my ex wife

in some ways it feels this is evolving into some cuckold realtionship , we co parent a 4 year old , does it this ever happen x

mbd556
Yes, while technically not cuckolding, I could see how the gratification you get from her being with other men to be very similar to that experienced by a cuckold. You might intensify this by putting up pictures around your home of the two of you when you were married.

That seems like it's the complete dynamic of a cuckold relationship, and it's completely out in the open and socially acceptable! Congratulations. Many divorced couples even live in the same house for financial reasons.

yes my wife seems much happier and seems easier for her as no stigma or responsability of a wife

she gets to have her own private life and then also still has me for when she needs things

we all went to the park saturday and she looked so pretty wearing low cut summer dress shwoing off her big tittys

and her dress was short and she seeemd to enjoy showing her knickers off to other men in front of me but not to me she joked about giving them all a treat

she seems to be very in control and enjoying it, having me and also having her own space, she does have her own house though and we dont live together

she also knows im a sssy and has told me to accept myself without shame, now im not her husband lol , she says im now much nicer to talk to and easier to get along with

It sounds like she knows that you know your place. It should be easier for her to use you this way without having to worry about your feelings or provoking your anger.

well i think that as we still co parent and we stilll get to see each other and cmmunicate a lot and the better the relationship is the easier for everyone and ur 4 year old *** so we're trying to be friends

she was very angry at finding all my girly things and that seems to have subisded now, i never think she wanted a lover as married as this would have affected her self image as a wife and made her feel that she was the one in the wrong, she knows the rea***s now about the lack of sex and my girly things which she found and her stuff, so she knows it wasnt about feeling rejected like she felt at the time and it was about me not her, finding them was a relief and an explanation then the anger about being lied to

now shes actually being nice by maitaining a friendship i support her when she is parenting and when i am parenting she has her own time and space and freedom which I dont ask about, so hopefully she feels this is the best of both worlds, is doing nothing wrong and is perfectly free to be comfortable with this, as long as I am, which she has said takes time for her to trust that I wouldnt react angrily or bitchy

by the way she is very hot thought a pic may help

i wonder if anyone knows a good link i can send her to see her response or how to ascertain her feelings or is it better to be unspoken and not formalised at this poitn and just let it evolve, shes with her boyfriend weds thurs and fri this week then sat morning we are meeting up and all going on the train together the 3 of us as we're going to the same place then will seperate off when we get there

Sounds like everybody is happy and roles are being assumed naturally, might just let things keep flowing.

Steve

Thanks Steve, when I say he is bf she has told me not for a relationship ie its just sex

Is your ex-wife aware of your cuckold tendencies and that you are aroused by her showing off her body to other men and her having sex with a new guy?

I get on well with my ex-wife and her new partner, though our circumstances were somewhat different. We had been together for 26 years, had all the usual ups and downs and had 5 chi1dren between us. She had cuckolded me once in 1999, then again with 3 other guys from 2009 onwards. This was all with my knowledge and approval. Due to my shift-work, Debbie had developed her own social life and I could see the possibility of her being tempted by one of the men who no doubt chatted her up and bought her dr1nks when she was out with the girls.

Suddenly, the prospect of her cheating became something of a turn-on and in bed from time to time, I'd mention men fancying her and ask if she enjoyed the attention. I let her see that the thought appealed to me. Eventually, after a good 2 years of role-play, encouragement and persuasion, she accepted the offer of a date from a young customer at the shop she worked in and the day after her 35th birthday - he was 23 - she went for a couple of dr1nks after work with him and soon ended up back at his flat where he eagerly fucked her 3 times.

My insecurities put paid to any chance of this lad becoming her regular "bit on the side" and it was to be over 9 years before I was able to persuade her to try again. We were older, wiser and a stronger couple now and the advent of the internet and social media made it easier for her to see what was out there.

