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Would you bang her? She still has to have her first encounter? Make her fucking as descriptive as possible. Any sexy captions please that she can see?
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fantasiesanswered If anyone wants to know more details about her, her body, her experiences, her tastes, please post
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fantasiesanswered Depending on the encouragement and how excited she feels by looking at the responses, we will post more of her.
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fantasiesanswered Depending on the encouragement and how excited she feels by looking at the responses, we will post more of her.
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kennyboy82
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There's the small matter of zero photo's to see - makes it very difficult to decide what any of us would do with her.
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Damn, in my excitement forgot to add pics - here they are
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fantasiesanswered
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kennyboy82 In my excitement forgot to add photos -- now added..
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She looks pretty sexy to me. Not the greatest pic tho. I love girls at the club who find some dick for the night, especially if they have a clueless husband or BF at home. My old girlfriend used to go to the club with her GF's and go home with black guys and then lie to me to hide it but I knew what was going on. It was tortuous and arousing at the same time. She could definitely get some club dick. I'd like to know about her anything you'd like to tell, provided it's all real and not fantasy stuff. More pics to please.
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I like the little black skirt too.
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fantasiesanswered
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geecrizz Thanks for your note. That night in the club actually initiated the thought. We planned to go to the club and just for fun decided that we will pretend that we are not together and entered the club at different times. She was already at the bar and sipping a cocktail. I can tell you she was looking ravishing sexy - I know the pic is not the greatest one but if you can correlate it with the second pic - the dress accentuated her figure. She was sitting on a slightly high stool. She had taken off her jacket and as she was not wearing a bra, the outlines of her nipples show through whenever the cloth strained against her titties if someone looked and sitting on a table across, I could see many men staring at her. Her dress had crept a little bit so her thigh was visible. Three things she has which I know makes every man stare at her - (1) Innocent cute face (that hides the naughtiness in her), (2) Great tits and (3) Amazing skin. And I think she was leveraging all 3 on that day. Not long, she had two men strike a conversation with her and take her to the dance floor and all three danced together in that crowd. Slowly, with time their circle of dance got closer till she was kind of sandwiched between them and I could see their hands over her being placed innocently, though there was nothing innocent about it. She was actually being felt. She let them. One of them had hands on her ass as they grinded and I thought I saw the other one put his hands on her tits and that is when she turned and hugged him tight - more, I think to take off his hands subtly and diplomatically. As she was hugging this guy the guy who had his hands on her ass moved tightly close to her and placed his lips on her shoulder. That is when she pulled away a little and asked them for ******. As they moved away and she was standing alone in that moment is what I captured on the phone. I am sure she was wet and almost in an orgasmic state. Her nipples had hardened and strained against her dress as I moved away after clicking the pic and the boys moved in again.
I am detailing this as this event led to the germination of she being shared with other man/men. We recollected the sequence of events that night and jokingly, I mentioned that you should have picked one of them or both from the club for a fun night alone and got surprised when she said "I think so" and smiled.
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geecrizz Its her beautiful skin and tone. Thanks
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fantasiesanswered
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geecrizz Let me know what would you want to know of her. I will be as honest as possible. No fantasy stuff.
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geecrizz
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So is she working up to having a sexual encounter with another man or just teasing? And what are your goals concerning her and another man or men? How long have you been together and what is her sexual history besides yourself that you know of? Thanks in advance.
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geecrizz I guess that day put the idea of a share in both our minds I know she was aroused at the prospect of being with another man while I watched and somehow I was pretty excited to see her get sexual attention from other men. On her part, part of it was definitely flirting and tease but somewhere during that time she was liking it and I can only imagine if the end would have been different if I was not present there. In my mind I have relived the encounter many times and I would like to see her sexually with another man. Now I do not know how I would feel when it actually happens. If we talk, I feel she will agree.
We have been together for 4 years now and we have been pretty open in discussing our pasts and preferences and fantasies. I know she was quite sexually active before the marriage.
