Been slowly working this idea into my wife's head for a couple years

Seems like she's finally considering it. When we are fucking or I am getting her off with my hand, I get her to talk about other men she knows and how she would like to fuck them or swallow their cum. She really seems to be getting into it over the past few months. After the sex talk dies down though, she is a bit more conservative. She thinks I won't really be happy if she did this. I have had this fantasy for so long, it makes me hard within seconds of her bringing it up when we are not in bed. I know that I would love it. Every time I jerk off it's while watching a video and imagining it's her getting fucked by some other guy, preferably with a big dick. She's beautiful and I love her, but I would be perfectly happy to watch her get the cuckolds brownie fucked out of her every night for the rest of my life while I jerk off into a napkin.

But, in any case, it seems like we are moving in the right direction. It's taken a long time, but it seems like she is starting to realize the opportunity I am offering her. Sorry if this is long and pointless, I been coming here for years and this is my 1st post and I've had a few beers.

It is clearly a begining, where it leads only time will tell, but, for what it's worth, I would recomend you let her know how much you appreciate what she has already started doing for you, how much it turns you on and how grateful you are she's opening up sexually, stick to that and let the dialog open up from there when she is ready.

I agree. Reinpower your love for her and let her know how much you enjoy it when she does the sex talk when you have sex.

Maybe place an ad on Craigslist just to see the replies. Maybe that will progress her thinking.

Good luck and keep us informed.

Constant reassurance on your part is huge at this point. Telling her you love her, and under not circumstances is this going to lead to anything but her getting sexually satisified by another man.

This is firstly about her, and secondly about you. Tell her that she is, and would be in charge throughout the process if she would decide to try it.

Good luck and if she does cuckold you...enjoy the ride. I would love to read all about it.

Are you really sure you want this?

Are you?

Could you handle this?

Can you?

Now how quickly did you answer?

Did you have to debate it?

What was your answer?


Only when you are sure in your own mind will you have the will to progressing her desire forward.
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My advice is if you really want this don't whine on about it outside of the sex and fantasy talk in the bedroom - constant reassurance outside of this area is going to end with her saying she will never do this.

Friend of mine did the "well baby you going to do this for real now" away from the sex / bedroom in 'normal' conversation and he said he watched her emotions and expressions suddenly take a total turn from where he thought they'd been heading.

I guess it's like someone suddenly finding a brick wall in front of them out of the blue and expecting that permisters psychological disposition being able to cope.
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Took me years before something really happened. One thing we used to do early on which was fun for us both was to go to clubs or bars and let her flirt & dance. She never really went too far with strangers though. So I ended up talking to her a lot about people she worked with that she liked or old friends. Facebooks a great way for a girl to get back in touch with someone she always liked. Good luck.

Thanks for the feedback everyone. I know, it's definitely a work in progress. I am being very careful to not go too far yet and let her become more and more comfortable with the idea, and not put any pressure on her. And I know I'm ready for this, as sure as I could ever really be without having ever actually experienced it. Believe me, this isn't some impulse idea that I just had. It has taken me literally years of buildup and fantasizing.

I was actually surprised the 1st time I realized that this idea turned me on. Actually, I specifically remember the 1st time the idea of cuckolding with my wife occurred to me: before my wife and I had ever dated, she had a one night stand with some guy that worked at the same company as me. A friend of ours actually told me about it when we 1st started dating. The friend told me that my wife (who was my girlfriend at the time) went over to this guys house and got takes and ended up fucking him. My wife had told her about how big his dick was and how much she enjoyed it. Of course, my wife denied it at 1st but she finally fessed up to the encounter. Not that I was mad or anything, cuckolds brownie it happened before we were together so what the fuck did I care? But for some reamister I could not get it out of my head. That my beautiful gf had fucked this guy with a horse cock and obviously enjoyed it enough to talk about it with our friends at work, for some reamister it really turned me on. I even dreamed about it. Over the years similar thoughts always have managed to turn me on. The mere mention of her talking about going out fro takes with some friends from work makes my dick get hard, since that has been a recurring theme during sex, as to a potential rendezvous for her to hook up with someone.

She is actually out tonight with them, as she goes out once or twice a month with these guys. She laughed it off when I jokingly brought up the idea tonight, but now I know she knows I am serious. I have planted the seed, and she has been mostly receptive and open to the idea. I am going to keep my hopes up, but temper my expectations for now- I really think it's still a long way from reality at this point. I know it will take a lot of work on my part, but I am willing to do what I have to do. Nothing turns me on more than the thought of her getting fucked or sucking off a guy and coming home full of cum, I swear to Christ. She knows I love her and am crazy about her, and her fucking another man will never change that.

The way it sounds to me is, she will do it! What I have experienced is that when your wife is out with friends sooner or later someone will hit on her and flirt with her and flirt some more, when all of a sudden she's making out with him and she gives him a blowjob. O wait thats my wife

It will happen! 1) Help dress her when she goes out and 2) just in case she doesn't tell you, lick her every night