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Hi,

I think there is a possibility for you if you approach it slowly and carefully. Plan all your moves and don't do anything brash to scare her off.

I give this advice a lot because it totally breaks the ice. Watch this movie with her:

Animal Instincts

Be sure to get the first one with David Carradine (the sequels suck). the box looks like this:

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It's about a married couple and the husband is a cop who isn't giving his wife enough sex, he comes home to find her having sex with the cable guy and finds out that he likes to watch.

So he sets up cameras in their bedroom and she puts an ad in the paper and becomes a call girl. He watches her have sex from the other room.

The good thing about the movie is that it's not porn, it's mainstream and it totally brings up the conversation about cuckolding and watching. Start talking to her about it. Watch the movie with her, just pop it in and it will bring up the topic during the movie. Don't tell her much about the movie or even say that you've already seen it before you watch it. Act as surprised as she is about what the guy is doing.

Then admit to her that you sometimes do fantasize about having a relationship like that because it turns you on.

See what her reaction is but don't push it.

I hope this helps.

Hey, thanks for the reply.

The only touchy issue here is that she is my X, so it's not like I have all the time to spend with her watching movies and dropping hints. I feel the urge to just be upfront with her sometime when we are just hanging out alone.

When we were together and reached the typical few year point where the sex had died down, she began to initiate conversations about fantasies and admitted that she wanted a 3-some with 2 cocks for her to enjoy (of course I was too afraid to admit to myself how hot it would be to see her with another man at the time).

These factors from the past are making my cock throb for a bold move on her now. There are some unique details as-well, but for the sake of being discrete feel free to email me.

Attached is a pic of her beautiful little titties I took when we were together. She is a stunning girl.

I guess whet I'm wondering is if it's a realistic situation in the first place to have an X girlfriend let her X boyfriend help her find men, and watch them fuck her with out being in a relationship, or having this be the basis of getting back together? Or am I completely nuts??

thatguy
hi, need help ?

i think you should tell her straight up