what should I do?

Hi Martin, I'm very new to all of this cuckold stuff, and much of the things here only feel nutty, I get turned on by "feeling" inadequate and hearing light comments about how small it is, but I would NEVER let my gf fuck anyone else. I think Julia is totaly playing with you. Why should she be able to fuck some guy and YOU have to be faithful ...

I understand that you get turned on but this behaviour is best left to fantasy or it can destroy ones relationship. Tell her to break it of with that guy or lose you if she refuses tell her to go to hell. YOU deserve better then this, just because you have a small dick doesnt meen you are worthless.

I can relate to your story since me and my gf is only a couple of years younger. I tell you bro I would not let those things come to pass. Give her some ultimatums.

Your story is painfull to read and a wake up call, not to let things go to far.
Thank you for sharing this!
Wants to be humiliated by women.

she feels really bad about the tattoo - has kept apologising all day.Her sister phoned me at work today and really took the piss about it

Do you still find this situation exciting? That is, do you still fantasize about your wife and Danny?

well your wife seems a bit out of control may be a little bit of therapy for both of you might help.. she seems to have confused sexual extasy (?) with love and more ( submissivness to a Master) for a moment and now she is paying the price...

tattoo can be removed although at a cost (in money and lost clean skin) but nothing is forever.

Martin it is time to be a man. time to make a new deal. tell her you love her, show what you have done and what she has done and set the conditions from now on. IMHO this should include a final: I can not power you in anything but you can not go into any game without my complete, clear and unaffected permission.

BTW my name also start with a M should I ask a partner to bear a tatto I would never be so uncivilized to ask for my name on her a drawing resembling a capital M on one of women "special" spots would be more appropriate..don't you think ?

may be Julia should cancel the tatoo and put a new one (a flying seagull ?) just above her slut cunt ??
your italian bull in Venice
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Martin,

I�m in the US and I�m not clear what you mean when you say, �Her sister phoned me at work today and really took the piss about it.� Does this mean she was pissed off at the tattoo or that she was taunting (metaphorically pissing on) you about it?

I think dblue makes a good point about long-term relationships having dry spells. I think he is ignoring, however, the obvious reality here that Danny is taking a proprietary position vis-a-vis Julia and that she is putting that ahead of the relationship with you. I�m less impassioned about it now than when I wrote my last post, but I still think this is a critical problem. The idea of your wife putting someone else first � or even of losing your wife altogether is great stroke material for many people, but it is something else entirely in real life. (Take it from one who knows.)

Lesliecuck, noswald and dblue are asking the right questions. How do you really feel about all this? You have said that you wish that Julia would have sex with you, but does it turn you on that she won�t? Does it give you an erotic thrill that Danny is asserting such mastery over her, or does it just make you angry and/or sad? Do you get hard when you think about your sister-in-law sending you a blow-up doll? The question I�m getting at is: are you a cuckold fetishist or just a dictionary definition cuckold?

You say you get �a bit� turned-on by Julia relaxing with another man, but that is a far cry from being able to get off on losing your marriage. I�m not saying that someone can�t get off on watching it all swirl away down the crapper (in a sense, I did); I�m saying you need to decide what you want to allow to happen for the sexual and masochistic thrill of it and what you don�t. There is a difference between hurts and hurts-so-good and from your posts to date you�re aroused by her lusting about, but don�t get any forbidden pleasure watching her fall in love with another man or from the denial/chastity game he is putting on you. If that is so, you need to draw the line. If you�re more extreme than you seem, you can enjoy the ride, but take it from someone who�s ridden the train to the far reaches � it isn�t for the weak or the dabbler.

(By the way I don�t mean to insult you if you are in total earnest, but seen from this side of the Internet your story is beginning to strain credulity. I am going to continue to take your comments in good faith for now, but please let us know if this is all bullcuckolds brownie.)
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

I do get turned on by her being with someone else but get no pleasure at all from her denying me sex.

Yes it is all true. I can't prove this but if you don't believe it is true don;t continue to read.

Martin365
Martin,

If it is true, its true. I think if you put yourself in my shoes, you can understand why I had to ask.

Different topic: Your answers to the questions many of us are asking remain too vague to give us much insight or guidence. Your turned on by her being with someone else, but not by her denying you. Yes, but what is it about her being with someone else? Is it just hot to think about women you know funcking, for instance, or is it the emotional investment you have in her as your partner part of what gives it the charge? In other words, would it still be hot if you and she were "just friends" rather than man and wife?

