Being responsible parents.

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I fully agree to your point of view, as we were younger and got into this lifestyle it NEVER got the kids involved and they know nothing about their mom being fucked by other men, most of the times it happened if they were supposed to relax over with friends, visiting family or we got a babysitter and it happened at one of my lovers place.

Even now when they are grown they don't know about what happened while they were kids, they think their mom got bored when they were grown up and left home.

You are so right as adults we can choose kids can't.
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Lene F

Why r u so obsessed with this subject that you start a new thread about it. As u said it's mostly fantasy. People who obsess about a particular subject like this r usually repressing an urge on their part because it excites and titillates them. In order to mask their true feelings and camofluge them, they act with revulsion about the subject but persist in bringing it up so they can continue to talk and revel in the subject. If u don't believe me, ask Dr. Freud.

I thought the guy was dead
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Lene F

witness, Danish, Miguel, I agree with you. drdneast, you miss the point.

It is not healthy to even fantasize about involving youngren in cuckoldry, swinging, swapping, bulling, ..., or to allow them to be aware of such things. We are adults. They are not. Not yet. When they are mature enough (after they have become adults), they can discover and choose for themselves, perhaps with our advice, or properly defend themselves from pressure put upon them. Only then will they have the capacity to weigh the advantages and risks to themselves for themselves. Until that moment, we have to be responsible for them.

For those individuals who have the "urge" to involve youngren in such activities, fantasizing does not help them repress it, it reinpowers it, if anything. They are ill enough not to know the boundary between the fantasy and reality when it counts. That is where the danger lies. I know what Freud's answer would be. No professional shrink would condone it. Ask him yourself, drdneast. (I know, Danish, he's dead. So is Elvis and Kurt Cobain, I think, but it doesn't stop anyone else.)

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