Medication to control libido

I had a hard time with being cuckolded when we first married. My wife was seeing a few old boyfriends and it was not easy for me.
She took me to woman counselor who prescribed a heavy dose (40mg) of paxil for my depression and to control my excessive masturbation.
In 3 days, no more orgasms. I could beat off all day, but no cum.
My libido has steadily declined, to were I have little interest in sex. My wife loves the change in me and I have heard her suggest medication to some of her girlfriends for controlling their men.
Any other cucs here who have taken medication to reduce their drive/masculinity/erectile function?

My wife put me on spiro but that was different. Spiro blocks all testosterone and then she had me take estrofem to enhance female characteristics on me.
I haven't been able to get hard in over 6 months now and I'v gotten way smaller as well.
Not much left and I can never get hard enough to be inside of a female anymore either.

Katie1z

I can't get a full erection any longer. My wife has even teased me saying if I can get hard enough, I can fuck her, but no luck. She likes the fact that I am going impotent and not interested in sex.
Besides the Paxil, she has done a lot of ball banding and saline injection into my nuts. I fear this has caused some damage also.

androcur

cutcuck

I've experienced both hormonal and have induced impotence. Hot flashes were the first indication of my hormonal castration. I enjoyed women's company but had no sexual desire. Life was the same with only the erotic parts s*******fully edited out. I wasn't ashamed or bothered by my castration and was open about it with the ladies. The women accepted me with understanding.

Paxil induced castration was totally different. Like you, it took only a few days for me to be absolutely unable to come. I'd exhaust myself trying to make love. Very soon I realized rotating the tires on the car was much more fun. I soon was unable to obtain an erection or come. My nuts were pumping testosterone into my body. My genitals were mere dangling ornaments of manhood. Women loved my rictus of a face (that powerd, stupid, impotent smile so well captured in the "horned cuckold" drawing above at page top). I loved being that way. My masochistic side had a field day! I enjoyed being "complete". I felt the energy saved by celibacy gave me more zest. I started deriving more pleasure from being a good boy. My prostate protested much and also I didn't want to screw up my normal excellent sex life, so I switched to Wellbutrin. It took almost a month after stopping Paxil before I was able to come again.

I certainly agree with you that Paxil is an excellent sexual control have. You can enjoy celibacy as you control your masturbation. Your wife (who wasn't getting much anyway thanks to your yanking) now takes pleasure knowing you're not getting anything either. She is back in control! Also, I'm certain that Paxil has replaced dangerous activities such as ball banding and saline injections. I'm sure that if you stood naked in a room full of nude nubiles, your penis wouldn't so much as twitch. Don't think your wife ain't loving that fact almost as much as you are!

You have a great idea. Paxil can supply a safe way to satisfy 99% of the fantasies on this board. As you know, Paxil makes everything feel all right!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

Yes, rotating tires sounds more interesting at this point. Just no desire.
She loves the effect its had on me and teases me about not being able to perform anymore.
Two of her girlfriends have started their husbands on Paxil 'castration'.
It definitely took away my concerns about her fucking other guys. She has been talking about having a young and testing my reaction to the idea. I don't think I would have been so accepting before taking the meds.

I enjoyed the Paxil experience. My pleasures were very masochistic in nature. The lady has fun busting her eunuch's balls. No chastity belt is needed. You are unable to come for money or your life. Your celibacy is guaranteed her. She's obviously getting pleasure from your total impotence by her comments. Paxil is not for me at present. I certainly can understand why some men happily choose Paxil over sex.

Are you enjoying Paxil? Has it ended your physical use (band and saline)? Is your impotence a pleasurable situation for you? Is this whole scene making you feel really good about yourself? Do you recommend this therapy for other masturbators?

Do you feel Paxil is an excellent way of extending castration fantasies beyond an orgasm's abilities to end them?
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

I'm not sure if enjoying is the right word. It has made my life easier, and less frustrating. The idea of her getting pregnant by another guy seems easier to accept than at first. She still bands my nuts occasionally, but not so much ball ***, now that my erections are down.
It definitly works to control excessive masturbation. Paxil breaks the reward cycle instantly (no cum) and takes away the obsessive drive to jerk off over time. My drive is nothing compared to before.
Some of her friends have started their men on it, and report great results also. She says its a great way to bring a husband under control. She says I argue with her a lot less now and am more accepting.

