Female Genuine Opinion

I’ve been denied having sex with my wife a full year now but she does allow me to masturbate to her body often. She doesn’t allow penetration by me anymore and say’s she wants it this way full time from now on.

I guess I’m just wondering what the ladies think about this kind of arrangement and if they feel something may be happening on the side. Although I’ve never had any reamister to think otherwise, it wouldn’t exactly surprise me to learn of someone else satisfying her.

She recently told me she would allow me to “pump her” five or six strokes just so I could appreciate a real vagina, but not allow me to orgasm inside her – just sort of a reminder of the feel of it I guess. The promise of this event wouldn’t take place though until our anniversary which isn’t for another 6 months!

I’m just wondering if any of this would be a hint of someone else taking care of her in that way. I’ve been denied penetration so long I’m just willing to do anything she wants for the chance to see “it”, even if I’m actually being cucked.

Well, you didn't say how long you've been married or how your sex life was prior to this denial phase so its hard to say if she's getting some onthe side, thus just a wonderful cheating slut, or if she has a really lousy sex drive and/or she was used when she was younger and so just doesn't like sex.
Goddess I hope its none of those last options and she's just a lovely cheating hotwife.
I'll go with that option and suggest you talk w/her ~ turn it to your full advantage and become a real acknowledged cuckold.
And if she' not cheating and yet only wants to let you masturbate while looking at her then there is a good eliminate of control going on for her. Just direct her to few areas to read to help her and encourage her to explore her Domme side and you will both have a richer and more fulfilling relationship on so many levels.
It does take time and patience and a willingness to step out there. But you married this permister and if there is anyone whom you need to be upfront w/about what you want and need emotionally and physically its this one permister.
Good luck in your exploration.
I will keep my fingers crossed that you have a very promising cuckoldress on your hands.

I am a truly blessed Lady who is still learning and enjoying myself immensely at my hubby's expense. :) I love a cuckolded husband.

My litle man, you are along on this journey....

I dont allow my sissy to fuck me regularly, only when I dont have any of my lovers around like today. Sissy has been locked for a few weeks and I allowed her penetration of course with a condom on and when I am satisfied usually I just jump off her little clitty and lock her back up if she hasn't cum. Today I did let sissy leak her sissy dribble (hormone pills have made her cum much less and her clitty only gets half hard) of course it was caught in her condom which she had to suck clean. I have not allowed sissy penetration in the 6 months past and from now on when I do she will be in a condom, I dont want that little pethetic sissy cock to contaminate my lovers pussy. I do tease sissy on a regular basis when she does something special for me or completes a list of tasks around the house but never more then one cum a month, always by her own two little fingers pinching her little sissy clit while I smoke a capri 120 cigarette, watching her, degrading her, laughing at her, and occasionally smacking her little sisssy balls. If sissy can not cum in the time it takes me to smoke my cigarette she gets locked up till next week to try again till she does cum the we start a new month. My pussy is reserved for my lovers only and sissy is only allowed to please men by offering her hungry mouth and sissy ass, as she is to be totally changed into a sissy faggot by summers end. That means on and after her birthday 28 september she will not fuck any woman including sticking her disgusting little clitty in me and she will serve only men while locked in chastity till sucking cock and getting fucked makes her little clitty leak it's disgusting sissy dribble thats it no stimulation for her sissy clit. You are lucky your wife is giving you some attention that obviously another man isn't getting if there were another you wouldn't be getting any at all...... Jeanne

sissies disgusting clitty...

me teasing sissies half hard clitty

I have finally decided to take control (total) and have sissy in panties daily lock sissy in her CB 6000s for good. No more feeling sorry after a few weeks and no more giving into her pleas for mercy! Welcome the NEW MISTRESS!

I'm not a "genuine female," but I'll express an opinion anyway: Just because she denies you penetration, that does not mean that she is getting it from someone else. As "milf4bulls" says, many women simply have a low sex drive. Others do not love penetration that much. I don't know her or you previous experiences with her, but it is very common in LTRs for a partner to go through periods of decreased interest either in sex generally or in a specific activity. Declining novelty is often a factor. If you've been experimenting with femdom play (as it sounds like) a bit, she may be finding her reactions to you changing.

My future wife admitted to me less than two years into the relationship that she didn't like me to penetrate her. In her case she did like penetration as a rule, but the shape of my penis did not rub her the right way (literally). This revelation fueled our incipient exploration of the cuckolding lifestyle, but the matter was not causative.

My wife's sexual interest naturally decreased some once we settled down, but equally important was my sexual submissiveness and our early play with it. Not a natural domme, she preferred assertive lovers and increasingly found it hard to take me seriously in that role as once she had seen me abase myself so completely.

So, here is my view: You wife's denial of you is a good natural go together with a femdom relationship and/or a cuckold relationship, but it is not a guarantee of either. I suggest you talk with your wife about why she denies you. If it is about power, or preference, or both. If she wants to be fucked, but gets off on refusing you, then you have the makings of a good cuckold lifestyle if you want one. Just tell her honestly how you feel an you may find her quite willing.

Good luck
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