Low libido wife --> husband interested in hotwifery. Common?

Hi all,
My situation is just that, my wife is really not all that interested in sex... Not asexual (not by a long shot), but she's maybe a 3 times a month girl. While in my perfect world I'm a 3 times a week man, even at my middle age. I'm wondering if that is the source of my interest in this topic... Maybe subconsciously, I think that maybe if she was exposed to other men, she'd be more interested overall.

Thoughts? How many other members find yourself in similar situations? I would bet quite a lot, because if the wife was giving you all you wanted, then you probably wouldn't be taking the time to be here.

Please, no flames or BS humor. I'm honestly interested in hearing the prevalence of this situation.

It is hard to say. All you know right now is that she only wants sex 3 times a month...with you. The question: would she be more interested in sex with other lovers or with multiple lovers? Perhaps.

Your circumstances support a speculation of mine, namely that sexual frustration is common, if not a constant, among the
ingredients that make a Cuckold a Cuckold. I think that for many Cuckolds, that sexual thrill that we all feel at the infidelities of our wives is a sublimation, an adaptive response to long-term sexual frustration. That frustration can have many sources; in your case your spouses' frigidity, in other cases perhaps the exact opposite (her nymphomania), or perhaps ones own sexual inadequacy or disfunction.
Old Enough to know better...but I don't!

Your circumstances support a speculation of mine, namely that sexual frustration is common, if not a constant, among the
ingredients that make a Cuckold a Cuckold. I think that for many Cuckolds, that sexual thrill that we all feel at the infidelities of our wives is a sublimation, an adaptive response to long-term sexual frustration. That frustration can have many sources; in your case your spouses' frigidity, in other cases perhaps the exact opposite (her nymphomania), or perhaps ones own sexual inadequacy or disfunction.
Old Enough to know better...but I don't!

I am in a very similar situation as the OP. my wife is also once or twice a month kind of girl. we are young and i think that this is weird. I am her first. She only made out with guys before marriage and never got serious. and now she is not that interested in sex. And i have these cuckold fantasies which are always in my head and i feel that because i am not good enough for her in bed and thats the reamister she has lost interest in sex etc.

i tried to tell her to get into this life style but she doesnt get it or maybe i cant explain it very well. i have this ego problem as well which comes in between. when i am horny, i wanna be her slave but after the orgasm, i have no feelings etc and i feel ashamed.

FYI, i am indian living abroad in a western world so my wife is cultural as well which is her main concern that this allis wrong and sinful.

I would like being able to check with serious statistics, but I would wager that the vast majority of those man who want to be cuckolded are in the situation you describe.

I think your point is very wise and I would add it as a possible cause of the cuckold phenomenon.
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I am in exactly the same situation. My wife no longer wants sex. I blame myself for not being able to make her cum in our younger years enough. I shoot and get off and we get back to whatever we were doing. I want her to enjoy it enough to want a man with the s*******s to get her off. I think it could become a trained response of the pleasure of it leading to the desire to repeat the pleasure.

Your wife has not yet been awakened sexually. She doesn't know how good it can feel, and since there is the cultural guilt she wishes to avoid it.

It is likely that she will need a man with a large penis to show her what it really is all about. It is likely to be a large white man, since she will not have the cultural association with him, his penis will likely be large, and there often is a preference among indian women for lighter skinned men.

I had dinner with a coworker a number of years ago who was an engaged indian woman. after a few takes she could not keep her hands off my cock (which is not large but i guess large enough at the time) as I dropped her off at her house.

In my case, this is not how I got into cuckolding. I got into it w/my first girlfriend, who had a high sex drive, and my 2nd gf had an even higher drive (and I got more into cucking then). It's true that my current partner, my wife, has a low drive, but I'd be into it regardless. I do think that a low-libido partner is likely the cause for many, though... possibly even more than half. I guess we'd never know for sure what % until someone does a large study!

I wish if its all that easy. :P

She used to like and talk about it but i havent touched this subject for a while. trying to take it slow.