Paxil is an excellent sexual control have....mellow...mellow!

one of my cucks tended to self band his nuts and masterbate regularly, with the intent to destroy them. He was not successful... His wife got his prescribed a cocktail of welbrutin and paxil....whola... no drive, couples with a blissful state.

Hi
I hope someone on here can tell me more about Praxil.
Can it just stop climaxing? or does it totally stop erections?
I want my hubby to control to have his sex drive but I want to take away the abiality for him to cum.
Also I believe that Praxil is a anti depressant have what effects does this have on a permister?
Private messages are ok or emails.
Many Thanks for any advice.
Lynne
xxx

It tends to stop climax; the sex drive itself is less impulsive...and in general less. Makes a permister happier, more accepting.


See a Doc!

I can attest to this effect. I was given Lexapro (another SSRI have - works the same as Paxil.) It doesn't interfere with drive or with potency, but it effectively blocked the orgasmic response. In my case, I last too long as it is (my wife always complains.) So, this have made it doubly unpleasant.

But let's get back to the original post: Your wife took you to a female counsellor who proscribed you a have to control your sex... That gives me shivers (in a evilly good way.) Do tell us all the details. Did the wife do the talking, or did she make you confess to the doctor. What does your wife say when she gives you the medicine?

Yes, she had been cuckolding me and I had been masturbating more for release. She noticed some phone sex charges and said we had to put a stop to my excessive masturbation. She found a woman counselor who had quite a bit of experience in helping men control their masturbation. My wife went with me and told the counselor we were ready to take drastic steps to stop my masturbating.
You know what a large dose of Paxil can do to your jerking off; no more cum! My wife thought it was great watching me try so hard to ejaculate, but only stop out of fatigue. She gave me my pill every night and tell me how it would make my equipment shut down . With a smile on her face she would cup my nuts and tease me about losing my masculinity!
It was maddeing at first to suddenly be unable to reach release! My blue balls were sore for a few weeks. The anti-depressant qualities of Paxil really help to calm you down and make it easier to accept such a huge change in your sex life.
The couselor said most men come to accept the changes with time and learn to relax about losing what was the center of their universe. With out the reward of orgasm, sex becomes much less exciting and the habit is broken. She has treated many cuckolds and says Paxil helps men accept the fact that other guys are taking over servicing their wives.
She said a percentage of her patients start having erectile disfunction at the higer doses. This effect usually takes longer to start happening.

Paxil is an antidepressant. It was prescribed to treat my depression. I noticed that it can provide a very good sense of well being regardless of conditions. I was miserable and suffering blue balls because of my inability to orgasm. Although the Paxil was taken for depression, it caused me complete inability to engage in sexual intercourse. In spite of that, I rapidly developed a masochistic pleasure about my situation. Quickly, I found sex impossible and stopped trying any sexual relief because it greatly amplified my discomfort from blue balls. My testicles were still pumping out man juice into a prostate having no ability to eliminate it. Was I hurting! Maybe 3 weeks later the pain had diminished and I started enjoying the feelings of celibacy. I went months with no erections or any permisteral desire or capabilities for sex. This didn't bother me as much as I'd expect it to. I experienced great joys orally servicing others, even for lengthy sessions. I enjoyed women teasing me about being impotent and was happy other men sexed them. I very seriously considered remaining on Paxil for 1 or 2 years. My prostate said otherwise. I have an excellent sex life which isn't broken and doesn't need fixing.

FWIW: I'm hetero. I've had a few very exciting, rewarding bisexual experiences. Although on several occasions I've allowed men to fellate me and a couple of times I joyfully reciprocated, I had no homosexual desires either when I was hormonally castrated or sexually disared with Paxil. I've got all the pussy I can handle and don't need or want any other's wife.

