Well I/we were not going to post here anymore as I felt what Debs adventures do not really fit the forum, but on reflection here is a place you can kind of feel at home even if you don't fit exactly into the forum genre; plus Deb wants to share stuff here as she feels loved here. Deb also genuinely likes the people here and the emails she received last time, I thought it mad posting her email last time but she tells me she got nothing but love; yes sexy comments and most importantly understanding at the time.
I would guess a few here will remember Debs "want to take on a challenge and win escapades" to include her biker meeting ? I am posting a few photos of my love to remind people of her as it's been a while.
It's only now after just chatting with a 99% recovered from her final challenge Deb that I can start to reflect with anything approaching normality; her final challenge was a *********** "ordeal" way beyond extreme and challenged my understanding of "why would a woman; in fact my wife agree to what amounts to ridiculous extreme pass out ******* and get off on it?". However it's been a healing and momentous time as it's great that Deb is back to her agile and very good love making self.
Deb is past the age of 40 now and at the beginning of the year decided that she would take on 3 last crazy challenges and then return to the normal wife next door girl (my lovely wife) forever, we met a guy I chatted with that would help. Deb spoke to other women that he had dealings with as did I and I guess we trusted him. He was spoke of as ****** and exceptionally extreme but also protective and a medic which in my mind was an uneasy fit but ok.
Deb's 3 challenges where firstly to be dressed classy yet provocative, be picked up in an upmarket hotel and have sex with a guy which may seem easy, but to Deb that's been "unfaithful to me" as she would have to chat loads and give more than just her body.
Debs second challenge was to be the "entertainment" during a 24 hour session at a World Cup summer bbq; a football come sexual use of Deb event at his house earlier this year. This World Cup challenge proved to be far harder for Deb than she or I ever anticipated; this challenge made difficult due to the sheer number of men, especially men fuelled with ***** and excitement, plus the lengthy period of time that my lovely wife had to be available in every way for them.
Debs last challenge was to take on a 48 hour extreme BDSM session where she would have a safe word, be medically monitored but take more *************** etc than he had ever administered or witnessed. This was the last challenge and one she actually wanted to take on and in her words "win" the most. This challenge ended up getting postponed as she swims and runs a lot in the summer months in a bikini etc and her body would be severely marked so stopping her work outs, in Debs words he was given permission to do his worse while trying to not leave too noticeable lasting scars (this took my head to places I tell you - a husband protects full stop)
I am getting Deb to write down about her adventures and I may post here on the first two in the New Year (we will have a chat about it), but if we do post we perhaps we will not the post events regarding her last challenge, as extreme BDSM and especially what happened doesn't fit this forum and is far too extreme and possibly upsetting even though she somehow managed staggering orgasms during taking pain and many ordeals that left her body so broken it all but destroyed me never mind her; her mind must have been taken to hell and back so many times yet she somehow returned back to her normal bubbly and giggly gorgeous loving self. She so loved it which I tell you takes some understanding for a man, if I am really honest, I don't really get it.
I would urge anyone once again that anyone wanting to step over to a real situation to think very long and very hard; as the person you love the most leaves your home or is dropped off and is going to be used sexually or take part in something that is not really in your control to protect, its intense. You feel like you have abandoned, let down, put in danger your deepest love. You feel jealous; abandoned yourself, yet excited and in my case exceptionally proud; you will get zero ***** and be upset and yes cry and feel lost. Reality is real emotion and not just an erection. For me it's far more as Deb is an extreme woman in her "other self" this other Deb is so far from how she is in the normal. The dropping off/your loved one leaving moment is heart wrenching believe me; you question your own sanity really. You will have emotions you have never have had once things move too actual infidelity; perhaps intimacy away from you by your loved one or in my case an extreme event with another or others, a different level so to speak; then so does your angst move on to new levels. Even though you think it can't feel more intense and yes more upsetting than previously, it can. With it does come excitement and I guess that's what this forum genre is about really.
I would also say that if this cuckold as it's called here stuff is the main thing in your relationship then think again as love for one another should be the most important thing in your life; yes cuckold or in our case my wife's "other side" is exciting and will create an extreme love life before any infidelity or infidelity plus in our case (I realise that may differ in how it manifests differently in each unique relationship; but you will be in high arousal which intensifies the nearer the date ). However I would urge you that this "craziness?" Should yes be part, but should never be the most important thing in your relationship. Life is balance and love, family at forefront. A loving and closeness that others have no access to is of utmost importance; my advice would be never forget that.. That way things are decided and done in one another's love and not self gratification or dare I say *****, love I believe is caring and protecting your partner above yourself; putting them first. A man should be the one that protects; loves and leads in a home and in my humble opinion if that's not the case life could be like a ship bouncing off the rocks. I also realise this is our opinion and others may well disagree.
Deb kind of feels she would do anything for you guys on this forum as correspondences she received from you guys made her feel both sexy/wanted and most importantly normal. She mentioned posting an update for you guys this Christmas. My apologies for the waffle and perhaps heaviness of the post.
Wishing you all a superb and safe Christmas along with a brilliant New Year.
