T & L, I know what you mean, by far the greater part of the voyeur scene which leads into the cuck scene is the mental stimulation.
I've cucked a few couples whereby we started out as swingers having threesomes then after becoming regular I found that the hubbies were opening up more and more and we all began drifting into cuckoldry.
I'm actually a 38 white guy but you'll find that permisterality is more important than age if ou do get to live out your spit roasting fantasy. I'm also from Stourbridge if you're interested.
[email protected]Failing that there's always swingers sites, but you'll be hit by lots of idiots, morons and tossers but perservere and you'll both be rewarded.
Good luck in your quest and don't be put off by some of the stupid emails that you'll get off here.