maybe 8ball is the mod or sarah or  steel knight or auroracobi or or susie etc etc. i used to think it was micky & lyn...... but all seems so secretive in there

other rooms would be good as would a private room feature. 
we would oft go in  and meet and send them away to another chat site with pvt rm feature and talk there undisturbed before giving more permisteral correspondence info
 my wife likes to chat but seldom goes in any more as she has more than enough chat friends through facebook and msn.
 if it is the pics that bother the most i can not offer any other than what i have already.
have never seen fetish in  and only minimal minor pics.....the chicks with dics  seem to pop up alot though ...yuck lol