I agree with it both being fantasy and also being a geographical issue.
I've had met 1 permister on here which which has turned out to be great. I'd love to see her more often but working and the distance stops that from happening frequently, though we do talk on the phone from time to time.
The rest of the people I've attempted to meet befre and after have just been a waste of time with the exception of hotMuk, which I recently posted a reply in his post, which he is referring to.
Quoting: hotMuk
I advertised for a meet this weekend in Sunderland, we were willing to split the hotel costs 50/50 for an all night session.
It was to be my partners first real experience of a Black guy, but the only response I got was from a guy in Leeds saying Sunderland was to far (about 100 miles) and an offer to fulfil the dream if we sent a private message which I did but then he got cold feet and never responded.
So in response to your question SurreyDom - No i don't think we have many genuine members offering sincere responses, I do think though that a number of dreamers are on this site.