Women: If your man is an excessive masturbator, he is selfishly squandering his sexual desires and capabilities. He must be taught to focus on you and share them with you. Paxil can fix this and return his attentions to where they belong.. You! He'll relish your 100% sexual powers over his total impotence and love to see and hear your smirks and comments!
I highly recommend this have as an effective remedy to excessive masturbation. It can also help restore harmony in your relationship with your man. His genitals will now be good for show only (he obviously wasn't sharing them much with you anyway)! He will totally enjoy being a good boy for you and both will know that you are calling the shots now!

Paxil is a generic have. It can cause drowsiness. This have must be prescribed and closely monitored by a physician. Do not stop this have without your doctor's consent. Brain chemicals are involved here that are beyond your control.

Paxil can also stop foolish activities such as genital ***s. For many people so inclined, it has the desirability of castration while maintaining the testosterone levels needed to feel impotency's "pleasures". You can't humiliate a true eunuch. A "Paxillated" man can thrive on sexual offense!

Paxil can be a sane, safe, excellent and medically monitorable method for men and their ladies to sample (or live) the "joys" of castration!

Try it!
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It occurs to me......I've got a man size tool coupled with a man size nut sack . Sure glad I'm a bull.............

I'm familiar with 3 different methods of a permister controlling his sex drive, masculinity and erections.

Castration fantasy #1: Gay man continues a***ing his testicles until the doctors are powerd to remove those now diseased organs. Elects for no HRT. Superglues his penis to his greatly shrunken scrotum so it doesn't dangle. Must sit to piss. Fantasy ended with his castration and the man is happy.

Castration fantasy #2: Chastity cages. Two different guys. Both ostensibly controlled by female key holders. Both use as excuse the women power them to be flaming bottoms for other men due to pent up passions caused by dicks being locked up 24/7. They love it.

Castration fantasy #3: Libido control medications. Myself and others. Total inability for erections. Total inability to orgasm. Total incapacity to engage your genitals in any sort of intercourse. Women know how impossible sex is for you and enjoy rubbing it in. Really miserable but the have makes it enjoyable, even when she takes other men. After stopping the have, long time before you can come properly again. You'll take the pill each time and remind her when she forgets. Zero need for a chastity belt for you! You have a perfectly good set of male genitalia that works identical to the genitals of a castrate. Your impotence causes you to behave exactly as a castrate before women. You have all that testosterone flowing in your body to fully humiliate all of your sexual masculinity. The castration fantasy can continue running uninterrupted by orgasms.

The best thing is: It's reversable and harmless. It does take some time for sexual capability to return, though.

I got all this out of my system and have graduated to more productive and normal pursuits.

There is an infinite number of castration fantasies and methods for realizing them. I suggest caution may be the wisest option here.

Your choice...................
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

I've tried antidepressants, but even at more than moderate dosages, I don't get enough effect for them to work as chemical castration. I ordered some Spironolactone, and I was wondering what dosage range is suggested for the effects on the sex drive to be pronounced?

How has the Spiro worked for you? No drive at all with it? Erections? How does your wife feel about all this?

My wife gave me a Paxil prescription for Christmas. She talked to her doctor, and now I have a bottle of pills and an appointment in two weeks. She told me the doctor said that once I start taking them, I might get very sick if I try to stop. Then she opened the bottle and put one in my hand. I swallowed it right away and thanked her so she wouldn't get angry. "There now," she said, "soon you'll be like those happy cucks we read about online. No more ejaculations getting you in trouble!"

I have taken it twice more and am starting to notice a warm, comfortable feeling inside. I hope it does help me accept things because this is very humiliating so far. I don't know what she told the doctor. I don't know what I'm going to say when I have to go. Tomorrow I will be allowed to masturbate to test if there is any change in my abilities yet. My wife says she will give me a special treat if I can't make myself cum.

cool cuckoldforgood! keep us updated

What dosage does she have you on? Our doc put me on 40 mg, but says she will give men up to 60 mg to stop orgasms.
Some men will have complete impotence with only 20 mg.
I have a mid 20's relative who became impotent on a low dose. His girlfriend sees other men for sex now. They have a great non-sexual relationship and are planning to get married.
I have little interest in sex now and it's not a big deal anymore when another man screws my wife. I am happy that she is so happy with her sex life now. She's very happy with the changes in me.
Just tell the doctor that the Paxil is making you feel much better about things and you want to stay on it. That's all he/she needs to know.

