Wife regret

So my normally very sexually shy, vanilla wife indulged my fantasy the other night while in Vegas. The man we got after a couple hours searching online was an absolute jackass and not near what either of us invisioned. It's only been 2 days but my wife basically won't talk to me, her only communication is to nod her head or shake her head no when I ask her questions. She won't hug me kiss me. It was both of our 1st time and I asked her multiple times before we found someone if she's was going to regret it, she told me no every time and at one point told me to stop asking because I asked so many times. She actually was the one who brought it up that night as well. We actually started going at it in our hotel room after ******** and she said she wanted to fuck someone different tonight. So I don't know what to do and would love any help.

So did you go through with it?

Either way, I think the approach is to try to be understanding and get her to talk about it. She may have not thought she was going to regret it, but it changed after. Let her know that you are there for her and you aren't upset and you'd lie to talk about what she is feeling.

My wife once had a similar experience. I had corresponded with a good looking guy and told him that my wife expected a slow, comfortable time in bed and she wanted some one that had some 'size' to his jewel. He said he was that guy. We met and had some ****** then went back to our hotel room. Everything went well until the clothes came off. He was a guy who was at the end of the line when peckers were handed out. My wife was very disappointed in his lie, but she went through with the sex. He left the room right after he was finished.

jrupp11
We have found that it always pays to meet a prospective bull on neutral ground first for a ***** or coffee. She will agree to someone else eventually but it must be entirely on her terms with no input from you. Just show her you love her in the meantime.
Jg

Thanks everyone for your input. I can't see a way she would ever meet a bull before hand, I think it has to be very spur of the moment for her. She was really into it and I think it took too long to find a guy and then the guy was **** addict. I think more than anything she just couldn't believe she did it and immediately felt bad about it.

The first time my wife went with another man was not an overwhelming success. We'd discussed the possiblility of her being "naughty" at length for at least 2 years, me occasionally bringing up the subject, but not excessively. She needed to be sure I would be okay with it if anything happened, that I'd still love her if she was "naughty" and that I wasn't just looking for an excuse to have other women or dump her. We talked a lot about it, various different scenarios and even role-played in bed with a dildo being her new lover. I would tell her how good it was to watch another man's cock going in and out of her pussy and how naughty she was doing it in front of her husband. She loved that and would climax loudly and my persuasion and encouragement eventually paid off.

After a couple of false starts, she told me about a young customer where she worked who always made a bee-line for her and had started chatting her up. Chris was 23, which Debbie liked, with him not being put off in the slightest by her telling him she was 34 and married with kids. His name would come up in conversation every day so I knew she was interested and sure enough he asked her out. She said she'd think about it and we discussed it at home. She'd expressed a liking for younger men (I'm 7 years older) so he fitted the bill and I felt that as she worked and he lived in a town a few miles away, this would be ideal so as not to "sh1t on your own doorstep" so to speak.

He very soon asked her out for a dr1nk again and this time she said yes and whilst we were out for dinner celebrating her 35th birthday we spoke of virtually nothing else but her impending date with Chris after work the following evening. She'd told him that she would tell her husband that they were stock-taking so she would be late home which he liked and he told her that although he lived with his sister, she would be out that night, so he was already planning to take her back to his flat after a few dr1nks. I even bought her a pack of condoms to show that I was happy for her to take this further.

Sure enough, the next evening he met her from work and they went to a nearby pub. Later, still in her work uniform of black trousers and dark green polo shirt, they walked past her shop on the way to his flat. It was a 24-hour store so she was seen with him by not only work colleagues but also the group of young lads that would often frequent the pavement outside. I'm sure they all knew where Chris was taking her and what for! Once at his flat they were soon kissing and he made short work of getting that polo shirt off and her white bra soon followed.

They were soon in bed where he eagerly fucked her using one of the condoms I'd bought for her. After a cigarette and a coffee, they were ready to go again, this time Debbie mounting him whilst he kissed her lips and neck and sucked on her tits. She said she had to get home to her husband and kids, but he wasn't done with her yet and fucked her again before he let her get dressed.

Being a gentleman he walked her to the station, again past the shop, and even travelled with her on the train, but stayed on it to go straight back. I was waiting for her there to drive her home and as we drove they were texting each other. She typed that she wanted, "a bit on the side, a toyboy." He replied, "Well, you've got one now. A toyboy to fuck your brains out."

