My "sex" life

First off, this isn't a fantasy this is my actual life.

When I first started dating my gf of 6 years our sex life was a pretty normal mix of hjs, bjs, sex, pussy licking etc. Early on, I told her I had a foot fetish so she would let me kiss her feet while she jerked me off, which I loved. As about a year went by a told her about my submissive fantasies etc. From that time on I have been increasingly cut off. Penetrative sex was the first thing to go, which became a maybe monthly occasion and then over the last 2 years I have had penetrative sex twice (last new years and my birthday before that 4/09) and none since then.

BJs, which she doesn't enjoy also became a rarity. My last one was my birthday this year 4/10.

HJs were pretty frequent still until september of this year (and I mean relatively, so about 1 every month or two, so infrequent for people with normal sex lives!), when in a teasing game I lost I was cut off until christmas. Since then my only release with her has been jerking off in her presence, which had become the norm this year anyway. Most of the time she will just watch. Sometimes she will play with my nipples or if I'm really lucky let me kiss her feet, while I jerk, which makes me cum buckets.

I've always lived for pussy licking and she does too, which she prefers to regular sex anyway. So that hasn't changed much. I lick her often, sometimes use a vibrator or dildo on her and we love it.

Once I'm done licking her she'll tell me to "jerk my little thing off", which always gets me stroking like a monster. I cum so hard with her watching, way harder than when I jerk off alone.

The other night, we were lamenting how busy our lives have gotten. I was begging to lick her and she told me that I shouldn't because she was beginning to feel guilty that she never does anything for me. I told her that letting me jerk off in her presence was more than enough and if she would only touch me once in a blue moon I'd be happy. She was happy then and let me lick her. Afterwards as I was jerking she said "you know, once in a blue moon is over a year" , once I heard that I couldn't help it but splooge.

I don't know what it is, but being sexually denied is the hottest thing in the world for me. Its so hot to think a HJ is the biggest sexual treat out there for me and I barely remember what it feels like.

Anyone else live and love like this?

For me, this sounds boring. And I guess for her, it must be terrible. When does she get off?

What about involing a man that can fuck her once in a while?
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

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Yes, I too love it. I live to lick her pussy and at best I get a hand job. The last time we had penetrative sex was in July of this year. Last month she teased me after I had licked her to several orgasms she rubbed my cock along her pussy and said are you ready to come inside my pussy? I said to her are you sure? Then she said, no this is close enough and she had me pump her hand on top of her pussy until I came, I think I lasted 30 seconds.

I agree with all of you!

For me, no penetrative sex is fantastic. I was always lousy at it anyway, and when my wife made it clear that she was, and always had been (from the very first time!) disappointed by sex with me, we stopped having it. Why use a tool that doesn't work?? So instead I lick her pussy and asshole, and use dildos and fingers on her. She also has sex with other men who CAN satisfy her (so far they have ALL outperformed me!, 4 out of 4!). She does NOT give me blowjobs, as she says my dick just doesn't inspire her, though she DOES give them to her lovers. She does give me handjobs, nut only occassionally to climax. She says she really enjoys when I make her cum, and then she can just ignore me and go to relax. I am happy if she likes this. I do jack off, of course, and she likes to tease me, saying things like "Did you enjoy having sex with your hand?" or "Maybe we should have a double date-- me with (other man), and you with your hand". I really enjoy this. I have not had sex with her in about 3 years now!

The true Bitch wife always ensures that "sex" is a boring experience for hubby. Plenty of hubbies quickly realize just how serious she actually is once she decides to evict hubby from her hole. No doubts about his inadequate ability to sex her properly in either of their minds. A stinky, filthy black man may be more desirable to some wives than a wimp. She needs a man to wear her pussy on his cock rather than a man who needs to wear her panties on his ass.

When does the wife get off? When she decides to involve a man worthy and fit to fuck her with good sex. Hubby is then literally #2 in her eyes. He remains #2 in her opinion regardless of what happens with her lover(s). Once she s.hit cans her hubby, her choice has been made. Hubby is left with 2 choices of his own......... Take it or leave! Many men opt to stay........
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!