred "same room fun".They were fine with that and we remained downstairs in their lounge.Ann was and still is very attractive,with a lovely figure and a pretty face.It was no surprise to see how George could hardly take his eyes off her and this excited me.
With the lighting turned down,we all stripped and had a glass of wine.When it came to having intercourse,the two women sat side by side on the sofa and George and I positioned ourselves with each others wife.During the act,instead of paying attention to Margaret,I found myself transfixed at seeing George with Ann.For weeks I'd wondered what it would be like,watching another man fucking my wife,but nothing prepared me for the reality of it.Fortunately Margaret understood,even smiling and commenting on the exciting sight.Strange to say,it wasn't the actual fucking that aroused me most.What I hadn't expected was Anns passionate reaction,the way she held him and returned his kisses.I felt so many emotions,jealousy,guilt that I was allowing this to happen,even a touch of offense that I was too cowardly to stop it even if I wanted to,but most of all a sexual arousal that I'd never experienced before.
Despite this,like a previous poster commented,I found myself unable to cum.After George had finished,I withdrew from Margaret and whispered my apologies.We left shortly afterwards.On the way home,Ann told me that she'd enjoyed it and joked that she'd been too engrossed with George to fulfill her fantasy of watching me.When we got home and went upstairs,I stopped Ann as she headed for the bathroom and whispered for her not to wash.She knew what I meant and didn't say anything untill we were having sex.I told her how aroused I'd been watching George.She liked this and grinned,then asked if I could feel his "mess".We fucked and talked long into the night.I told her that being with Margaret had meant little to me,but watching George and her "making love" had been the most exciting thing I'd ever known.Ann went to relax a very happy wife.

Tim (PM's welcome).

Hi Tim. I particularly liked the wording you used. Watching your wife make love to George. Rather than 'sex'. I suspect that makes it all the more tormenting. Nice post. Hope we enjoy another beer soon. Maybe in a pub where no-one knows you. LOL
stevensmiles

This is exactly how we got started. We've always been open and decided to swing a few years back. We met an attractive couple and swung with them twice, however for the first time in my life I had ED (first time only, I did enjoy the 2nd time). Although I enjoyed swinging, I found myself more aroused by my wife's "infidelity" during it. She later admitted that she preferred it that way as she was always a little jealous during the encounters. Strangely, this turned me on... I found I get off on the "unfair" aspect and enjoy her being a playful bitch... in fact I suggested (and she EAGERLY accepted) putting me in chastity. My only regrets are 1) I really find the chastity uncomfortable and can't hack staying in 24/7 and 2) she seems more content denying me than taking other cock. It has happened, but I wish it did more! Oh well... we'll see.

Hi Keith. You have told your story and yet again we hear another aspect with regard to this undeniably complex fetish. I am with you on the uncomfortable mechanicals of a chastity device. In my head I would love to be the 24/7 cuckold slave to a beautiful woman. The reality though is far from what my dreams are about.
I did manage to succesfully stay in a CB6000 for a few days................once. It was manageable. But I knew then that I would probably find it far too difficult to endure on an every day basis.
But who knows.

If I were you Keith and your finding the cuckoldress/cuckold relationship a problem.....ie: you would wish her to fuck other men more regularly.
Why not talk about the fantasy side to it.
There must be times your wife goes out alone. Wether it be shopping or clubbing, bingo or to the hairdressers.
Would'nt it be kind of fun if she were to come back and tell you about what she had done.

To think your wife had been fucked in the toilets by some stranger when she was out with her friends dancing the night away.
If it happened for real...great. If not...........who is to know......................only her.
stevensmiles