What is a good technique to get wife into the lifestyle

I m very much interested in getting into the lifestyle. But my wife is shy and conservative. Very attractive in late 30s. How do I go about doing it ? Suggestions welcome. In Toronto area.

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start by talking to her and tell her about your feelings and desires.

I agree, have to talk with her.

Yeah I agree with what Gsndhyte said. What I meant was open up to her about your fantasies slowly and see how she reacts. I did this with my first wife, of course she was sexually inexperienced and also shy at first. She left me for a guy with a bigger dick. My second wife cucks me naturally. Started when we were dating since I had a small dick and she loves BIG ones. Just much more enjoyable when the wife is really into it as well.

Also a good way to start is going to a few swinger clubs to get her miond more opened up to other types of sexuality. Then use porn to see what she likes and does not like

I disagree with you there...if you have a shy reluctant wife, you should not do this. This will surely scare her away from it all.

I agree with those who say...talk

But, you have to talk in the right way. If you start telling her that this is a very erotic fantasy of yours...she must know this first

Then, tel her all about how sexy she is, how you like that other men are looking at her, encourage her to wear a little more revealing cloths...

But I promise you, if she is reluctant...it may take years for her to break through

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Is your wife "shy and conservative" in bed? If not, you stand a chance, but be prepared for a long wait. Start by mentioning the thought of her having sex with another man during foreplay and gently during love-making. If she has a vibrator or dildo, say how watching it going in and out of her turns you on as you imagine it's a real cock pleasuring her.

If she responds favorably to this fantasy role-play, you've made a start, but then you must take things slowly, with gentle persuasion and encouragement. Definitely tell her that you enjoy catching other men checking her out. Hopefully she'll see that you are not threatened by this and take the attention as a compliment. It will boost her ego and self-confidence knowing she is still attractive to other men.

Don't rush her. Don't mention the idea of her relaxing with another man every time you make love. Gradually you may find her joining in the fantasy. She will see how aroused the thought makes you and you may well notice how horny it makes her.

Be prepared for her to think that you don't love her anymore if you are willing to let another fuck your wife and she may also think it's a ploy by you to screw other women.
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I like the advice I've read regarding talking to her. You're more than allowed to say what you want. If you don't your marriage is in danger from all those non-communicaton-type issues. But if she does not like the idea you can't just keep beating her over the head with it. It may never happen. The fantasy ideas above are good. They may be as far as it ever goes, or they may be steps in a long process, you never know.

With my ex-wife, the first to cuckold me a lot, we would play fantasy games in bed like I was the mailman or something. Then I found that it was a real turn-on later the same night when the fantasy was that I came home and she told me she fucked the mailman!
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I agree 100%

The conservative woman is a princess locked in a dungeon. She is not free to fly and enjoy her body. She was formed in the idea of "suffering is good and enjoy is bad". It's the responsibility of her husband release her from that primister.

Indeed, communication is essential to achieve this freedom, but I would add information. Porn, yes, there are porn that can be useful. Erotic stories may be useful too. Also serious books about sexuality. Read together, watch together, walk hand in hand with learning about sexuality. Is not coincidence that there is a correlation between educational level of people and his liberal condition.
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Exactly my wifes reaction but we have moved on from that has taken a long time and i am still waiting to be cucked but hoping its just a matter of time

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Thanks for the advice. Will try talking to her to dress sexy. This will get her to show more. Summer is here & thats a plus in getting her the bikini and take her to the pool in the gym.

Good luck! Keep us posted on how it goes. (Also, a few pics in (or not in) that bikini would be great )
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