In Jan she was recieving treatment for a minor work injury. When she got home , she was telling we that her doctor held her hands during her visit and was hiting on her. She has had only one lover, but has changed her mind. In fact she is relaxing with him tonight. And yes he is a black man standing over 6 feet. I will let you know what happened when she comes home. I love her so much and yet I can not please her. I can not ask her to stop and I know I will never leave her. All I can do is to take care of her other needs and hope that she never leaves me. Could you leave this sweet baby?