Found out years later...

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Similar situation happened to me.

Now is your chance. You know she desires being with more than one man... You know that all it takes is a little cuckold water to get her ready to swallow any stranger's cock...

I honestly think women are at first embarassed of this desire. It is naughtier for them if they go behind your back to do another man, rather than do it with you.

If you continue to talk about the other man with her to get you both off sexually, you will be confused for awhile, but eventually you will beg her night after night to do it again -- and if she can, she will.

forget the deceit and take advantage now
undreds of millions of guys would loce to be in your place
make her the slut you always wanted her to be
and enjoy
kiss

For most of us, you are in an enviable situation and will mostly get encouragement to support your wife in her pursuit of bigger cocks that make her come good.

Do you really think she did not enjoy that big hard cuck in her pussy? I'll bet she fucked him every night you were gone!
joe

I know how you feel. Same thing happened to me, except it was 25 years later, most of that time with me enduring the subsequent marriage from Hell because she blamed me for her cheating. You can read my story elsewhere on this site so I won't repeat it here. There are many similarities to your story.

Yes, we poor dumb males of the species are very easily fooled by our women. Don't you believe for one moment she did not fuck him. She will never admit to the full story. And once a cheater, always a cheater. So she'll be looking at other men forever, and may have already bagged a few since her first one.

Take advantage of it. Make lemonade out of your lemon of a marriage. I did. You've nothing to lose and everything to gain. Good luck.

The last few posts that tell you to take advantage of the situation are so right. If I had known how long and hard I had to work to turn my wife into the slut that I wanted, I could have save a lot of trouble by marrying one of the many sluts I dated before marrying. I was finally able to turn my 'good girl' into a slut but it took a loooong time. Much easier if you marry a slut in the first place. Sounds like your wife really did you a favor, only you just haven't realized it yet. You have much to be thankfull and appreciative for.

Well some time has gone by, and each day is different... some days are OK, some days are good, and some days the mere sight of her makes my skin crawl. I suppose this is pretty normal.

Same thing recently happened to me, and of course the denial about sex, just ORAL SEX....YEAH! But, anyway. You might as well enjoy what has happened and will no doubt continue.