So very new....any advice?

Basic info about me...39 years old, very happily married for the past 15 years. Hubby and I are swingers and have a great time at it. We are very open minded and have no mental hang ups. We have always "played" together. Lately he has mentioned how hot it would be for me to go out and hook up with some random guy. The conversations we have had about it have been so erotic that I mentioned to a friend that it was intriguing. I was in dis-belief about hubby's interest. Well this friend, who I am all hot and bothered for, turned me onto this site. I have been trolling the boards for a solid week. Love reading the stories and posts that are on here.
Any advice you "veterans" of the site could bestow about how to go forward from here? I understand communication is key but how much should I tell him? every last detail? give him the information in small doses like a goody trail? I am not exactly sure about how to go forward on this....

I think it would be best to ease him into it. Maybe some fantasy talk during foreplay. Tell him you get turned on thinking of going on a "date" with a very hung guy and coming home for him to inspect. Tell him you have fantasies of coming home and telling him how hung the guy was, how rough he was in bed with you and how good he pleased you.

And if you end up doing it for real you can gauge how aroused your husband is. Lay in the bed, spread your legs wide and show him your used pussy. Tell him how good you got fucked and then tell him you are craving to have him lick you...

I think you guys are in for some fun if it goes well...please keep us posted on the progress

Hi,
My wife and I got started like you... we were swingers and about the same age and marriage length. I (hubby) told her how I was into her playing w/o me. Since we were already members of a prominent swinging site, it's easy to transition into this safely. I'd ask him the very questions you're asking here... he will probably be happy to let you know his preferences!
Good luck and keep us posted!

About communication... for you, girls, it's very easy to know if what you are saying is "good" or not, for your partner. Just see his reaction between his legs. This is a foolproof way of knowing how far to go.
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Tigertail:

First of all.... WELCOME to the site!


Here's my 2 cents worth of advice, and this is a game we played often.

My wife would go out to a local bar that had a band playing and connect with a guy, then bring him back to our house for playtime. She would say that her husband was either out of town, or worked 3rd shift. I would be upstairs in bed waiting to hear her return and proceed to have her brains fuck out in the living room.

At times, I would tip toe to the top of the stairs and listen to his balls slapping her ass as they both came. Afterwards I would slip back to our bed and wait for her to come up and sit on my face. It was exciting as hell for both of us..... I was there for her safety if the guy turned out to be an asshole. There were several different scenarios we explored with her being a hot wife, but this is one way to start your adventure.

That was a game my 2nd wife and I played. My current wife and I still play, but in a different kind of way.

Cuck who loves a creampie.

Hi Tigertail,

Welcome to the site.

I would say tell him all, it is what will make him enjoy it all the more. Dont get into having just one bull, quite often relationships or feelings can develop with long standing bulls which is not what we sought or have had to deal with, and having a constant supply of young bulls kept it fresh and exciting...that stranger element.

Above all make sure he (hubby) is getting what he wants from it, via clear communications, and respect each others limits.

Other than that go fuck and suck as many cocks as possible and keep us posted on your exploits.