Wife's in financial control.

My wife loves shopping. She have my salaries to go directly to her bank account, and she says she feel so good to spend money by herself. It gives her the feeling of power. Every Friday she give me dome pocket money to spend and that's it. If I ask for more... She have her special way to take away "stupid ideas" as she say. It's 100 hard whippings and she added 2 more months in chastity. Any other men that is in total control by your wife?

Thats what pathetic bithes like us are to be used for...but she also reward me by giving me to lick her shoes or ass.

So much in control of her slave-husband!

Such a beautiful shot....no surprise that you are weak for her....she is so strong and sexy...beautiful feet leading up to your key...mmmmm

I soon will be. My wife says that whilst we can keep our "joint" account, she is going to change the passwords so I cannot access it (or any of the other accounts, not even my own). She says she is happy to administer them on my behalf, as she sees fit. If the joint account, which we use for paying bills etc. has too much in it, she will transfer the balance to her account. It then becomes "her" money.

She is also going to lock up any cash around the house. I am going to get "pocket money" in cash, which I will be expected to buy her presents with, or pay for small items like groceries when I am sent to the shops.

I am going to be allowed to keep my credit card, but she will scrutinise the bill before she pays it, and I have been told that woe betide me if any unauthorised items appear.

It's quite humiliating (in a nice way) to have to ask for money to pay a cafe bill, and have your wife not only demand the change, but examine the receipt carefully to make sure she hasn't been cheated. It was also quite humbling when in a shop, she selected a range of underwear, and sent me with it to the till to pay with my credit card, after telling me she would deduct it from my pocket money - in fact, it was more than I had, so for a couple of weeks I had no money at all.

She got you alright. She is in control, and transfer money to her account, the way a real Dominant wives do.

She's my queen bitch and I love her! I am allowed a small allowance for incidentals but I must tell her what I have used the money for...all my payroll checks go directly to her bank account on which I am listed ONLY for survivor benefits, but I cannot take any of the money out...she's in TOTAL control...I have a credit card that I can ONLY use to get motel rooms for her and her bulls and to buy takes for them or she may sometimes order me to buy a certain item or a bottle for her to give him as a gift...I must account to her for EVERY dime I charge. Sometimes she takes him out to dinner and I just get to tag along, sit there with them and can only speak when spoken to.... and just pick up the tab...It just feels normal! She's after all my queen and I am her faithful servant who may sometimes ( if I'm good! ) get certain privileges such as being allowed to suck on her toes, or give her foot massages, etc. The life of a cuckold!...it's not for everybody, but I've learned to love it and my queen bitch knows just how to keep me completely faithful to her wishes and to seek only her happiness. After all, her happiness IS my happiness!...no matter what it takes to get it.

I think all of you are lying. It is one thing to have your wife dominate you sexually, even fucking other men as you helplessly watch, but money is a whole different story. I do know plenty of men where the wife controls all the finances, and what can I say, those men are the true bitches. Hey, if my wife wants a ten inch cock, I can't give it to her, and my wife is a queen, she only deserves the best, but I have to draw the line at some point.

I'm a financial slave to my ex-wife. She has one of my credit cards and uses it whenever she pleases. Just tonight I received a text with a pic of the new lingerie and sexy shoes she bought for her date this weekend. She has an ex-boyfriend coming to town and plans to fuck him again.

While she's out on her date, I'm to go to her (my old) house, mow the lawn, clean the house, do the dishes, do the laundry and polish her shoes.

Earlier this week she told me that she plans on taking advantage of me forever and that if I ever try to deny her what she deserves, she'll put me back in chastity.

It's the truth, Christinescuck! She totally controls everything! I suppose I could have rebelled and do as you say 'draw the line' at one time, but being so in love with her and fearing loosing her to one of her big dick boyfriends has always kept me from protesting...as she gained more and more control of me and my entire life, I think she figured out she had me as her total slave bitch and just kept on squeezing and demanding and me, I just kept on giving in to her, until I have lost all pride...I feel like I am totally owned by her, but then I brought it on myself. I dearly love the woman and it's totally too late for me to change anything. Thankfully she loves me in her own way and I think she has my best interest at heart...even though she controls my entire life, I don't believe she would ever hurt me...she knows that I've totally given in to her and she somewhat takes pity on me. She has even told me that she knows that her cuckolding me actually turns me on, and if she thought that her fucking other men would ever upset me she would consider stopping...of course I told her to not do that, because it her fucking other men has become a total turn on for me sexually. Again, it's not for everybody, but I've come to embrace my fate. We have become sort of a well oiled machine and each of us is happy with the other.

..my wives latest move, was to give me a small ********** wallet, Pink KITTY, to keep my money in, that she gives to me!

