Why do you think so many of us cucks cum when soft?

I used to be able to get hard over just thinking about sex. Now I'm lucky if I can get hard for a few minutes. I have to have extreme humilation or be reading or watching some really hard core cuckold porn. What do you think causes this change? Usually when I am allowed to jack off in front of my wife and her boyfried, I am totally soft when I cum.

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Same here. Even with viagra I can barely keep a hard dick for more than two minutes. I have to jack off for hours to hard core offense porn or have my wife watch me while she calls me an asskisser and tells me to eat my cum

Your question is very interesting.

Indeed, as with any other pleasure in life (such as music, food, etc..), as we try something many times, the taste for it is lost and we need other things to excite/enjoy. This happens with food, with mistergs and with sexual practices (no matter how delicious they are). I guess it is due to a brain mechanism that induces us to always look for new things (issue that is closely related to infidelity). Perhaps the same mechanism which leads man to the discovery of other sites and knowledge.

According to the above, it is possible that even the offense, now enjoy for you, with time lost and you need other things.

I do not know, it would be nice if someone who knows more about it enlighten us.
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It really has affected me...being a cuck. My wife's boyfriends laugh when I cum soft. The feeling is just as intense, I just don't get hard. I do take a viagra sometimes just for masturbation purposes. It works a little.

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Interesting, slemix...not sure I agree though. I think in my case it's more of a mindset problem. I am a cuckold and I WANT to remain a cuckold. Thinking of fucking my wife doesn't turn me on, but thinking of her BEING fucked sure does. I don't think this is the same thing as you describe.

I think age has something to do with it. As we get older, our body doesn't produce as much testosterone. Another is I think we become jaded. I know both affect me. I keep having to find wierder types of pornography to climax to. Even when I fuck, I generally get errect for awhile but then my little penis loses interest. If I am with a different woman at swing party, I get errect and finish as fast as possible so I don't lose my errection. I could carealess about how much pleasure they receive because they are just sperm receptacles.

There are just so many variations on a theme. We sometimes like things too much that inertia carries us far past our interest. It's like trying to rekindle a wild party at 5 AM. The wad has been blown. Basically, we tend to run things into the ground, and are so intent on our interests that we eventually must realize a plan B was sorely needed. Bitch of a cycle to break!
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I have had my testosterone checked and it's fine. I suspect there is something in the brain that "tells" my cock it is no longer needed for fucking or reproducing. Since I can still cum, there is a level of excitement, my brain knows I don't need to satisfy a woman or produce a young. It still feels and looks funny to masturbate for hours on end with a soft cock and yet be able to cum.

Your thinking is solid. It seems to me that you have outgrown masturbation. Try channeling this into a new focus of attention to your wife. See if positive results hopefully happen for the both of you!
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I am perfectly happy not to be able to get hard for cumming. We have a live in boyfriend and I get off on the fact that he can satisfy her and I can't.

since you don't need your cock to get hard before you cum, because you don't try to penetrate your wife's cunt, maybe it just doesn't. why get stiff if there's no real need
joguy

yes thats probally true, i havent penatrated my wife in 5 tears,we are both in our fifties,shesstill hot,she has a boy frind[ a little younger] she sees several times a month,he wont come to our house so i dont get the humilation face to face,but knowing shes doing t is enough,ill get online usally here,and rub my wee wee for hiours,somtimes it gets a little stif,but usally wheni cum its soft and my little bit of cumjust ozes out,it feels good but not likebefore when id stay hard making love to her,its more of a inner orgasm,but iam very satisfied,doing it this way,maybe its knows it doesnt have to be hard just to ozes,

The brain recognizes that our little cocks are no longer needed to fuck women and takes away our ability to stay hard. I am convinced.

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I just read posts #11 - 14 and now believe I have some understanding of this phenomenon! Each of these men obviously love their wives. They feel greatly relieved that capable, qualified men satisfy wives' sexual requirements. Could well be that a perpetually soft (but functional) penis on a contented cuckold is his desired reward -- A cuckold who takes pleasure in his continually limp penis definitely has the proper cuckold's attitude!

Probably, there's a great deal more men that joyfully cum with limp dicks than are willing to admit...

I feel that if a pill that keeps dicks soft were offered along with Viagra, many men would choose soft over hard.


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I usually get hard watching my pretty wife being banged by her black lover, but sometimes I have a premature orgasm (one of my many handicaps) just watching their preliminaries: it simply happens. When it does, I get so angry because they cum all by themselves ...

Hi, this is an interesting theme.
My wife has been fucking a much older guy than me for maany years, who is twice the size of me cock wise.
He instructed my wife to start fucking me while i was limp... and she has perfected a way of having me cum before I am at best semi... I find cumming while limp to be such a turn on....
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i would chose thesoft pill,yess,but i rewally dont need a pill

Loving this comments. It's certainly true that I stay soft now 90% of the time when I cum. I have been carbonsmudgecked out by the doc and nothing is wrong, so I think it has to be due to my mental aspect of being a cuckold.

Any other ideas?

Just wanted to chime in and say hello, enjoying the read of this thread and the banter and permisteral views on this
I dont have a active cuckold part of my life right now, as i am divorced. That is all together another story for another day. But lets hear it from the guys who shoot their load while flaccid. I am healthy, but no wood in the mornings here.
TM

Just wanted to chime in and say hello, enjoying the read of this thread and the banter and permisteral views on this
I dont have a active cuckold part of my life right now, as i am divorced. That is all together another story for another day. But lets hear it from the guys who shoot their load while flaccid. I am healthy, but no wood in the mornings here.
TM

WOW! A thread just for me!

My little dicklet doesn't get hard anymore either. It will if i stroke it a lot while looking at nice cuckold porn, or while licking my wife's pussy or asshole, but even then, it is quite bendable. My wife loves to make fun of this. When she touches it, and it is semi-hard, she makes sure to bend it with her hand and tell me that it is not hard, and that she loves and needs a VERY hard cock.

Of course, as a cuck, i am happy with this and it seems fitting that my dicklet, totally useless for pleasing women, i have been told and am convinced, does not get hard any more. As others have said-- it doesn't need to! My wife doesn't have penetrative sex with me anyway, hasn't for years, and plans on never having it with me again. i Am also able to cum while soft.

Still i wonder, WHY??? Is it physical? Is it psychological? Am i too old (hardly 40)? i Am still very fit otherwise, os i really wonder....

Found this in my wife's private folder in our PC. When I asked her what it meant, she said it was stuff she had been sent over the internet by some friend. When I wanted to know who this friend was and what it meant, she got pissed off and said that was how a real cock should look like, finishing the argument by showing me a face photo of a black guy who she said to be her present boyfriend, the one who had sent her the pic. When I asked for how long they had been 'dating', she laughed at me and said: - Long enough to be completely hooked!

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Testosterone is not necessarily the issue when it comes to getting hard. Here's some information from the Wikipedia entry on Viagra.

"The mechanism of action of sildenafil involves the protection of cyclic guanosine monophosphate (cGMP) from degradation by cGMP-specific phosphodiesterase type 5 (PDE5) in the corpus cavernosum. Nitric oxide (NO) in the corpus cavernosum of the penis binds to guanylate cyclase receptors, which results in increased levels of cGMP, leading to smooth muscle relaxation (vasodilation) of the intimal cushions of the helicine arteries. This smooth muscle relaxation leads to vasodilation and increased inflow of red into the spongy tissue of the penis, causing an erection."

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