The odd worry or two!

Okay guys here goes,

I've been trying to coax my new girlfriend into the cuckolding lifestyle and we've spoken about it a few times and thankfully she's very open and listens to everything I say and then shares her thoughts on it. She knows I take a very submissive role and that my major kink is to lick her clean after another guy has come inside her. I put this idea to her and she said that she's not sure she'd enjoy it and wanted me to just stick to cleaning my own from her, but for me nothing is better than licking another mans come from your girlfriends pussy, it's so much kinkier and gets me way more excited...

So far it seems like there's room to maybe convince her but she (and I admittedly) have a few worries. My ex GF just slept around so these didn't exist but we worry that if I get her to initiate sex with someone to live out the fantasy, we're worried that who ever we choose might become attached to her and want something more serious, we're looking to get engaged so this isn't a complication we'd like, is it really possible to find a guy who just wants to fuck her and leave? This is her major worry I think and I'd really hate to get involved in that, are there people who do this who don't have an emotional attachment?

I'm 21 and shes 19 nearly 20 so we're still young and naive on this subject, but I've had it done a few times from a slutty ex and I know I love it. Do I have the wrong idea? I think it's hot that she would date before getting fucked but I really don't want the guy to develop serious feelings for her..

Would LOVE to hear your opinions and thoughts about it.

Permisterally, I think you're too young. You two have not been together long enough to develop the strong relationship and trust needed for a cuckold lifestyle. It's good that you can talk about it though. There is also the possibility of course that your girlfriend might develop feelings for this new guy.

I was 41 and my wife 35 before we embarked on her fucking other guys wth my knowledge and approval, but even then we had problems with her feeling used and dirty and my own jealousy and insecurity. Nearly 10 years later, both older and wiser, we decided to try it again with much better results, such that she has now been with another 3 men.
Peter C

We very much agree with Peter!

Have her fuck married men who have too much to lose if their wife finds out. These guys are very discrete and will not be bothering her all the time.

i agree wiith Smitty older married men just want the sex and buzz then will leave her alone. However, she may well lose her self esteem and any she has for you that could change how she feels for you forever. Thinking with your cock always carries risk but ohh those yummy pies!

no matter what your age or how long you have been together it's always a risk, just like it's a risk for HER to have feelings for what ever guy you choose.
There are plenty of guys out there that will gladly stick their cock in your gf and move on to the next one, no feelings whatsover...

Peter C
Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate it. I know we're young but were looking to get engaged so we know we're happy together but I understand the risk and don't want that complication, I'll see how it goes!


Smitty
That's a good idea. Never thought of that. But we would hate to be home wreckers if he developed feelings for her, she's only 19 so...much to think about!

sc03
I understand your and everyone else's point about the risk. We will have to talk it over and see what she says. Is there really though? I thought most men would jump at the chance to bareback my 19 year old girl but it hasn't seemed that way, maybe we're doing it wrong. I'll keep everyone posted.
Cheers

One way to do it is to join an Online swingers cluc. SDC (Swingers Date Club)is a good one (My wife met her first BBC on it) and also Adult Friend Finders. Also going to a swingers club.

My wife just started cucking me naturally so it worked out. I will never forget the first time my wife came home with another mans cum in her pussy and all over her panties.

If you are truly in love it will all be fine and fun

jewelssubhub
I like the adult friend finders website or even here. Just don't want the emotional attachment! I just cannot wait for her to do that! Watching her get screwed by another guy will be so hot! Thought makes her wet too so it's a start! Cheers for all the advice guys.

First: congratulations for exploring your sexuality openly with your partner and thinking through consequences together. Very mature and a great sign of the path you have before.

Second: you and your relationship are almost certainly too young for this sort of thing. This is a lifestyle that works best for couples who have a lot of history together and a totally iron-clad bond. It adds excitement and variety to spice up their lives, but can't damage their relationship because it is too strong to be injured by some sexual adventures. It isn't so simple if your relationship is new or weak or mostly-strong-but-flawed. These people get into deep trouble as often as not. The good news is, it is incredibly exciting to plan and prepare for cuckolding/hotwife/swinger situations. In many respects, it is as exciting as the real thing. A build up of months or even years isn't too long. While doing that, there are lots of games you can play: video chatting with single men or couples; flirting at lifestyle-freindly venues. etc.

Third: if/when you are ready to proceed, FIND A GROUP OF SWINGERS. This is essential. Swingers are not exactly the same thing as cuckold/hotwife enthusiasts, but they generally understand them. More importantly, swingers are a large, interactive and generally experienced group, and every one of them comes equiped with a primary relationship they don't intend to break just for sex. Swingers can be sources of education, a community to hang with, and a source of sex partners. And, just because you wnat to be a passive cuckold in a scene doesn't mean a swinger couple couldn't satisfy you. The ones we know have been around the block lots of times and wouldn't be at all stressed out by playing in a scene where just the husband got laid.
darslangly

explore the fantasy in bed for awhile. Not every time you have sex, but now and again. Maybe use a dildo or vibrator on her and pretend you're watching another guy fuck your girlfriend. Tell her how naughty she is doing that in front of you, but you've no intention of stopping her. Ask her who the guy is. See how worked up she gets at these thoughts.
Peter C