Question for the genuine

I have been a long time visitor to this forum and posted a few times, recently though things have changed at home and we now live a Female led marriage. We are experimenting with my chastity and we often talk of her taking lovers. The problem is She would not - I dont think - be interested in meeting single men from here, and I am sure there are an awful lot of timewasters so i would think She'd quickly lose interest and that would be that. My question is does anybody know of a high class club or organisation where cuckold couples are able to attend functions and meet prospective bulls? We have a successful life, She is a company Director, very attractive is used to the finer things.....it sounds snobby and its not meant to be, but taking her to a seedy downtown club is not going to work, it has to be very special and involve decent people. I know She will also find a dinner party or similar far more appealing than a swingers club...having said that we have attended a femdom club recently so She is not completely adverse to something different. Be really grateful for suggestions....I know there are some very genuine and decent Bulls on here and I would dearly love you guys to enjoy her, just dont want to frighten her off just yet - any ideas?

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I agree with Peachy.

I suggest talking with your wife to discover what approach she would like.

Also, you may wish to search for the handful of high class adult parties that exist. They usually vet members thoroughly.

Alternatively, a well chosen male escort may be most suitable.

StrongBullUK
StrongBullUK

Thank you guys for your advice, when i mentioned genuine and decent Bulls one of those that sprung to mind at the time of writing was you Strongbull...so its nice to hear from you. And peachy, I am sure you realise what a lucky man you are - your wife is a wonderful Lady, always enjoyed your posts.
In alot of ways She sounds very similar to Jenn - just need to take that next step and I know once the line is crossed I will be spending alot of time sitting alone wondering what She is doing!
If there really isnt a secret underground organisation running the sort of gatherings we all dream of maybe we should start one... I work in an industry where fabulous secret venues are easy to come by, just need some strict rules for us cucks and we'd all be in heaven....sorry imagination running wild, one step at a time. Strongbull - could you PM me the names of any such high class parties, if you know of any?
Thanks again g

try *******ingkittens VERY upmarket events just google it

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Real Bull for REAL meets

I'd love to tell you there was a way round the BS but if there is we have never discovered it.....Like yourself we live a female led lifestyle and I have been chaste 24/7 for getting on towards 3 years now, lot's of extended periods before that of course, I have been a cuckold for 14 of the 16 years we have been together.....I guess the last 7 years we have been what might be described as full protocol 24/7 Femdom lifestyle, behind closed doors, yes Ma'am, No Ma'am etc etc but we slip easily in and out of that if some ne comes into our space or if we venture out of our space, easy for us as we chose not to have youngren.

To meet men we use the swinger sites with an advert that can only be described as blunt and to the point, we have a basic picture and a hotmail address, as an example the last time we advertised was around 2 years back, we got 1000 plus replies and ended up meeting 4 guys, 1 guy was not our cup of tea so nothing came of it, 1 guy Ma'am saw for a few months then it petered out, the other 2 she is still seeing around once or twice a month each on average....

If you discover a better way please share

Good luck and best wishes

Tony

This lifestyle is fraught with timewasters and those full of BS but please be assured that you are not alone and certainly not the only people having a tricky time starting or finding others of a decent nature. It cuts across all permisteralities including bulls. I permisterally dont like that term as I simply am one who enjoys other mens dominant wives.
All you can do is take the advice of those that have commented before me as it seems the best way forward and the only way that I could recommend.
I wish you and all other genuine people the best of luck.

There are many high-end bars and restaurants. You don't have to go to a seedy club. You're overthinking it. Perhaps an expensive bar in a luxury hotel? Or a downtown place where moneyed professionals hang out? It wouldn't take long for her to get hit on. You don't need websites, dirty low-class swingers clubs or cheap bars to hook up. Forget all that.

Really impressed at all the genuine and more importantly sensible suggestions - thank you. I have approached Killing kittens and it does look like that might be a possibility - just needs to be a nice place where She can see other normal loving wives enjoying themselves in this lifestyle and I know She will be hard to hold back.