Why would she do this?

Just recently I have disovered my wife wearing an extra ring on her wedding finger. Its not a ring of high quality but there all the same. I have bought her rings of this nature before so it may well be one of mine although I dont specifically recall this one.
She has a lot of rings already taking up space on her petite finger - don't know why she chose this particular finger and not the others. From the base of her finger she now has this ring then the wedding ring, her engagement ring and then the eternity ring.
This is the absolute truth so.......................why is she doing this?
justaman2810

here's a totally off-the-wall idea...

why don't you just ASK HER????

lol

I did ask her............she claims she likes to have it on that finger and that it doesnt fit on her others. I find that hard to believe because she hasnt put on or lost weight and when buying it she wouldnt have chosen that ring for that finger on purpose - she's already got her other rings on there.
justaman2810

well she is either seeng some one else and is trying play with your mind to gauge a reaction.
or
she had to pawn the ring to pay of gambling debts.
or
she took it off when trying to pick up at a bar downtownand lost it.

unless she csn prove what she said is tru...dont believe her.

no way joranc when you are married you need to keep some FAITH in your wife. Unless she has a track record of cheating (witch is diff from cuckold) then your 1st assumption should not be she is out with her lover. or in a bar t5rying to get some strange cock. And I also noticed that SHE herself bought the ring not someone bought it for her. If she was coming home with jewelry all the time or even once that she cant tell you where they came form or show how she paid then i would be worried. Just MY humble opinion.

But when is it too much faith, or unwarranted? I had great faith in my wife early in the marriage despite more obvious signs than justaman's. She was fucking him silly for several years. This while the marriage had never been stronger, before or after.

It is normal for married women (and men) to fuck around (certainly thinking about it anyway), so don't hold it against her. Tell her that while 60% of married men cheat on their wives, 60%-80% of married women cheat on their husbands! And it is not just a recent phenomenon or regional.



Yes, but with understanding suspicion. Tell her of your understanding, that you need to be a part of it (even if not participating) if she is in fact cheating, because then it won't be cheating. So don't necessarily despair. She's only human, and so are you, no one's perfect, but many times imperfection can be taken advantage of. As in making lemonade from lemons.

Good luck.

if you trust your wife it would not be n isu....tru?
if you dont trust her which is y u r asking the question.
ask yourself.......are you puttin ideas in your own mind?
what do u whant the truth 2b?
do you love her regardless?
i am feeling that justaman2810
does not desire his wife to be faihfull
i thought that was obviousknox4fun31
my wife reqires different jewelry all the time for he profession and i would not be able to tell if she had different rings on or not..:shame:
i am pathetic i tell you
the fact that you notice your wife in such detail justaman2810
is a credit to you.
u know... would love to be on a jury because i can tell that people are guilty without even looking at them.
i stand by my first impression. ta