bulls can be cuckolded too, your views

Cuckoldry at cuckoldplace appears to have redefined itself from its true and original meaning. I know the many fantastists here just can't handle reality but to the experienced and wise I'd like to hear your take on the phenomenon of masculine, assertive, bulls being secretly cuckolded by their women.

I have never been submissive or remotely qualify as a wittol, however I was cuckolded when first starting to date girls. It hasn't affected my confidence but was an early learning curve.

As a teenager I was hit on by a very sexy girl in year eleven. An older woman by 18 months nearly. At school she was very popular, indeed had a reputation with many of the guys chasing after her. So was a surprise when she began paying me attention. She was quite a femme fatale
and seduced me on our second date. I admit I was a virgin but was very eager, wlling and capable. I lived with my divorced man at the time, I knew he wouldn't approve as Lynne lived on a nortorious housing estate, and from an equally nortorious family.

One day at my house he walked in on us having a snog and a feel. I was embarrassed but Lynne was quite brazen. I was surprised he wasn't annoyed given her reputation (he is a Pc) but within 2 weeks, Lynne was teasing me with tales that she and my dad had fucked! I suspected she was trying to make me jealous, which I was. But at 16 I was arrogant enough to want to hang on to this trophy fuck slut. I just ignored it.

However, I got really pissed off when my oldest brother, 4 years my senior and on leave from the army got to fuck her as well and at her instigation. He told me to dump her. What really shocked me and made me give the slapper her marching orders was when my brother was a wee bit takes and claimed he and my dad had both fucked her silly in a threesome. But funnily enough I was more annoyed with them than her. I wasn't in love with Lynne, I was sexually infatuated with her.

This early experience didn't attract me in any way to becoming a cuckold.
I am guessing many wannabe cucks couldn't possibly identify with this experience, but it is more akin to the original concept of the phenomenon than some of theweird wanderings posted here, interesting as they are.

When looking for bulls via the internet (a soul destroying and usually time wasting endeavour) I have 'pre-screened' many potential bulls before introducing them to my wife. I have found that many of the serious candidates have some experience of being cuckolded (usually their ex-wife having one or more affairs). I am not sure what drives this 'poacher turned gamekeeper' dynamic, eg, mis-directed revenge, some need for re-assurance, etc, etc but I've seen it too many times to dismiss it as a fluke.

I hesitate to mention it since it may become something that the time wasters and fantasists use in order to make them sound more credible

Just my $0.02.
"We reveal ourselves through the language that we use."

if the marriage is ok to start with, the wife uses the bull, not the other way round.
stupid questions dont exist...
stupid answers however....

Luvpain
I agree; this is the original concept of cuckoldry: even elaborated upon in Canterbury Tales and The Decameron. I do so also believe that some self appointed bulls have little grasp of the phenomenon, believeing it is an easy, no strings, access to women, qand wrongly assuming there are all these frustrated married women out there with pathetic wimp husbands searching desperately for some guy to call round and dominate her. That is more fantasy than experience I suggest. I'd just like to see a little more reality and introspection here.

dyrckt
a valuable two cents! I can appreciate your dilema - your posting is perceptive. My own xperience as a bull might be mitigated by my early experience, but I was not a willing or compliant cuckold: I was cuckolded in a very cavalier way. I have to be honest and say if the situation had been that Lynne was my brother's girl I may well have gone for it in the same way as he and my dad did. Funny thing is at the time I was more resentful of my gf than either my man or brother. Essentially cuckoldry is a three way thing and we each have a diiferent need; the art I guess is being wise enough to accommodate others requirements to achieve one's own objectives. The buzz is as much from the cheating, manipulation and naughtiness as it is the fucking.