new at this would like some pointers

My husband of 18 years is what i believe to be a cuck. we have been in a relationship with his best friend for a while now. we have played some and have experieced some really hot sex. i enjoy fucking his best friend in front of him while he watches. and it gets him so very hot and horny. it is time to take this to the next level. his friend is very willing to participate. it is even hotter for me because it is his best friend. We have gone away on little mini getaways for the three of us in the past but it always seems that they end up stressful. I am in need of some cucking ideas to keep my husband on the short leash so to speak. My husband tends to want to set the tone with ideas of what he wants and that is what i have problems with. in a true cuck world he does not get the pleasure of getting what he wants. I need to hear from some of you that have done this before . Give me some great ideas to use. we will be in an atmospher that is not completely discreet. we will know some people so this trip needs to be a little low key...but there will be more trips to come.

thanks....i want to blow him away time and time again!!!