wife looking for advice - new to this

Hi there.

I am a very lucky woman. I have a wonderful husband. He is so wonderful he wants me to play with other men, both on my own and while he watches me.

We included a close friend in this and it was great although I don't really find our friend attractive at all.

I played with him and I came and I guess that is what counts. We never had sex, just alot of the fun foreplay stuff.

But we still fantasize about me with another man, basically a long term lover.

Now let me start off by saying how much this turns me on I am so into it.
Yet I am so nervous at the same time.

I have met a couple of men and it has fallen through either by my choice or theirs. I am very picky and that is why I think that I was having trouble meeting someone. I am not a one night stand kind of girl and feel I need to know someone a bit before I fuck them.

Now it has happend (I think). I met a guy online and we met face to face last night. Both of us were quite happy with our meeting. It was very casual at first he touched my hand a couple of times, rubbed his hand against my back. Then we went outside to the car and talked about more sexual things for a while. We decided to wrap it up and at the end of it all we just simply kissed. I have to admit I was in a hurry to get my tongue in his mouth.

When I got back home, my incredibly horny husband was waiting for me. We ended up in bed right away with me telling him all about my evening out and how much I enjoyed it. After cumming several times and him exploding all over, I started feeling guilty about the kiss.

I am worried about hurting my husband but am as horny as hell about relaxing with another man, especially in front of him.

Can anyone give me any advice to put me more at ease. I want to meet my new friend again and possibly give him a blow job that night but if I feel guilty about a kiss how am I going to handle anything more.

There was no guilt associated with our friend and I think that is because we both know him and I don't have an attraction to him.

Anyone who can offer any advice would be much appreciated.

Thanks
J & K

Forgot to post the pics

BUM!!!

TITS!!!

J & K

You said that he wants you to play with other men and I'm assuming that's true. You also said you told him about the kiss and had great sex afterwards, but you didn't say how your husband reacted.

It may be difficult to understand at first, but your husband is encouraging you to not just kiss but have sex. Talk to your husband. Communications is important. Then, if he says he wants you to do it, invite the guy over and do that blow job while your husband watches.

yup, like Light said, you have nothing to worry about. Just have fun with it and communicate.
Vancouver BC, Canada

It's good for you both ! The idea of me with another man would get the same reaction as yours from my husband. I believe you fulfilling your mans fantasy makes it all great. just know what the boundaries are . Enjoy what you have it makes for a special relationship .

JeffKris,

I think you should support each other in what works for you both. It sounds like under the right circumstances with the right guy that you are very comfortable and horny to do it, while your husband is also clearly in favour of you enjoying yourself in such a moment. :P enjoy!

Thank you everyone so far for your posts.

To Light, my husband loved the fact that I kissed him. It turned him on so much.

I find myself right at this moment really wanting to see this other guy.

My husband and I have been talking so much about everything and I think I am really excited about our next date. I am hoping it will be soon!

I have to admit finding this site and seeing just how many people are so into this puts me at ease too.

Well I will post again after my second date.

Hopefully it will be naughty and nice all at the same time!!
J & K

Yes, it's INCREDIBLE at the time, but a few days afterwards it seems not so cool- at least at first until you and your husband open up and really get comfortable with each of your feelings. Yes, the guilt can be there, but it decreases with time- only if you both are comfortable. Remember if your husband really wants you to do then he is an active particpate and he's getting as much or more out of it as you.

Hugs and Good Luck,

Another Playful Wife

Relax enjoy at least both of you are being honest with this, your wants his desires ,i agree that you should invite the guy to your home and fuck him in front of your hubby,but do communicate at all times it is a significant part of the procees and very enjoyable too.
scottydog

Make your husband a part of it and you should all be fine. Sneaking off and meeting the guy during lunch hour without hubby knowing and being part of it is where the trouble will start.
HIT1969

Soooooo,

I met him again for our second date.

We met a little pub and had a few takes.

The tables have couches around them, I sat on the opposite couch he did.

He eventually asked me to sit beside him. So I did.
He touched my hair, played with it, rubbed his hand up and down the back of my neck.

We talked alot and had a good time.

It was then time to go. We headed out to the car where he wasted no time and began kissing me. We kissed for a long time outside of the car and he played with my tits through my shirt.

He pulled on my nipples a bit and it drove me wild.

After being outside of the car making out for about 20 minutes he asked if I wanted to get it.

We did and made out for a long time. We touched and explored each other as best we could through our clothes.

He undid his pants and pulled out his rock hard cock. I was a little disappointed to see it wasn't as big as I hoped.

I started to stroke it right away. After giving him a really nice hand job he asked me to suck it and like a good girl I did.

I sucked his cock and played with his balls and seemed to drive him pretty crazy.

I took a break and started to give him a hand job and he moaned that he was going to cum!
He exploded, he came so hard and so much. I was so turned on.

He made me promise next time we met I would let him eat my pussy.
I did

He then kissed me good bye and left.

I phoned my hubby and he was so turned on.
I raced home and let him finish what the other man had started.

I have not heard from this guy since our fun and don't suppose that I will.
I think he got what he wanted and that was that. To bad for him as he could have had so much more.

My husband and agreed that I will only have dates that include him from now on.

As much as it turned us both on, it's so much more fun when he is there.
I love being watched especially when it's by my husband!

So the search continues!

Thanks so much for all your advice.
We are big on communication and that is why this may work for us!
And just to let Hit1969 know, there is no need to sneak around when my man lets me play, thats'the beauty of it!