If it is about her being your wife, does it turn you on because it shows how desirable she is that other men want her? (And how lucky you are she wants you.) Or is it because it is naughty - something "nice" people don't do, something that runs so counter to how the world thinks of you both? Or is it because you feel pressure to pleasure her (or be all things to her) and feel relief to have help? Or is it because it threatens your sense of yourself as a man? It could be some combination of these factors, but which do and do not apply and which is the leading one or two feelings is an important key to what you should do.

And how do you feel about people knowing about it and humiliating you about it? The teasing might be unpleasent when it happens, but is it something of a turn-on when you reflect on it?
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

How the fuck can you live with this idioitic slut that gets a tattoo
after a couple of months of fucking some guy. Martin you absolutely
need psychiatric help. You can't have youngren with her or even bring her around your parents w/ that fucking tattoo. Grow a spine and get rid
of the cunt.

Danny is such a lucky bastard

I agree with Gruntman. Dump the bitch. She's worthless. Low class, worthless.

Let her latch on some other guy to leech off of.

I believed the story until the tatoo part. That just seems weird.

i wanna see a picture of the tattoo on your post

Martin365, I agree with some of the "hardliners" here. In my opinion the only way this lifestyle can be fulfilling is if everyone is honest, and respect the husband-wife relationship, regardless of the games. It sounds like Danny is an insecure dork masquerading as a bull.

My advice (take with a grain of salt as admittedly I am a newbie!) is to discuss the following with her, and have her move in with him for a month, or more, and tell him that she left you. Some of her excitement is probably based on the naughtiness of things. Washing his underwear will give her a chance to see this guy at his best, and see how he treats her after he thinks he won.

Let her know that she can come back, but when she does, you will make the rules (i.e. no more BS about remaining "faithful" to her toy) to keep her from losing her mind and wind up looking like a piece of jetsetter luggage as you are clearly the more responsible of the two. And you can forgive her for stupidity if she is genuinely yours. The tattoo might even be a great way of reminding her that she needs you to be in charge.

I think that deep down she needs to be controlled (which is DIFFERENT from having her CHOICES made for her), and would be delighted to have you do it. Kind of a pimp-whore relationship rather than strictly cuckold might be a better match.

I'm working on a girl right now that clearly loves her husband. She has met my wife, and confides in her in a giggly way. My approach with her will be to enhance her fantasies about her HUSBAND, and hop on that emotional train. I believe that it is not only the bull's responsibility to enhance the marriage of the girls, but it is in his selfish best interest to do so. What is better, a few clingy unfaithful bitches hanging around your house having left their husbands, or a dozen hot wives giggly over your attention that don't need your financial and emotional support? A clear nobrainer if you ask me.

Any bull that doesn't understand this concept should probably not be allowed in your life, IMHO.

If you want to be denied sex during your wifes play, it is YOUR choice. If she won't have sex with you, fine, chase another one during those times, but not out of a sense of revenge or any other negativity. If you want to have a side hottie, it is YOUR choice. Your wife's choices are HER choices and she needs to take responsibility for those choices. And if the two of you can reconcile your choices to benefit the both of you so much the BETTER! The only rules should really be no crazies, no diseases, and no negative motivations.

As far as orgasms go, you have what it takes. Every guy does, despite the fantasies you read about here. I have a six-incher, but leave my wife exhausted and fulfilled frequently. And could easily do so WITHOUT a penis. There is no doubt that women love thick cocks. But they also crave (secretly, shhhh) a man exerting loving control over her body, especially that cavegirl inside her. And they don't want to think during sex, they just want to feel and experience. And they don't need some dork telling her who she should be in love with. Or have sex with.

So tease her clit with your tongue (after about an hour of teasing touches and petting). Stop when she starts getting into it, look at her, give a knowing, sly grin that says "that's right, girl, Martin is THE MAN!", and press your first two fingers in a "peace sign" gesture against the SIDES of her pussy, emulating penetration by a thick cock. You should feel these springy surgical tubing thingys on the sides and slightly inside. When these start contracting and your girl starts writhing, stop again, tease her again with some slight kisses, grab her hair playfully, pull her head back slightly and give her the cocky comment of your choice. BUT ASK NO QUESTIONS, as this takes her out of state.