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geecrizz What can I do to gauge her interest in this? Should I ask directly or should I create a fictional scenario? Or should I ask her to read some of the posts here - not sure which are the right posts to start with though.
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I would start softly if you haven't broached the topic already. Maybe ask her if she likes the attention and how would it make her feel to be desired sexually by another attractive man. I've always thought that a good way to break the ice on this topic with a wife would be to tell her you had a crazy dream something to the effect of...you were both in the dream but not together and you saw her having sex with another guy and it really turned you on unexpectedly. We've all had dreams where the life we know is completely upside down and sideways so it seems like a good way to approach the subject without appearing too into it. Like something you never thought about much and you were surprised how it made you feel. And go from there. The key is to plant the seed that gets her thinking about other men. In my case, I didn't really have to beat around the bush once I decided that was what I wanted because my wife had already had an affair. There was no way I was going to allow her to be offended because she had already fucked another guy and betrayed me. So it was easy for me. Maybe get her to talk about or point out guys she finds attractive. I mean, married or not, male or female, attached or single, we all see people we find attractive besides the person we're in a relationship with and frankly, any woman who says she only has eyes for you is lying. Either to protect your feelings or hide her own. It's ok to present it to her as natural to see other men who she finds attractive from time to time. A couple that can't admit that to each other has some issues in my opinion. That's a good stepping off point.
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geecrizz Thanks for the sound advise. It seems so logical. Do you have any suggestions on my reaction if she says that she finds my dream erotic and confesses that she does find other men attractive at times or have had the hots for someone else. I am sure I should have a measured response. Thanks
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Yes measured is always good but positive for sure. If she tells you that she finds other men attractive or has the hots for a certain guy, tell her that it turns you on immensely to hear that and you'd love to hear more about what she thinks. It might even be beneficial to act as though these thoughts are all new to you as well and until recently you didn't know that it interested and aroused you. And always reinforce how attractive you think she is. That is a major part of it. A woman transitioning into the hotwife frame of mind or lifestyle needs to be sure that you think she is beautiful and she needs to be made to feel safe in starting to reveal these thoughts. If she thinks for a second that revealing her secret thoughts or desires will push you away or cause you to stop loving her, she will clam up right away and likely never feel safe talking about these things with you again. Especially in the beginning of talks, she needs to know that no matter what she says, the reaction will be positive. Remember, people are trained to believe that infidelity is wrong and even thoughts of it or fantasies are shameful and should be hidden from their partner. You have to help her understand that you don't see it that way and that she doesn't ever have to worry about a bad reaction when she is telling you her innermost thoughts. From there, if she is potentially hotwife material and she is confident that you won't react negatively, she'll take the ball and slowly start to run with it. Remember always, the key to getting where you want to go is tapping into her hidden desires and planting that seed in her mind so she can freely start to fantasize about having other lovers.
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Oh and one more thing that is very important. If and when she gets to the stage where she actually starts contemplating sex or a relationship with another man, she needs to know that this isn't some kind of ploy so that you can run off and start fucking other women. Almost all wives who go down this road get that idea into their head at some point. You have to reassure her that is not your motivation whatsoever.
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And above all, be patient. Don't ******* her with this fantasy. If she's the type, it will take time for her to feel at ease with the whole notion. It's a process.
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The asterisked word is S*M*O*T*H*E*R.
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geecrizz Thank you so much for your suggestions and they really cleared a lot of doubts I had. One thing I will say is that though this forum is sharing thoughts, seeking suggestions and helping each other to a different lifestyle, not many come up to help. Thanks for taking the time out. Will keep you posted.
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fantasiesanswered: Do you have any suggestions on my reaction if she says that she finds my dream erotic and confesses that she does find other men attractive at times or have had the hots for someone else. Yes, she needs reassurance that you're 100% ok with this and you want her to enjoy whatever happens without any feelings of guilt. It may take some time to fully convince her you're serious, and you're not looking on this as an excuse to go and fuck some other woman, it's just her you want to get fucked. Like so many things in life that are worthwhile, you have to be patient, it will take time before she takes that momentous step and actually fucks another guy. Best of luck and keep us in the loop.
