Does your foot fetish turn women away

Having now decades of field research and handful of serious relationships, I've come to the conclusion that unless you have a woman that truly accepts you, treading down the path of foot adoration as a sensual art between two lovers is something I would avoid.

It seems anytime I'm comfortable with a woman that is serious, the kind where there is a a genuine burning desire. And maybe I just start very slowly, and the woman usually plays along allowing me her feet, but soon after that, I recognize a pattern of the relationship quickly going sour.

What is it about the act that makes women turn on you. Has anyone else had similar situations, I'd like to discuss this further.
Ronald Curry

J was not the first I was sensual with feet with, but one I can seriously attribute to my desires. She was promiscuous for her age. We dated senior hear of high school till about the 2nd year of college. Very early in our relationship we had sex and she was ultra satisfied and passed out, I don't recall why I did next but I got down on my knees and began worshipping her feet. She was on the bed, and I thought passed out but it seemed as if she was merely playing along as she had this smile on her face as her eyes remained closed, I was too ashamed to keep looking up as I was slobbering on her feet and I had just cum in my own hand from jacking off.

We didn't really speak of it, but she was receptive to my fetish and was the only woman until recently to use her feet in such a way as to arouse me. These will formative years of sexual development so being spoiled this young has been bittersweet. She once had the audacity to present her feet, freshly sweaty from a days work in her office, I think she was wearing pantyhose or nothing at all and it was a ritual, I would get to worship them just the way I dream of today. Fresh and sweaty, tongue bath soothing and I have the taste and smell of her feet on my face and mouth. It was heaven.
Soon enough the drama in our relationship and my decision to leave for my next girlfriend (I couldn't get myself ri forgive her for fucking around at the time, boy was j stupid. Could have hat me hotwife) caused us to lose each other. But she was the only one who would sexualize her feet and allow it. The rest of my case studies were quick exits out the door.
Ronald Curry

Interesting topic and of course there are endless possibilities where a woman may have one or two problems with a partners likes.
I myself am not into feet or foot worship per'say.
But years ago I did go out with a girl (Oh we were so young) who loved having her feet tickled and caressed. To the point where it became part of the foreplay. She simply adored the sensation and it turned her on. In that regard I just went along with it because she enjoyed it.
But I do wonder if I did perhaps have a foot fetish. What and how would it impact on a relationship I was in.
If I were to offer any advise to the OP.
I think it truly depends on just how strong that relationship is. Foot fetish is not after all anything as weird or as distasteful as watersports or S-C=A-T for heavens sake.
Surely a bond that is strong between a man and woman can bare the strain of a bit of feet fun.

Steering off a bit. A mate of mine told me about the girl he broke up with (again...a long time ago). I thought they were good together and was genuinely suprised when they went seperate ways.
He said it was because she had asked him to go down on her. In fact she had apparently asked him several tiumes during their love making. But he was just not into it and actually throught it disgsusting. Maybe the fact he was Turkish, who knows.

I had to ask the question,
"Did she blow you"

His reply was an innocent,
"Yes of course"
He just could not see the difference....oh well. It was his loss and she was really a catch I can tell you.
stevensmiles

Foot cuckold
stevensmiles

That's interesting that you had a woman whom would bring her feet to the bedroom in such a manner.
I was spoiled by a woman in my youth who would also include in foreplay.
However the pattern plays out pretty much the same every time. At first, the woman may actually appear to be turned on. If you're fucking her, while on top and her toes just happen to be there wide up in the air and in your face and you just put your mouth around and suck them, she's going to enjoy it. It's when you keep going back is when things really take a turn, and I most recently was a victim of this cycle happening to me again.
Ronald Curry

A few cases

Dated a co worker. Now she was younger and naive but the relationship was very raw and real. I met her parents, we had passion and our sex was out of this world good. She didn't have the prettiest feet. They were super long and skinny but they were nice and taken care of. As an ex stripper she had some experience with guys adoring her feet. It was never really admitted to me at the beginning. I would just really have my way with her and our sex life was pretty amazing.....until her feet started to be featured in a more a prominent roll.
If I recall correctly I may have admitted a fantasy to her, we both enjoyed corporal punishment and she asked how I wanted to enjoy her being dominant on that particular evening, to which I replied I wanted to be her slave and get whipped and with each lash I get to plant on kiss on her foot. She really seemed to like it but she was harsh with her hitting and I couldn't continue, we ended up fucking. Shortly after there was some admission that I liked feet. One day I recall her even offering her stinky feet. She was teasing me but I didn't bite, I should have gone and dove in but I recall trying to "be normal " and allow her to see I was into more than just feet.

Because I had already had a hunch that admitting this fetish was harmful, as my ex previous to her pretty much let me know. Straight up, "ewwww you're into feet I can't look at you the same"
Which is the message here....

