Does Fantasising about your wife being HOT keep you faithful ?

i think it does

Thanks for that reply dez1uk1. This is an old thread which I thought would get more consideration and input.

Oh absolutely! Keeps me busy finding her men rather than me looking at other woman

With us, it's not a fantasy but reality. But yes, my wife's adventures allow me to vicariously share in her sex life. She insists that I remain faithful and I have no problem with that. She has enough naughty adventures for the two of us.

Thanks for that input. Its frustrating for me because I havnt had sex for 20 years. When I discovered the Cuckold/Hotwife thing ,I consciously used this fantasy to stop myself thinking too much of other women. The problem I find is that the fantasy develops and grows ,and if I told my wife all the kinky thoughts I had about her with other guys ,she would probably be appalled.

If you've not had sex for 20 years then its unlikely that there is enough communication with your wife to make this a reality. However you could try bringing the subject up gradually and gauge her reaction. We started off slowly and she's had seven different men to date. Good luck and let us know how you progress.

I know what you meen about Communication. We are best friends,and talk about everything under the sun except sex. Its easier to just not go there.

The only times when I am weak and start longing for other women, is when my wife hasn't had another man for too long. Seriously.

rene.

Yes its the same for me! It keeps us occupied

The only times when I am weak and start longing for other women, is when my wife hasn't had another man for too long. Seriously.

rene.

I fully get that, me to, infact my Ma'am prefers married men to single so her regular lover often can't find the time to see Ma'am who also has a busy shedule, I get very frustrated during these times....no point looking elsewhere though as I'm in chastity

Tony