After she comes this way, she'll either be begging for or demanding cock. I like to wait until she stops being so bossy and acts like my sweet girl before I let her have it. And during penetration, stroke your cock inside her at an angle and keep twanging those strings.

Now, whether this girl is your wife or Rachel, or both, is up to you. It needs to be whichever brings a plus to Martin's life. And if it turns out that you are really Pimp Daddy Martin, then why not a side hottie?

I said EVERY guy has what it takes. If you have no fingers, use the stub. Because what it takes ... is your mind.

Oh, and while doing that "peace sign" thing, don't actually penetrate as that can be scratchy. Just press the outer labia inward as if your fingers are a giant cock that can't make it in, sort of folding her pussy in on itself...

That's a wonderful and romantic story! I loved it, especially the part where she promised she'd never fuck him again, and didn't until she was with him for a few minutes. Let's face it, your wife Julia is a total slut, and what's more you love? When she came home did you push her back on the bed, pulll up her skirt and after gazing at that pink thing, smell the smell of another man that had so recently penetrated it? And did you lick it clean? You're getting there, maybe you could go up with her next time, and after you've all had too much to take you can all go to bed together, and you can watch him fucking her! You'll love it.
grc

That's a wonderful and romantic story! I loved it, especially the part where she promised she'd never fuck him again, and didn't until she was with him for a few minutes. Let's face it, your wife Julia is a total slut, and what's more you love? When she came home did you push her back on the bed, pulll up her skirt and after gazing at that pink thing, smell the smell of another man that had so recently penetrated it? And did you lick it clean? You're getting there, maybe you could go up with her next time, and after you've all had too much to take you can all go to bed together, and you can watch him fucking her! You'll love it.
grc

guys - I'm getting desperate now - so need a fuck

wife so sexy at home but still will not let me fuck her - Rachael very sexy at work but she is going out with my colleague now. This is driving me crazy

Has your wife seen danny lately> what is she saying to you?

hasn't seen him for a week and a half but still won't have sex with me. walks around lloking so sexy, often in underwear she has bought just for him

Martin come on be a man... ! should you have kids on your shoulder I would thing it a bit more difficult to go out and find a girl, but being "single" come one wake up... plus you Rachel should certainly fall if you told her you have a problem to discuss with her....
your italian bull in Venice
lets meet over week-ends or full weeks: your gorgeous hotwife will be my slut. From unaware sexy ladies to complete slut in training. Classy and strong. please Pm for detail. Age 49. Looks younger. Will travel to European de

last night got so desperate I dreamt of fucking Julia against her will. this can't be right

hey i know this is a cuckold site n all but i kinda thaught both partners should b getting something out of it!ok fair one it was horny as fuck to begin with and like you said you werent sure if you wanted it anyway so why let it carry on if your not happy??do you still think she would stop seeing him now if you said too??and granted if youve been together fo a while then ur scared of loosing her!!but quality story!!i love the idea of the cuckold lifestyle but havnt got the balls to go through with it as im not sure if id like it!!cheers though marti!!

Any developments this weekend? Did Julia head up to visit him again?

Danny came down here at the weekend. He arrived Saturday afternoon. I only knew when she gave me her rings.

They went out together in the evening with some of her mates (I went out with sdome of my mates.) When I got back they were in our bedroom clearly fucking - she gets quite load when making love to him.

On Sunday he asked me what I thought of the tattoo. She was really embarassed and kept telling him to shut up about it In the end he said she would stop if she told us why she had it done. After a long pause she said that was because she loved him. They then went and had sex again.

??? absurd

Martin why are you letting this happen to you.. Do something come on!
your italian bull in Venice
lets meet over week-ends or full weeks: your gorgeous hotwife will be my slut. From unaware sexy ladies to complete slut in training. Classy and strong. please Pm for detail. Age 49. Looks younger. Will travel to European de

tell u what mate, you should set the scottish twat on fire, but that's just my oppinion, she regularly fucks him but dosn't like the idea of u seeing someone else??? sort it mate.

This is a cuckold site isn't it? I for one think what's happening (Danny taking control of Martin's girl) is quite nice indeed

i st wanna see the tattoo she got for your daddy. maybe you should let danny know you really want to share his cock wit your hoe. lick them clean and love your creampie. embrace your cuckold self and put on hers for daddy danny.

i st wanna see the tattoo she got for your daddy. maybe you should let danny know you really want to share his cock wit your hoe. lick them clean and love your creampie. embrace your cuckold self and put on hers for daddy danny.