I'd agree with the previous posts that the role of alpha male is clearly your wife's call.
However strongly I feel that by
asking your wife to take a lover in the first place you did
voluntarily cede your position as her number one male sexual partner. I think surrendering your position as the alpha male of your wife's erotic thoughts is an important,
and clearly implied, part of a cuckold relationship. I don't see how your wife could see your repeated attempts to persuade her to cuckold you in any other light. In a very real way you chose to elevate her lover above you (in an erotic, primal sense of order) by surrendering her to him in the first place. How else do you think she would have seen your yearning to relinquish your husbandly rights to her erotic attention? I could be wrong, but I think that by by promoting him to her and offering her to him you
clearly suggested that he is the superior lover. To me that's part of the turn on in cuckoldry, that I have surrendered my sole sexual rights to my woman to
her choice of a superior lover. I actually
want for him to be able to give her sexual experiences that I am unable to provide.
If he isn't superior, why would I want her to be with him? Wouldn't it be trying to top from the bottom if I offered her the right to have a lover but then insisted that he be a poor lover? How could I expect my woman to enjoy the sex with her lover if he were less a lover than I? That's the scariest part of being a cuckold, knowing that you have let your woman free sexually and that she will
naturally seek a superior lover than you!! That's the underlying erotic (but terrifying) twist of being a cuckold, as I see it.
I'd like to get the thoughts of the sweet cuckolding women of the forum on this topic, because I think that this is a worthwhile thing to discuss and I'd like to know their take on this. Thanks in advance sweeties!
