rsmith1us
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My wife and I are in our late 50's. In our early 40's we got fairly involved in cuckold contacts, though we'd never heard of the term. But that's what it was. We called it dom/sub. At first my wife was looking for a male to share the dom scene with her and then have sex with him in front of me after they were both turned on.
It evolved until with our last contact she became sub to him too. She'd visit him on her own and come home well used to have me clean her out. He took pics and even a video which he'd send home with her. I was also 'sent' to him alone on a couple sessions.
But my point here starts with the fact that these were some confusing times. I was never the 'eager cuck' I read about here, and was both humiliated and turned, and often confused and hurt when my wife would 'get lost' in passion while strangers were fucking her and be more turned on and have more intense orgasms than she ever did with me. Yet I was as drawn to what we were doing as she was. My wife was also conflicted, feeling guilty about how much she enjoyed it, felt disloyal, and was surprised to discover that she was turned on by being sub with another guy when she had no interest in being that way with me.
We did this for several years and then stopped. I think it was because we were both *** to take the 'next step', which our contact was pushing, of letting him share what he had with friends. Plus we had kids and just got too busy.
But looking back on it now, this time cemented our relationship in a way that nothing else could. We learned to trust each other and have faith in each other's love. And now, the memories are a common way to 'spice up' our sex life.
This all came back to me today when I was cleaning up one of those closets we all have, and found an album of old pics. Even now, they turn me on.
If anyone is interested, I'll try to scan some of them and post them. But my real reamister for this post is to say that the cuckold thing can be a positive thing for a couple if your relationship is basically honest and strong. At least it was for us.
P.S. If some members would like to see some of those old pics, I'll try scanning and posting them. And I might also 'pair' some of them with pics of my wife now, much older and 'fuller' but still my favourite body.
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