We went straight to bed and she was soon telling me about her evening as we made love. She asked me if she could carry on seeing him, "train him up", "teach him some new tricks" and we discussed how often she should/would be able to see him and the possibility of her staying with him overnight from time to time. This all sounded good to me and I found myself agreeing to all her suggestions. The knowledge that my wife now had a young "bit on the side" excited me.

The next day or two though I suddenly felt really anxious and insecure. What if he was better than me? What if he was bigger than me? What if she left me for him? We'd previously agreed that if either of us were unhappy with the situation she'd stop and having aired my concerns, that's what happened. This however made Debbie feel bad. Chris hadn't been in or contacted her since their date night so that didn't help. She felt he'd just been after one thing and now he'd had her, that was it. She felt dirty and used, especially knowing that people at work and those lads outside the shop were now aware of what an easy lay she'd been. We think he told them that he'd fucked her as within days she was hit on by at least 2 of the teenagers hoping for some married pussy too. They never gave her any problem though, being quite protective when she was working at night.

We had a few quiet days, but I was able to re-assure her that no harm had been done. I still loved her, she loved me too. I wanted her to go with another man so couldn't complain that she had and she'd had the young cock that she had been craving so it was a win-win situation surely? We got over it, but Debbie said that she'd "never go down that road again". As the years passed, and I broached the subject from time to time, this became a "maybe", then later still she asked, "Would you be able to handle it better this time?" "Yes", was my response.

And so it came to pass, over 9 years after her one-night stand with Chris - he did ask her eventually for a repeat, but was declined - that Debbie embarked on some new experiences. The advent of the internet and social media helped her now, with Facebook and dating sites opening up her horizons. now 44, he had herself a 25 year-old paratrooper, a 28 year-old security guard, her friend's step-dad and a former work colleague of mine who I didn't like but she did! Even our original ground-rules of her not fucking anyone I knew and to always use condoms went out the window there as she went to Mick's house and was fucked vigorously bareback. She came home with a red, puffy, gaping, well-used pussy and I enjoyed my first ever sloppy seconds! He is now my friend on Facebook and we occasionally chat online about him fucking Debbie and I love hearing how he'd pounded her that afternoon and how she kept going back for more and liked it rough.

So don't be too disheartened by your wife's current subdued mood. Re-assure her and give her lots of loving and comfort and I'm sure everything will be fine!
Peter C

Very sound advice!
Cuck who loves a creampie.

Peter C
Thanks for sharing - what an amazing experience you have with your wife. How did you in fact handle it after your wife started to cuckold you again?

I'm not really sure to be honest Larry. I just put it down to us having been together for 20 years by then and having both grown older and wiser, it was a strong, trusting relationship.

The downside to my story however is that Debbie started to get more secretive about who she was seeing and when. I still don't really understand why as she knew I fully approved of her getting extra cock and I always enjoyed her telling me about it later. Maybe her letting my ex-workmate fuck her bareback was her way of showing that she wasn't going to accept my rules. More a case of her pussy, her rules.

I only found out quite recently that when she was supposed to be at her friend's at weekends, she was actually more often than not at her friend's step-dad's flat. Her friend told me that he said Debbie was a lovely shag and gave great blow-jobs. Similarly, I have also recently discovered from chatting to my ex-colleague on Facebook that he fucked her more than the twice she told me about, including plenty of sex on a week away together when I thought she was on holiday with the young squaddie she'd met!

In bed one night after returning from a session with the soldier I asked her if he was better in bed than me. Without batting an eyelid, she replied, "Yes." This turned me on so much that I asked her to repeat what she said. "He's better in bed than you" made me shoot my load on her belly and pussy. "You'd better get down there and clean that up", she said, and I did. We never had sex again and she moved out about a year later, moving in with a guy two doors up the street! We divorced in 2014 and she's still with that guy, though they have moved to another part of town.

I wouldn't say her cuckolding me was a factor in our divorce though. I think we just drifted apart and became more like brother and sister. I still miss being cuckolded though.
Peter C

Peter C
9. Thanks for sharing. There's always some risk. Lots of joy in cuckolding, but also lots of pain. Thanks
D

Sounds like your wife is being very immature about all this.

Put your foot down and be a man, tell her to stop acting like a little girl and not respecting you enough to talk to you as an adult.

Either she want's to do it or she doesn't, she shouldn't pout afterwards or blame you because the bull turned out to be a dud.

Why don't you try something small with her the next time, just have her give a guy a handjob. Put on something sexy and hand job the guy.

You two need to take baby steps into this lifestyle and tell her not to clam out and pout after the fact. Communication is important. If she's unable to communicate her feelings and desires, drop her.