Why not carry some revealing photos of her and make the arrangements for her. I once got my wife a bull that way. I pretty much know what type of men she fancies. I met with the guy, showed him photos of her in bra and panties, he liked what he saw and I arranged for my wife and I to meet him Friday night at a bar and lounge of a hotel where I had procured a room for the night. After a few takes and letting the two of them dance with each other a while they were both excited with the hots for each other and ready to go upstairs. I had a cooler with ice cubes and takes waiting in the room and we all had a wonderful time. My wife got fucked good and proper and I got to stick my tongue in her ear and suck her toes while he pounded his cock into her. She went absolutely wild with lust and she climaxed with screams of pleasure so loud I thought the neighbors would call security on us!. Turned out to be a win-win-win situation for all 3 of us.
