Why Are We The Weird Ones?

I was driving to work this morning and found myself asking myself this question. Why are we the weird ones or oddball ones? Think about this...

A guy spends his entire teen years and much of his 20's (if he doesn't marry) looking for an easy piece of ass. Sluts and whores are fine and in most cases preferred since they don't get all emotional. If she has been with 15 or 20 or 40 guys before him, it is fine. Then when he decides to settle down and get married he wants the exact opposite. He wants a good girl. A virgin if possible. If his "wife to be has been fucked by 30 or 40 guys then she isn't marriage material. He wants a little innocent princess.

Then there is us. We also wanted to fuck the sluts and whores. But when we decided to settle down we were OK if she had been fucked. We were OK if she had a reputation. In some cases we even sought out the freaky girls, the sluts and/or the ones who had a reputation. We married the type of girl that we sought when we were younger.

Now that we are married to a slut and we are OK with it and even like it, we are the oddballs. How ignorant is that?!! We knew what we wanted from day 1 and we got it and we are happy. The other idiots who wanted a slut but married an angel are unhappy and getting divorced and we are the weird ones. I think society has this one all twisted up.
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Well said, excellent point

Totally agree stub, another thing that got pointed out to me by a very friendly self confessed 'slut' called Gabby that I had a voice conversation with the other day was the hypocrisy of the norms looking down their noses at those who play away from their hubs in a open and honest way is that the 'norms' go sneeking around doing these things in the quiet in their marriages and relationships, fucking around like crazy under the radar which although not condoned by society at large certainly isn't considered with the same distaste at peoples open and honest sexual choices where their not hurting others partners who may or may not remain blind to sneeking around with deviant activity!
I had to agree of course it is absurd and seemingly harmful the way the 'norms' carry on and when you consider divorce in the west is running at 50% it's about time the 'norms' 'fessed up!
Turning society on its head it's the 'norms' that are the real deviants and we are wanting to do what just should come naturally!
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I agree as well. In fact when I got divorced I decided I wanted to marry a slutty woman. My first wife was the innocent type and ended up leaving me for another man because I my lack of dick size (I am 4.5 inches) So I started dating and met a girl online. We agreed to meet for takes. The very first night at the bar she was rubbing my dick through my pants and sucked my cock in the parkign lot. That very next night I fucked her......well she fucked me lol. I knew if she fucked me that easy she has fucked many that easy. About a year into dating she started cucking me, slowly at first then more and more until she was dating black guys, even fucked a guy she met at our wedding. One day she counted and had well over 80 guys fuck her that she recalled. And about 10 after we married. Being a cuck is just my sexal nature and is how I am wired. So it is only natural that a cuck and slut work perfect together. He gets what he wants, licking used pussy YUMMMM, and she gets to spread her legs for all the cocks she wants.

Very well said! Couldn't agree more! I like a woman with a decent sex drive who is comfortable being sexual with others. Unfortunately, my wife has a below-average (but not non-existent) sex drive... still, she was open to swinging (we did for awhile). Fortunately, she is into the cucking kink and it gets her more in the mood (although her sex drive is still not high)... guess this is the best kink for us!

Keith at least we get to enjoy being cucked for real. My wife has times when she is actively dating and fucking several guys, then times where it slows down to almost nothing. But even during those nothing times she just loves cucking me and reminding me that other men take her pussy. Tis a great life!! She has been in a lull time for a few months but a few days ago she started texting one of her old black Bfs so she seems to be craving BBC again

Most people use mutual agreement and discretion as a springboard to (possible) controversial activities. Other people allow their masturbatory fantasies to blind themselves to the potential adverse ramifications of cuckolding.

Maybe 50% of marriages fail. I believe a far larger percentage of cuckold/swinger marriages go down the toilet. Whether we like it or not, the laws of nature and physics rule us all.

Probably the best policy and advice here is: Mum is the word! Nobody else's business! Why give people an opportunity to meddle with your kink?

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Well 50% divorce rate is the national average anyway! My first wife and I started the kind of swinger thing at first. She did not have that much sex experience so she had no idea that my 4.5 incher was that small. Well she had some great sex with some hung guys and left me for a guy with a big dick. In fact she even told me that was why she wanted a divorce. This time around I knew better. My current wife of 10 years now has fucked a LOT of men before me, about a year into dating she started cucking me. 10 years later we are both very happy.
So if you are a cuck and not married you need to find a woman that has sexual interests like you or IASP is right...it will end in disaster most likely

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<< Maybe 50% of marriages fail. I believe a far larger percentage of cuckold/swinger marriages go down the toilet. >>

Why do you think that?

Most of the swingers I have known over the years have said that they think it makes their marriages stronger.

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Swinger and cuckold marriages are not necessarily doomed to failure. My experiences indicate to me that many couples play around with husband and wife following their own individual agendas. Just because a hubby is ecstatic when wifey's loins are soiled doesn't mean that she is enjoying it for the same reamister. Women play for their own permisteral pleasure where the hubby always ends up "settling" for whatever crumbs she decides he's worth. You may notice that the vast majority of cuckolds continually get less and less from wifey the longer she's being serviced elsewhere. It is also possible that very few men are able to regain control of the marriage and be the "man" ever again in wifey's eyes. It is often pretty easy for a man to rule a wimp's household. Wanking hubbies can be a real embarrassment for a self respecting wife! There are exceptions of course but many couples discover too late that they didn't consider all of the variables to cuckoldry.
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How is the social struggle that occurred within the LGT community inherently different to the idea of a beginning of a search for acceptance in cuckolding?
I permisterally feel such a thing will happen off the back of the swingers / polygamous communities current struggle.
I can't see a reamister why it couldn't happen as you look at it in the light of the particular other struggle of LGT community.
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where the cuck curious get in trouble is marrying the socially accepted good girl THEN hoping she will come around to a wilder worldview. That is why so many of us constantly struggle to convince our ladies to try something slutty. now, maybe it is probably easier to start with a slut, but when is any sexuality so cut and dried? How many of us cucks know exactly what we want before we get married? how many women know the full measure of whet their appetites might be a decade later, after having kids, etc.? I don't think I understood my own curiosity until after I felt I was disappointing my wife.
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Yes, the double standard in our society makes the 'norms' look twisted to me.

The ideal for us cucks is what I used to call "an easy piece of ass". This is the kind of girl that can be had for the price of a beer or even just a wink and a smile. She spreads her legs wide and often. Usually she has lost count of how many different cocks have had her and doesn't care. She sometimes tries to project the impression of respectability but she can't help but listen to her pussy when a hot male is around.

God bless 'em. THEY are the real "good girls"
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I am in almost the identical situation only I've only been married once and still am. My college girlfriend before my wife did leave me with no chance of reconcilliation (long story but my small cock never "came" up as a reamister). My wife fucked me on our very first date and took me bareback (I was actually her first bareback cock as she was 19 and I was 21). I knew she was a slut which is what attracted me to her in the first place after my last relationship with a very conservative, but horny, good girl. Like you I knew that if she fucked me that easily then she was definitely a slut (which I mean as a compliment). It took 3 years into dating (which was two weeks before our wedding) before she fucked another guy, but that opened up the whole divide and she has been fucking other guys ever since.

When I was in college, I rapidly got to the point where if the girl didn't fuck me on the first date, there wasn't a second one. I got really tired of time-wasters and game players.

My wife had me eating her pussy about 20 minutes into our first date, and we were fucking very shortly after. She's fucked hundreds(or maybe more) men and I'm very happy about it.
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