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kennyboy82 Thanks for the sound advice
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fantasiesanswered
I can only reiterate the wise words above from kennyboy82 and geecrizz. My own experiences indicate that they are both spot-on. My wife Debbie and I had been together for about 10 years before her cuckolding me (I didn't even know it had a name then!) became a fantasy for me. I worked shifts, early one week, late the next, and Debbie developed a social life that didn't always involve me. She enjoyed male company anyway, could be quite flirtacious and would often go for a dr1nk in our works' social club or elsewhere with friends or play darts around local pubs and clubs for a ladies team. I'm wasn't aware of her ever cheating, but of course I knew the possibility was there. A few dr1nks inside her and the right guy would undoubtedly tempt her and that prospect began to excite me.
Sometimes she would come home and confess that some guy had bought her a dr1nk or some lad had groped her arse and I started admitting to her how much I liked hearing about her evenings out. Over the years, following 2 relationships with not very pleasant men and a kid by both of them, I had managed to boost her self-confidence to the stage that she would now wear short skirts to show off her great legs and low-cut tops and a Wonderbra to enhance her cleavage. It would turn me on to catch guys check her out and Debbie admitted she enjoyed that too.
She would sometimes comment on men she saw on TV or young pop stars and I broke the ice by suggesting that if she ever met one of these guys, in a club or at a concert, then I wouldn't mind if "something" happened. "Yeah, right!", was her initial reaction, but I stressed that, yes, honestly. I really wouldn't mind if that happened. Quite the opposite in fact. That definitely planted the seed. I'd mention it from time to time in bed as we made love and it really got her going. A realistic looking dildo was added now and as we role-played I would tell her how naughty she was fucking this new guy right there in front of her husband, but how amazing it looked, her with her legs spread and this "man's" cock going in and out of my wife's pussy. She'd climax noisily to that scenario!
Even so, it was to be a good two years before anything physically happened. I didn't go on and on about it, just letting her know now and then that I'd be okay with her going out and getting some extra should she want to. There was interest from men - they seem to sense when a wife's available! - but in the end it was a case of right place, right time for a lucky young man in a nearby town, a customer at the shop Debbie worked in.
I won't bore you with the details of that encounter nor her later experiences as they have been well documented on these pages many times before, suffice to say that despite the occasional hiccup along the way, I don't regret having Debbie cuckold me. I felt that it was almost inevitable that she would have cheated on me eventually anyway and I felt that I'd much rather her be honest and come home and tell me about it so we could both enjoy it.
As the guys have said above, it is important for your wife to know that you are not looking for an excuse to have an affair yourself and that you intend to stay faithful to her. Also that you still love her. Some think that if you're willing for her to have sex with someone else, then you don't love her anymore. Stress that that's not the case, in fact, it's quite the opposite. I'd loved Debbie even more knowing other men were now fucking her.
Also, I agree that you have to take your time. Don't be tempted to rush things or keep on and on about it to her. Your wife needs to do this at her own pace. It will happen, trust me! Peter C
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So after a lot of discussions and bot of us having strong sex drives helping the conversation, she agreed to let me post a pic of hers here and hopefully she gets sexy comments to drive her further. She definitely does not want me to be a full cuckold - wants us to be more of stag and vixen. Not sure if that disqualifies me/us from this forum. Still here is the pic and hopefully with encouraging comments we will continue to post more and also detail our escapades.
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what a lovely young lady!.....very sexy.....david
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WoW She is beautiful! I think once you start she would have no trouble attracting a lot of men. She can also afford to be as picky as she wants . I doubt that there would be anyone that wouldn't want her. You should go out dancing again dressed similarly as she was before only this time without panties to increase the excitement. Post before and after and let us know how it goes. I used to do this with my wife and come later to the bar. It was always a hot night watching and talking about what happened after. It would also keep *********** the fantasy and keep you talking about it.
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