I showed her I was more able to cope now and she ended up going with another 3 guys. One an ex-workmate of mine, about her age, who had apparently asked her out 11 years previously and she turned down. We had previously agreed that she wouldn't s1eep with anyone I knew and would always use condoms - for health reasons. She had had an hysterectomy, so there was no fear of pregnancy. Such was my secure attitude now that when she suggested she might be getting into something with this Mick that she couldn't get out of, I heard myself saying, "That's okay, take things as far as you feel comfortable. It's fine." She told him that we had an "arrangement", which shocked him and after a few false starts which led me to think nothing would happen, Debbie sneaked over to his house one Sunday evening whilst his wife was out. I picked her up later from the end of his street. She was in a short skirt, no panties and his cum was trickling down her thigh. He was rougher than she was used to due to, she thought, to him only having a small dick. They'd kissed on his bed, he'd stripped her, sucked her tits and buried his face between her legs before fucking her bareback.

The last one was the best. A 25 year-old soldier she met whilst away with a female friend. She stayed over a week and was fucked by him at least 2 or 3 times a day most days. Later she spent a week away with him on 2 more occasions. He definitely fucked her more than I did that year and she admitted when I asked her, that yes, he was better in bed than me. I loved hearing that and came on the spot when I asked her to repeat what she'd said.

Things seemed to change after that though. She came home early from her last break away with him because our grandson was being born. He got the hump and dumped her, but despite that, we never had sex again. We seemed to just drift apart and she spent a lot of time along the road at a neighbours. When the wife was caught in bed with someone else by their s0n, she moved out and Debbie carried on going along to see if "Tony is alright."

I'm not sure how soon they slept together, but Debbie started staying the night before suddenly announcing that she was moving in with Tony. I wondered what the neighbours would make of my wife moving in with a new man just 2 doors away. "What a wimp!" probably, when I didn't complain or put up a fight.

They've moved a bit further away now - still on the same estate - and we get on really well. I have wondered how her sex-life is and if she misses my cock or the young guys I used to like her to go with, but she seems reluctant to talk about any of that now. I have many happy memories of my "naughty" wife though and I rather miss being cuckolded, hence my occasional visits back here!
Peter C

thanks Peter, yes I told her when we were married and about being arroused by the thought and seeing her seduced or just being a cuckold, at the time she didnt understand and said why dont you want to decuse me yourself but at that point she wasnt aware i was a sisy and my dressing, I also think she wasnt comfortable in a marriage due to the wife stigma, but now divorced she doesnt feel this anymore, and its her life shes doing nothing wrong and if i choose to serve her outside her private life, then she has her sex and her sissy sitgma free

mbd556:

Maybe she'll treat you to a creampie sometime if you ask her real nice?

BTW.... she's a very sexy looking woman.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

thanks she is and i like her being enjoyed

and peter i think your right i think im in the test phase and her trusting my reactions

She is a very beautiful woman. My ex has dommed and cucked me I'm our relationship. Go with the flow and make sure you move forward.

yes i had a nice weekend with her she looked gorgrous she told me off twice for inappropriately touching her leg when i was only being accectioate and also making a comment about her in a tight op she has explained i made her feel concomfortable and i have apologised she doesnt want me to get false hopes and is very clear that she is happy to accept things but not if i excpect her to give something back and for her to feel pressured or comfortable i apologised and explained i cmompletely respecther own life and i didnt mean it as sexual and i have no sexual agenda

feels like we have moved into the fin dom arena

which she is comfortable with as long as i dont expect anything

her house is being refurbed and i have offered she can stay with totel freedom to go out, her privacy , lock on her bedroom door and can even stay out to save her money renting on somewhere else and as a way of showing her that she can trust me

i was hoping for some more feedback and advice, she has emailed me to say she is considering staying here while her house is being refurbed

I like hearing about your situation... thanks for all the updates.

thanks we're going to the fa cup final together on a co parenting trip and she has asked me to get her the new ladies united top size medium her g cups will be bursting out of it!

and she just had to drop off a school blazer so i went out and pointed out to her the builder guy across the road bulging with muscles, as she drove off she had a good luck her neck twisted lol, i sent her a text look at you having a good look haha rubber necker dont tell me it was the new railing

ha funny girl she just replied uch looks like a gorilla!

maybe she needs a little more explaining pictures says a thousand words and all that

wow, I just want to her

Please more of such boobs focused pictures

Fuck Me! She was at the front of the line when they handed out the tits wasn't she!