I share your feelings that some of the sluts I know have gotten there due to some weird life event that a religious permister would tell you could 'turn them gay'

This event helped them breach the sexist societal implication of stud = good; slut = bad --
-- BUT then it becomes a dismisterant issue that may have esteem issues braided with the reality that most people DO like sex.
Then when they're older, they end up understanding it and better integrating it into their self-understanding.
For those females who have issues, it's important to help them realize their intrinsic value separate from sexuality, and that sexuality is a fun cherry on top.