My wife went off for a weekend to a beach resort with a bull recently. He came to the house to pick her up and while he waited on the sofa for her to finish getting ready and packing her overnight suitcase, she made me fix him his favorite ***** beverage. Then she had him give me his car keys after determining he only had 1/4 tank of gas. I then had to go the a nearby gas station and pay to fill up her boyfriend's car, just so he can take my wife to a motel on the beach some 50 miles away and fuck her brains out while I stay home and do her list of little projects around the house. I also had to buy him a 12 pack of his favorite beer and put it in a cooler with ice. If that's not being a total cuckold of my total bitch wife, I don't know what is!...and then, even though she usually gives me a little peck on the cheek as she's leaving, this time to add insult to injury I didn't even get the little peck...just her telling me (ordering me really!!) to make sure everything on her list gets done and to be sure to thank her boyfriend for taking her out!! Imagine that! She makes me thank the guy for taking her away from me for 2 days and fucking her!! As usual I obeyed my queen! I feel so owned! I know how slaves must have felt!! So hopeless!! But still and all I love that woman, even when she's doing me like that! Thankfully she's never discussed putting me in a cage and she gives me certain privileges such as I sometimes get to suck her toes, massage her legs, lick her well fucked pussy. Life is good!

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Am I missing something? You know from personal experience that there are "plenty" of men who cede control of the finances to their wives, but you think none of the posters here could be like them? What makes you think these posters, who are presumably strangers to you, are so different from all the many men you know?


I agree completely. It is a whole other dimension of femdom. But that doesn't mean that some of us don't engage in it as well. Take my own situation:

My salary is direct deposited into our account. Although the account has both our names on the checks, I am not a signatory. (This means the money is partially mine legally, but functionally I can't get at it.) My wife handles all the bills and other financial business (insurance, mortgage, 401(k)s, etc.) occasionally handing me something to sign. She calculates what is needed for the bills and then transfers the rest into another account that is in her name only (and to which her paychecks are direct deposited), so there is never much "float" in the joint account.

I used to have a weekly cash allowance, but long ago we converted it into "Maid's Wages." Each Thursday she reviews the checklist of my duties. If it is perfect, I get the full amount. If not, I get docked. (Each item on the checklist is worth a certain number of points.)

We also have various joint credit card accounts. When the cards arrive, she generally either shreds the one in my name or keeps it, handing to me when I am to make specific purchases (as when I was ordering her new kitchen appliances, or when we were traveling abroad for vacation). We have a second account at another bank in which she keeps a $500 balance and for which I have a debit card for situations when you are required to have a credit card or in case I find myself without cash in an emergency. Needless to say, debit card charges must be justified to her satisfaction. I may also deposit my wages into this account which is labeled "Sissy Maid Account" on the checks and statements, which has been acutely embarrassing on the few occasions (all at her direction) I've drawn a check on it. (One reason all this works is that I also have a company credit card from my employer which means I don't need a personal card when I travel on business.)

This has been the situation for 14 to 16 years now (depending on what aspect of the arrangement you mean) and honestly I couldn't even tell you how much I earn anymore. My work salary is just an imaginary thing to me, it is the maid's wages that define my personal spending. If you think this makes me a "true bitch," then I am flattered by the compliment. But please don't call me a liar just because we combine this aspect of femdom with the cuckolding aspect.
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I certainly did not want to offend anybody by calling them a liar, as that is a term I do not like to be called myself. My wife completely dominates me in the bedroom, but says that if she controlled me completely outside of the bedroom she would get bored really quickly, and would not enjoy our game in the bedroom if she had her way with me in every aspect of our life. I do not judge anybody for the way they live their lives, as everybody is entitled to run their relationship in any way they want.

my situation was pretty similar although it happened 20 plus yrs ago. my wife and i had a joint account but i never wrote a single check on that account. she gave me specific amounts of money for specific things such as gas for the car, go to the store and buy this particular thing, etc. etc. i was given $10 as an emergency fund which fortunately i never had to spend. of course she fucked whoever she wished, mostly not me.

I think your True Bitch wife makes you a "true bitch". A cuckold in chastity and under femdom financial control literally has nothing in his pants. Yet his wife makes him feel very good, comfortable, unashamed and excited about it.

Every woman wants to wear the pants. If she does end up wearing the pants she doesn't give them back. It is hard enough to be a wife and now she is pissed because she must be a husband too. She can run things perfectly but hubby pays dearly because he ultimately becomes the lightning rod for her Inner Bitch. Once she loses respect for him she'll hand him over to her Inner Bitch, who will treat him with total derision and feed him with a steady diet of Full Bitch. Everyone else gets the good girl because the Inner Bitch is totally occupied ruling hubby. Or sumethin like that.

I have seen a number of couples who wouldn't change things for the world. It can work for the right couple.
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You are so right, spot on, when you say: "now she is pissed because she must be a husband too"... This is exactly what happen to me.. my wife don't have any respect for me at all, she controls everything..and her Financial Control is only one part of her TOTAL control.

Love the way she shows her sexy feet...maybe she pushed your plug in with them...i can imagine ceding control to her.

