found a txt, how can I leverage to get back to being cucked?

Ok, I used to have an "open" marriage with my wife for about 3 months...It was spurned by my cuck fantasies, but she wanted me to be with other women to keep it "fair". We both had sex with a few people. She would tell about her dates...I would not tell her anything. Anyway, she couldn't deal with me with other women and called the whole thing off, which sucked. I still was dating other women (hard to turn off the faucet as it were) and got caught "cheating".
This set back my cuck reality even more.
So anyway...need some advice..
I recently found a text on my wife's cell phone to a former one time make out and 3 month cyber affair buddy (from before the open marriage = cheating). It said: "I hung out at my parents house...I wish I could have seen you"
It would not be so damning, but she changed the contact name on her phone to a husband of one of her friends..so cleary she is trying to hide it
How do I leverage this to get her to start banging guys again?
Do I act all mad and hurt? Then go for the "if you are going to do this, then at least be open about it and help me with my fantasy.."

Thanks

I would not leverage anything. That might damage things further. I would say let her go further, and see what happens. Don't let her know that you know...at least not yet. Down the road further...maybe yes. Keep things on the down low. Take things very slow....sorry didn't mean to rhyme.

Take it easy, give her some time to work things out on her end. Then you can plan a strategy.

Good luck.

I agree with Allen, take it slow and keep your eyes open for more information.

Also, don't take it so hard that she caught you cheating... she was involved with doing that too, before it was out in the open. I don't think she has the right to take a "holy" stance with you now about it.

The only power that her catching you gives is as much as you allow, as much as you're embarrassed by.