Would you ruin her?

My wife won't let me fuck her - never really has. I am 57 and she is 43 and gorgeous, take a look. At this point I am more concerned that she gets all the cock she wants. I have hinted in the past that I would have no objection (I did not mention that it was my greatest turn on) if she fucked with other guys as I understood that my cock was too old and average sized (5.5 inches) to really satisfy her. I'm not sure she really understands what a big cock can do for her or how it would make her feel like a real woman.

Do you think I should be more direct and just tell her outright that she needs to go and get laid by some guy or guys her age or younger? Or should I just her go on? I know the risk is that she may get ruined, but how much of a risk is it if she won't let me fuck her anywhere. She used to let me suck her feet and massage her and then jerk off and cum on her backside.

I don't think she'd let me watch even though I'd love to. And of course I lick her out and even suck her lover's cock if she asked me to. What do I do to get this gorgeous woman drop her knickers, spread her legs and enjoy the pleasures of being a woman? Her pussy must almost be virgin-tight as she ahs not had sex in years and when I have entered here she has taken my small cock easily.

The threat is not that her holes get ruined, but that she might fuck off all together. Not a good thing.