A Vanilla Plus Cuck (VPC) lifestyle

I've read alot on this site but honestly not alot of it appeals to me. Such as I'm not looking for a guy to eat cream pies, suck off or fluff my bull, wear panties or be completely humiliated. To me the Cuck is the most important guy. The Bull(s) comes and go but its the Cuck who is there for more then physical, he's there emotionally as well too. I guess I want a Cuck that is vanilla plus.

Someone who comfortable being faithful and serving one female (ie- ME) but knows that I can't be monogomous and that I'll relax with other guys from time to time. I'll be OK with him watching, or letting me call him before I fuck the Bull and having him hear it. Or telling him all about my encounter when I return and having him appreciate it.

So are there any other cucks (or Cuckoldress) not into complete offense and have respect for their Cuck. I'm calling it Vanilla Plus Cuckolding (VPC), but maybe I dont fit in.

So I was just wondering how many other relationships out there are VPC and how sucessful have you guys been with it.
Bow down to the one you serve, your gonna get what you deserve - 9 inch nails

I think your interests are far more prevelant than the stories would indicate.

Every successful cuck relationship is built on mutual love and respect.

Most of the rest is fantasy, either acted out or imagined.

Yeah. I agree. I am not really into the humilation thing. I love the idea of a woman with sexual needs beyond what I can provide, or any one man can provide.

I do like creampie though. As long as I can remember, I have been turned on by the thought of another man's cum in my girlfriend's pussy. I like to clean up my girlfriend orally after I have cum inside her. I have had girlfriends that thought it was disgusting. We weren't together very long.

I have a hard time believing the stories that involve a woman coming home after getting a creampie from her lover and hours later her husband cleaning her up. In my experience, every time I have smelled creamed pussy even an hour old, it smelled terrible. Fresh creampie is fine though.

yeah I have to agree, even if the woman was 20 mts away and came hom
having cum sit in her for later consumption just seems icky. The only 'offense' would be the having sex with a guy infront of my bf/hubby. I dont think I'd tolerate too much use from the bull to my cuck. Cause as I see it, he's a reflection of me. The more he's put down, the more I'm put down for keeping him around.

And ladies lets face it, if the BULL wanted you as a gf/wife, he wouldn't be a bull and you wouldn't have a Cuck. He just wants to fuck you, which is fine cause you just want to fuck him. But you WANT a relationship with your cuck too. This is why I find VPC a better choice for me.
Bow down to the one you serve, your gonna get what you deserve - 9 inch nails

Janine:

You are right on the mark. I would add that the wife and I are now swinging and swapping as part of our reconciliation over the troubles she created for us starting with her cheating and cucking me 25 years ago and blaming me for it. (There are other significant contributing reamisters for the marriage trouble, too, and they are also being addressed.) It appears she might be closing in on cuckolding me again (this time with my knowledge and permission). The deal then will likely evolve into me bulling, also. That would be Vanilla Plus Cuckolding and Bulling (VPCB), yet another variation on the cuckolding theme. No offense involved, just good sex and good times outside the marriage to be added to the good sex and good times inside the marriage.

Janine, DRF,

Your thoughts mirror mine (and I'm sure a large number of folks here)...love, consideration, a shared sense of excitement (& lust), whatever propels the both of you (together) is good.

We're getting there, slowly, small steps, but getting there.

Janine
VPC would be perfect! Face-sitting is the extent of any type of offense I'm interested in...

Was able to maintain a VPC relationship once but alas, it wasn't meant to last. She finally decided she preferred women full time.

Janine, you have described our situation. My wife has had multiple lovers in the past and now is settled down to one special guy, but she respects me and is not the permisterality type to enjoy humiliating me or being harsh in any way.
I kinda crave some offense, more as a role-play, but she isn't interested in that. So I log on here and vicariously enjoy others' stories of cuck offense and small cock criticism. I am glad that she loves me and is not a mean permister. I really love her and enjoy the fact that she finally opened up to satisfy her strong libido.