My definition of a cuckold

To me Cuckold is a man of submissive nature that in all things puts his wife/s foremost.

I have been married four times, and in each marriage I was cuckolded.

In each marriage the turn on for me was not so much sexual as more a way in which I could prove my love for my wife/s.

I was trained to do all the household things, cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc.; I also was used as a chauffer, whenever a wife/s needed to go out.

My wages always went into our joint account, with my wife/s being the only one with access to withdraw assets.

I used to prepare my wife/s for there outings with there lover/s, drawing there baths, preparing there outfits for there excursions, always making sure that when they went to meet there lover/s that the would be the most sexually appealing to them.

On the rare occasions that I was allowed to be with my wife and her lover of the time, I would be expected to undress my wife and her lover, then prepare them both sexually with my mouth. If her lover was feeling very horny I would have to bring him to orgasm in my mouth taking care to swallow all his emission and not spill a drop. It would then be my task to ready him for his first bout with my wife.

After each climax that they both had I was granted the privilege of cleaning them up, preparing snacks and takes for them while they relaxed.

My permisteral sex life was virtually non existent, I was only allowed to cum on high days and holidays. On those occasions I was allowed only one minute to cum with my hand. Failing to do so, I would have to wait till the next special day.

Though constantly frustrated I considered it I privilege to serve my wife and her lover my ultimate purpose in life.

Now without a wife I feel so lonely, and long for the days in the past when I could take care of my wives.

my little useless clitty

sissy susan

I must ask the question were you cuckold or just a complete mug!...
four wives...and now you are all alone... says something doesnt it.
as her cuckold of course the way she used you was correct..but they had no love for you... a cuckolds Mistress Wife will have love for her man, respect too..you subservience is a gift and she would know this and respect it. Of course i do understand how this respect can be diminished over time with constant use it can be taken for granted, especially if she was to find a bull who really knew how to treat her. But by and large, a cuckold relationship within a marriage is underpinned by a very deep and understanding love of each others needs... this is generally why women find a cuckold such a perfect husband...as its a rare thing to find a man with such devotiona nd such qualities.
Yes we are there to be used and used, to clean cook crawl and serve her in any way she demands... but 4 wives in a row...either your making some serious errors of judgement and not learning, a very unlucky cuck or just plain stupid. As a cuck you are entitled to choose a woman initially that you know loves you. Either that or make a contract of ownership for life with a Mistress who will not drop you so easily.
I do not know the full circumstance of your relationships so I am wrong to judge you so harshly maybe, but next time try and ensure you give yourself to someone deserving of your devotion...fuck it, not many men can hack this life for real, women should understand this and most women will cherish it...you will find a good one if you just dont jump at the first that comes along.
wk

dude not to rain on your parade.but that cuckolds brownie you expressed has nothing to do with cuckolding.thats a lot of sub dom play ect humilition ect.... which initialy has nothing to do with the basic play of cuckolding.remember people come on here to read and find out what it's about.FOR ME it's letting my loving wife loose to have fun and playing with her slutty little side she loves it she likes the fredom to grab a guy and fuck him without any strings attached she comes home and tells me about it or vids it or brings them home and we tag team her i'm never left out never denied.there has to be respect both ways.she loves me and i come first if the guy doesn't likeit he's history.

panty hubby,

Thanks for sharing! As someone who currently enjoys a marriage very much like those you describe having, I have to say that I don't agree with you definition. I love my life, but I do not consider my role as the maid, her control of finances, and even the restrictions on my sexual self-pleasure to be "cuckolding." They are presentation and it makes ours a D/S relationship, but it would be so (and at times has been) even if she did not have other lovers.

In our case it is certainly true that the various fetish practices expanded and deepened in tandem, but they are still separate things. Cuckolding is undeniably a D/S lifestyle, but to me that doesn't mean it need include any other D/S fetishes.

lenascuck,

Whoa! Why so judgmental? Touch a nerve? How do you know panty hubby's wives "had no love" for him? That is a pretty sweeping statement about people you've never even met. Your whole post seems to be predicated on the idea that it is tragic that panty hubby has had four wives instead of just one. How do you know he didn't enjoy seeing his marriages broken up that way and revel in the loss and offense? For that matter, how do you even know that is what happened each time. Maybe some of the marriages broke-up for reamisters totally separate from the kinks. (Maybe, even, HE broke some of them off.) Maybe some of them died.

However his marriages ended, the only thing I read him to say was that he wishes he was not alone right now. You are assuming a lot from that. You are also preaching, rather condescendingly, on the one true and only way that cuckold relationships should be. Sounds to me like panty hubby has plenty of experience here and I didn't notice him asking for advice, just conversation. Your views seem intelligent and useful to me, (maybe because I agree with much of them) but why did you have to deliver them in such a belligerent tone?
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