Anyway me and this woman continued seeing each other, however things were rocky.
Cuckold SPH and really nasty talk started coming out of her mouth, I know she had been fucking someone else but wouldn't give me the pleasure of really get into it. She fucked around because of the emotional turmoil in our relationship and she was over me. One of our last encounters was her and I trying to talk things through. I got her in my bedroom to which she said she didn't want to have sex as she was emotional. Somehow I ended up on my knees at her feet. I'll never forget it. Her was this woman who clearly has been getting dick someplace else, is just there because she's trying to get closure and move on and I am
On my knees kissing just the bottoms of her feet which were sweaty. She even told me as she started playing with her pussy "you may only kiss the bottoms, you don't deserve to kiss the top of my feet."
She humiliated me, i became aroused and tried to get up and fuck her, she stopped me right there. That was it. Our last time in an intimate setting, she said she couldn't fuck me and ended up leaving. I had her foot stink on my face and mouth. There was no reconciliation, she was gone.
There were many factors and I will own it that I wasn't mature and could have handled that relationship much better.
But that woman had burning desire for me. She loved me, but as soon as I became comfortable and started to play with her feet, her tolerance for this behavior decreased. I won't say that's the catalyst.

It's just woman have got to look at you differently if you enjoy putting one of the, and you got to think of it from their point of view, most vile and gross parts of her body in your mouth. And she should be excited to kiss you after?
Ronald Curry

I know plenty of people may chime in and grace us with stories of how wonderful and accepting their partner is, and that's wonderful because I have this one life I get to live and I would enjoy it that much more with a beautiful woman who got off having me worship her feet. I've got to think there would be nothing more relaxing than a woman getting a daily pedicure via mouth. Sucking sweat off, maintaining her feet, rubbing and most of all, knowing you are bringing such joy to your partner. I'd desire a woman who would get pleasure but just from the adoration of her feet, but from giving me pleasure for allowing me the chance.
Ronald Curry

Another very recent case
Sherri was a recent divorced mom I met online. We had a great first date and fucked with passion. She had a lot of problems.
When a woman gets a divorce and there is a ***** involved and she is not in sole custody, something is off
Anyway I didn't care I just want to have fun.
She really goes hard at me wanting a relationship and I say no.
She withdraws sex and I move on.
Months go by and we connect again. We fuck. This time she admits she loves to fuck me and doesn't mind the occasional.
However I get involved with someone else and pretty much dismiss her.
Almost a year goes by and that fling fizzled. I reach out to Sherri wanting a fuck. She agrees. That night her feet looked great. I went for it. I hadn't played with her feet like this before. I was sucking and licking for all I was worth while fucking her.
That was the last time we fucked.
I never spoke to her about it
Maybe she just got tired of being used up like that, but her she goes from being someone to can call and now she doesn't even want to see me.
Ronald Curry

Almost sounds like a self fulfilling prophecy for you. I've been married 19 years to my wife. She started taking lovers in 2018. She has known I love her feet since early in our marriage. I have kissed and sniffed and sucked her nylon toes for years. She takes great care of her feet partly because she knows how much I like it. Not just for me but she understands that attractive feet is all part of being sexy and attracting men. She gets pedicures every month and always before she's going to make love to her boyfriend as they can't be together regularly. I rub her nylon feet almost every night when she returns from work. For hours sometimes. I will admit she's become more dominant about it in the past few years. She will just automatically put her feet up on me and tell me to start rubbing she doesn't really ask. When they are sweaty she will point that out and say "but you like that" with a sly smile. So I think it's fair to say she enjoys it, not in the exact same way as I do but we each get something we like out of it. I suppose our relationship could still fail but I doubt that feet would have anything to do with it if that happened. I hope your luck changes. Strictly in a scientific sense, to test your theory a little better, you'd have to run the cycle of a complete failed relationship where your female opposite dumped you without you ever revealing your affinity for feet. Then maybe you'd conclude that wasn't necessarily the reason the woman rejected you in the end.

Thanks for sharing your story. Clearly decades together builds pair bonding and in your case, an enduring intimacy few get to enjoy.
Your kinks are accepted and it's that rock solid bond you and your wife have that makes a fetish just a thing.

I've been digging deep and soul searching so I appreciate the anecdote. Women will reject you for a variety of reasons. They are the gate keepers to sex and we the relationship. Emotional bonds, trust, maturity, among other things factored into many of those failures or rejections.

As for the theory
Several woman did not have feet attractive enough for me to pay attention to. So, I don't know
All I can say is beware, I've spoken to women about this and it's pretty much 50/50
No big deal or ewwwww you're not touching my feet
Ronald Curry