And you just love it! Strict equals sexy. Hard for many to understand the excitement of being micro managed by a strident, strict, Bitch of a woman! Hard for many to understand how difficult it is to find a Bitch competent and strong willed enough to make and rule him as sternly as he wishes.

The right woman knows when her husband is most vulnerable and quickly makes her power grab. Maybe he lost his job and has no money. Could be he hasn't been able to sex her properly in years or she catches him masturbating too much or she saw him perform a homosexual act that repulses her. She'll tell her husband that she will be wearing the pants from now on. She demands him to remove his trousers and give them to her. He protests and tries to negotiate with her as she stands there making hurry up gestures with her hands. He actually removes them as he pleads and totally surprises himself as he gives them to her. She looks her husband straight in the eye as she puts them on despite his frantic pleas. She notices his semi hard on as she looks at herself in the mirror admiring how good his pants look on her. He finds himself agreeing with her that they really fit her well. From that point on he will only see the rear of the pants because the wife will always be the leader. Chastity isn't an issue once she wears the pants because hubby won't be getting anything anymore anyway. She'll make him feel so inadequate and ashamed of his sex that he won't even be able to wank. The most amazing thing hubby learns is that a woman never has any problem wearing the pants and being boss; they always fit perfectly, and once she gets them on they aren't coming off for anybody else! Also, there is nothing that can malfunction or be sexually inadequate in a lady's pants that can cause her to wimp like a man. I guess the best way to "wimp proof" a husband's pants is have his wife wear them instead! "Performance Anxiety" has no adverse affects to the woman in the pants.

Plenty of guys get much pleasure and security from being a tightly controlled bitch to a real Bitch.
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My wife controls Everything in my life, from being locked and plugged, to when I'm allowed to take a beer, or be given pocket money's.

...she also into the small details of her control...like when my alarm rings in the morning, like I have to say "her car" when Im talking about my car, and of course, not allow dot have any ATM-cards, credit cards or such... only that small pocket money...

When i was in the navy, i got married to now ex wife. She was my goddess, she cucked me from the very beginning. She was completely in charge of everything in our relationship, She put me in panties that i had to wear under my uniform everyday. When we got our "joint" account set up at navy federal, I had my check go in direct deposit and she was the sole signatory on our account, i didnt even have a debit card get issued to me, after i completed my A schooling i got my 10k signing bonus paid out to that account. I never saw 1 dime of that money, she went on a huge shopping spree, a trip with her friends, and a down payment on a new car for her which i was the only one on the loan agreement but the title was in her name. I was a little annoyed but i was so in love with her and would do anything she asked that i got over it. For our normal situation she would pay the rent and various bills out of my check, then with what was left over she took 75% and i got 25% but i had to pay for both of our gas and i had to use my cash whenever we went out, so at the end of the month i didnt have much left if any. another thing she had me do was get the service member life insurance policy the navy offered which was 400k then i had to get an outside policy for another 400k that came out of my end both of which she was the sole beneficiary. every year when we got our income tax rebate all of the money also went to her. We had a couple credit cards that she used exclusively and which i paid for, the debt that added up was in my name. i was in the navy 6 years and in that time i think she saved 75-80k of my money in her personal account, we ended up getting divorced after i got out, i didnt contest any of her demands which included me assuming all of debt of the relationship, she got the new car which i had to continue to pay for. she took all of that money with her and i still have a life insurance policy that i pay for to which she is the beneficiary. we are still friends after all this, and i still love her dearly.
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This hits one of my biggest fantasies - Being completely controlled by my ex, who cheated on me continually, so that she has a life of leisure, making me work at least two jobs to finance her extravagant lifestyle with numerous lovers but making me live in a crappy bedsit so that she can take virtually every penny.
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I like that my wife controls all the money. I make enough so she doesn't have to work. She likes having the house to herself for 8 hours a day. So even though I am not close to retirement, she told me that I will get a part time job when I do. She said that since we won't need the money, I can get a job much more suited to my status. She said i could get licensed in cosmetology and work at a nail Solon. Or cleaning rooms at a hotel. Or the worst one, cleaning truck stop bathrooms.

very sexy

Thanks.

My wife also has financial control. I am an entrepreneur and so I have no fixed income. But no matter how much it is, it goes to our common account. At least it was earlier, now I have no access to the account. my wife alone has access and determines what money is spent on. I get € 50 a month as pocket money. Every time I need a little more I have to ask for money and explain exactly what I need it for. Whether she gives me permission depends on her mood and my behavior. Although I make good money, I am completely dependent on my wife financially.
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Submissive Cuckold - lives for many years in a female-led marriage with a cuckold lifestyle.

what do you think about?
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Submissive Cuckold - lives for many years in a female-led marriage with a cuckold lifestyle.

I think that if a cuck is focused on his wife and her bull, then he shouldn't have time to go out and spend money. So the wife might as well have it all anyways.