How do I get her to consider it

Exwife was a total slut and so we were heavily into the lifestyle. She had several b/f. Unfortunately we split up but not because she was a slut wife.

I remarried about three years ago. My wife knows about my ex and our arrangement but has convinced herself that my ex is just a slut and since we were having problems, I agreed to allow her to relax around. I tried to explain to her that I agreed because it is exciting to watch your wife submit to another man so completely. She doesn't seem to understand.

I am looking for some way for her to consider the slut wife lifestyle herself. She can be very sexual, especially after a few takes. She has even flashed our friends. She is a flirt. How do I get her to understand how exciting it can be? Is there a way to slowly bring her around to the lifestyle? Are there men here who have seduced seemingly *** wives? If so are you interested in seducing my wife?

My ex just fell right into this lifestyle without any work, so I am baffled.

i have been trying for some time to get my wife into this lifestyle. having no experience myself, it would be a first time for both...if i could talk her into it. she is however, not in the least bit interested in taking further than some mild roleplay. after doing this for a couple years...i just don't think she will ever go further. unfortunately for the cuck wanna b's, i don't think MOST women will ever get into this. good luck.