my next step

My wife is slightly aware of my fnatasy about her fucking other guys but I don't think she knows how intense it is. She's a very sexual permister and I think I can make this happen but I don't know how to bring it up. Ideally I would like to somehow just ease her into the direction without asking her straight out. any pointers?

This is a good question and I reckon you sound like you're in with a chance. It's my belief that the wannabe cuckold is destined to remain so if their wife has never given off any signs or pointers, even subconscious ones.

Has your wife ever commented on other men or in being looked at by other men, been sort of turned on or at least not negative? And what about during sex and so forth? One of the biggest green lights for me before my now ex-wife, Barbara, made my long held dreams come true, was in her masturbating while fantasising about other men - which I greatly encouraged - and also admitting to me that during sex, she did fantasise about other men too. You can't really go wrong when your wife admits to that. I reckon, also, that one of the greatest replies the wannabe cuckold can have when he directly raises the issue with his wife, are the words, or something similar: 'But suppose I preferred sex with another man? That's a sure sign, in my view, that she has such desires and has thought about it. Good luck on this.

thanks for responding. We've roleplayed a little about it in bed but I can't tell if she just likes doingit because she knows it gets me off or if she'd really want to do it.