Let me start by telling you about my sweet wife. She is a fillipina, 38 tears old,4.11. with hair to her ass. She is the sweetest, most loving permister I have ever known. She is a nurse, and has a gift that makes people feel better just by her presence. About 8 months after our marriage, a strange thing happened to me. Out of the blue, I realized that that I honestly loved her and that I would love her forever, no matter what.It was a frightening,wonderful, comforting feeling that I still have. Because of this I cannot get mad at her when she is with her lover. I may hurt for a little while but that is becuase of my failure to give her the kind of pleasure that she gets from him.