Outrageous BULLshit Filter?

I really beleive that a site like this is great for the delving into fantasies never to be realized. And I know there are real people on here living the lifestyle--from what I read, they seem like the most candid people here. There are also people honest about being 'wannabe' the 'everwillbe.' Hell, I don't know if I'm a cuck-proper, but I do have fantasies from time to time to the most extreme nature even, though I have a firm grasp of their fantastic nature.

But it seems to me, an inordinate amount of overindulgent bullcuckolds brownie is posted. Individuals who just make up crap about their wives or girlfriends that's so over the top, it verges on parody. Same goes for some so-called bulls, who simply want to fuck anyone's wife, but are obviously single, and probably for a reamister.

Don't get me wrong, there are honest people here too. And lots of intelligent individuals who find what they're looking for I'm sure. But some of this cuckolds brownie verges on spam. I don't even think people would be bothered if you put in a disclaimer that "The following is a fantasy" etc. It may help people get more enjoyment at the end of the day.

Just a few thoughts. I don't mean to offend anyone if I did.

I'm with you. It pisses me off.
It also surprises me how many people say they'll post on or caption a pic, leave their email, then never do anything about it.

I can't agree more Mr.Bungle

from bull point of view: most guys who claimed that they are a cucukold
material turned out to be single,young (mostly bi) guys.and also,the vast majority is here only to swap photos with other couples (mind you,they are fake too)
i dont believe the real permisters part either as sending a cock in front of the pc doesn't prove your online permisterality,it could be anyone,it just proves that you are human not an natural!
so,i always ask people to prove me that they are real.that could be a webcam proof,or writing the date on a paper and sending you that photo etc etc...
NEVER TRADE WITH PEOPLE WHO YOU DON'T THINK THAT THEY ARE REAL! you can never know where your pics would end up.

and be careful about BULLS as well.As there are BULLS and BULLcuckolds brownieterS

last note:ask them to cash the check that their mouth is writing (which is proving what they claimed to have done)

have a safe play

For me and my wife, our filter is set fairly high. While she doesnt mind looking at pics of prospective "bulls" or flirting with them, we ultimately are not here for that. In the end it's as simple as she wants to get fucked a lot and enjoy the lifestyle out here in SoCal. She enjoys a lot of aspects of it, but not all. We've found that the people who are supposedly "down for absolutely anything" and want to "trade pics and chat all the time" tend to be the most fake of the people on here. The real people, the people we are looking for, have better things to do then trade pics. They are the people who want real life experiences.

Most of my posts are pretty tame to this point because we are just starting out. I've been honest about everything. I didnt cover up our flaws as individuals. We're just starting out this road and while my posts are tame for some, they are real and they will continue to get more and more interesting as our progression into this lifestyle continues. However, we are parents before anything else and that responsibility could make us end this on a dime if we ever needed to.

Anyway, starting to get off track. Just was onboard with your original post that there are a lot of people who are here for the wrong reamisters and not being honest about who they are.

I appreciate the thoughtful responses. I can imagine for the real people out there it can be frustrating dealing with some individuals on this site. As I said, I fail to see why being up front about the fact that it's a fantasy (for those of us for whom it is just that) is detrimental. ESPECIALLY if you post pics. Does it make the wife/gf any less beautiful simply because there's not a chance she'll get into the lifestyle?

Not to mention the simple fact that posing as someone you're not is just tedious at best, with the ends being exactly the same.

I appreciate DOMandBULL's, and the witness' comments--as I mentioned, the real people here are among the most candid and honest, and probably are the most frustrated at what I shall call, poseurs.

Here here - I agree with what you say. There are too many fantasists and some of the claims or offers made by some people on here are down right dangerous or illegal at times.

I am no prude and live a pretty extreme fetish lifestyle - I am a Mistress as well as a Cuckoldress - but I know where to draw the boundaries and like many of you, have a fairly rigorous bullcuckolds brownie protocol!

I think we have all been guilty of not fully following through at times, but that it generally to do with life getting in the way - you just end up not having the time to correspond with all those people that write to you etc. I know for myself, I still have to set up meetings with a number of nice people who have made contact. But some of the claims made on the Forum are so ridiculous - if these people did all the stuff they claimed they would do nothing else in their life - I for one find all the email correspondence, let alone the meetings, can take up a huge amount of time.

I hesitate to bring reality into the equation, but no one seems to talk about safe sex either, and the health risks involved with much of the activity talked about. I love to degrade my cuck, and like any hot bitch I love cum, but we have to temper our fantasies with reality or dire consequences could follow! I would be interested to know what other Cuckoldresses think and how they deal with this whole safe sex thing?

I am currently thinking of findings some studs and putting them in chastity for 3 months, only fucking them with condoms in that period and otherwise keeping them in chastity so they can't fuck anyone else (also that way they will be super horny when fucking me!)? After the 3 months I will have them tested and thereafter, assuming all is well, I will then enjoy their cum and also power feed my cuck. I know it isn't as exciting as the fantasies but I for one wont be a fool and risk my health (or that of my cuck)!

Anyway, I will get off my soapbox now - thanks for listening.

And just to show I am one of the genuine ones, her is another picture of me.

L x
Keep on Cucking!

Mr. Bungle,

Truth can be elusive. I feel you come from a particular middle class conservative social reality - and that colors your understanding of what may or may not be real.

Sure, these forums are full of bullcuckolds brownie fantasies that have no feel of emotional reality. They frustrate me as much as they do you. But on the other hand, the truth doesn't always make sense. You would probably dismiss many of the best experiences of my life as fantasy and bullcuckolds brownie if I were to tell you about them. Crazy cuckolds brownie happens to me - always has! Its because I love people - the crazier the better - and I am out there seeking it out. If you go out and look for crazy, extreme experience you can find it - then you won't be moaning! With you and your desires - courage, comrade!

Experimenter: I would venture to say you are probably the exception and certainly not the rule. While there is no denying that someone has inevitably at some point done every one of these seemingly outrageous fantasies, it is highly unlikely that many of the ones here are legit.

In general:
Now dont get me wrong. This is a forum and there is nothing that says all these posts have to be true. If the fantasy alone is enough to get you off and you are honest in representing it as a fantasy then I have no problem with that in the least. Bascially, i'm just saying if you're not real, dont waste my time by having me pursue something that is fake. I'm not trying to stop you from getting yours, dont waste my time and keep me from getting mine either.