Have a wonderful holiday and I will continue to post if and when more excitement cums!
J & K

I wish I could get my own wife to do it! I've encouraged her to go out and have takes, and what ever happens with some black co-workers of hers. She just says "your all I need" I only have about 6". One time she did say a long cock would hurt, but a thicker one might give a "snug" feeling. Believe me, if your husband wants you do do it, he's serious. Go get messy from someone else, and go home and make your husband eat you out. That is such a huge fantasy of mine, I can't stand it. And when a wife doesn't really think they're serioius, PLEASE!

K McDonald!

I remember the night I realized my husband was serious. We had played and fantasized about it again and after I looked him right in the eyes and asked him if he really wanted me to do it. He says he thinks of that night often.

I can give a piece of advice to you. I went out to a sex toy party and came home with a nice thick nine inch black toy. I have to tell you that really opened me up to the idea, so to speak. I have had multiple orgasms and this has made me extremely interested in big black cocks.
Try getting her to watch porn with you, some interacial threesome porn always gets me going.

Hope it helps and good luck.

Some other news.
I have started chatting with someone I have met throught this site. We are meeting for a take tomorrow night to see if we click. If all goes well, the three of us are going to get together for some fun!
I will keep you posted!!

See Ya Soon!!
J & K

Hey jeffkris...i am fellow cuckold in winnipeg with black cock loving wife. Would love to chat with you and share thoughts, ideas and experiences. Get to me at [email protected]

j&k, where are you from?

i see, canada, dam dam dam, where are all the people from northern mn an nd

We are from Winnipeg, not too far from Minnesota and North Dakota.
We can always travel in the right circumstances
J & K

jeffkris:

Oh we have so much in common, my hubby wants me to go fool around as well. The hard task is finding someone. i have fooled around a couple times before. But he actually wants another mans cum inside me...I'm still all new to this, so it makes me all nervous. But I promised him if he was good with the inlaws over the holidays I might give in to his little fantasy of this. We are in Canada BC, look out eskimos here I come!!!
Good luck on your next ventures!

K McDonald:

Heyy I see your point of view...I alwyas tell my husband that as well...that his cock is good enough for me! I love him to death, he has given me 3 beautiful youngren, what more could I want?!?! lol Good luck as well on your ventures ;)
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I love my wife to death as well, she is very reasuring and loves me and my 6"cock which is why I feel so comfortable doing this with her. She is going on another date tonight. If all goes well he is going to cum to our house on Saturday! I am so excited! We are sending the kids away for the night so we will have the whole house to ourselves which hasnt happened since last summer.

I totally know what you mean it can be a very difficult task finding the right permister for this. My wife and I have been searching on and off for 3 years. Anyway, I will post again after their date and let you all know how it went. Thanks for the responses!
J & K

JeffKris Funny Girl Thankyou BOTH so much for replying to me. You have such a HOT life! I keep with the suggestions, all I can hope for is the best. I LOVE her so much, I just want her to enjoy something a little larger in diameter and a bit longer than myself. The thought just drives me crazy!

I know what you mean, the thought of my wife taking a huge dick and having orgasm after blissful orgasm drives me wild! I am so looking forward to our next threesome when she can have two sets of hands touching her~, two toungues working her pussy and tits and of course one day the double penetration is something we really want to try. It took me a long time to get kris to come around, keep working on her and good luck!
J & K

To FunnyGirl and KMcdonald.

Funnygirl, I am nervous as hell and my husband satifies my every desire. So I totally know where you are coming from! Part of what turns me on so much is how much it turns him on. Lol have fun with the eskimos!

Kmcdonald, talk with your wife, let her know how much you love her and let her know how wild everything makes you.
Lots of communication. Mabe even show her this site (if you think she's ready). This site has totally made me more interested in all of this! I am becoming addicted lol!

Tonight I am meeting the guy I met from this site. If all goes well we will all be getting together on Saturday. I am so nervous and we are just meeting to see about Saturday. Yikes! Hope it all goes well!

We will keep you posted!!
J & K

Ohhhh this is getting interesting! Its like one of those soap operas or spicey romance novels...whose fucking who on every episode. Tune in next week! Can't wait to hear how it goes for you jeffkris.

Yah I have had no luck finding any eskiomoes hear in canada yet... lol
but they are missing out....

Funny Girl

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Well Kris is out right now with her date. I am home with the kids she has been gone for just over an hour and I tried phoning her twice but no answer, hope everything is okay. My cell doesnt always get good reception anyway. I sure hope everything is going okay. I wonder if they will make out at all! I cant wait till Saturday!! Take care all
J & K

JeffKris

Oh You can take my 3 kids as well! I would love a break from them, lol

I'm sure shes having a great time! can't wait to hear the details!
live, laugh and love

I cant wait to hear the details either! She must be having fun. She said if it goes really really well, she would bring him home.....oh the phone is ringning........she said it went well! He is coming over on Saturday at 8.
J & K

PS..... I have my hands full with just two!!!!
J & K

Hi all

So I went out tonight, as you have already read.

We met and had a couple of takes and chatted alot about this site and what the expectations are of Saturday night.

It looks like we are up for some good clean fucking! I hate to say it but I can't wait!

I guess you can tell things went well and we did have a kiss goodnight. I am definately looking forward to more.

I will make a nice detailed post on Saturday to keep you all posted. Too bad he lives in a different city but we have agreed if things go well we would meet when he came to town again.

Oh I can't wait to tell you all about Saturday !!!

So tune in next week lol....
J & K

oh oh oh i shall get the pop corn out wheni see u have posted about your night! i am sure it will be a novel to not to miss out! You make a nice little soap opera, lol....glad u had fun!
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ohh to bad i wasnt closer, i would gladly babysit yer kids, since i already got 3, lol
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