At 40 mg, I do tire easier and go to bed much earlier now. Other than that and the fact I no longer have orgasms, life goes on. My wife says I am much calmer and easy going about day to day problems. She says I used to be more aggressive also.

I am taking 30 mg a day. For my first test, my wife had me sit on the toilet and masturbate while she stood naked in front of me. Before I would be lucky to last 20 seconds like that, but this time was different. I could feel the cum building up inside but it wouldn't shoot no matter how fast and hard I tugged. I kept thinking that I was on the edge and it would happen only to see nothing but a little precum drip out. The longer this went on the bigger my wife's smile got. Just when I thought she was going to tell me to stop, the dam finally broke. Her smile turned to a frown immediately. "You'll get another chance in a few days," she said. Then she put on her clothes and went out. That was hours ago and she's still not home. I hope she's happier when she gets back. If a few more days don't help, I might have to ask the doctor if I can take more.

My nuts hurt for 2 weeks after starting paxil. The doc said they were used to producing a lot from jerking off so much and now that I stopped cumming, they would slow down.
Your drive will go down now and you will slowly stop trying to jerk off.
My wife loved watching me try to cum and thought it was funny that my nuts hurt. "They will quit working soon" she said.

Lets hope your wife gets her wish, and your nuts stop producing sperm - man what a humilation that would be lol

My wife has me on elavil 150mg and has me take it every evening. I have not had sex with her for almost 3 years. She now has her black bull stay with us on weekends and has me take an extra dose on weekend nights so I will not wake up. She has had me wear a large diaper because I have pissed the bed when I could not wake up. Usually in the mornings she will come in my bedroom and pull out her breast and tell me she is going to feed me her boob because I am now a little boy and little boys need their ladys milk. I enjoy sucking them because that is the closest I will get to anything resembling sex.

cuckedforgood - any updates?

I only see female physicians. My Psychologist probably knows why, though I have never told her why ;) I mentioned that I wanted to try medication, so she mentioned I may go to a General practice and request Effexor or Paxil. These are the two worst antidepressants in terms of causing impotence and inability to ejaculate. Lol, lovely. I saw the General practice, and she prescribed Lexapro, another one that is none to cause erectile dysfunction throughout use of the have. I did not take it, and instead went to a psychiatrist. I was then prescribed Prozac. Prozac is said to be the SSRI with the fewest sexual side effects. It completely castrated me, after awhile. I was not able to get hard, and my penis was actually numb! I dimisterctinued it and everything is back to normal. Lol. If you want to curb your sexual impulses go to a female physician and tell her your are sexually out of control and depressed, in 4 weeks, you wont be able to get hard or cum at all. But, perhaps more scarily you might even not care anymore as the sexual impulse is pretty much zapped.

It seems normal now for her to fuck other men. I have little interest in sex, but I do go down on her often, when she gets back from a date. Lately she has ben pushing me to have my nuts removed. She says my sex life is obviously over, I will not be maning any youngren, and it would be easier on my body, than having to take medication for the rest of my life.
It does sound simple; a anesthetic, two small slits in the sac, tie off the cords, and snip, snip, no more testosterone factories between my legs.
It makes sense, but instictively men resist getting castrated, even when the desire is gone. Maybe I don't want to lose the symbols of my manhood.

She had me start on Proscar recently. I had minor urination problems and she took me to her woman doctor who first suggested Flomaz. My wife had researched Proscar and asked it that would work. The Doc said she tries to stay away from that for guys, since it causes impotencey and libodo problems, but since i was a cuckold, it might be a good med for me.
5 weeks on the meds and its really having some effects. My dick is visibly smaller when flacid and my sex drive is weak. From many night time erections to zero. I have to work at it to jerk off; no real desire. Just water sprays when I can cum, nothing thick like cum.

I've read the penis is so inactive, it stays fully limp and retrated. I have to roll back the skin to pee, or it spray. Im circumcised and never had to do that in my life. The shaft shin hangs off the end like a foreskin. Much thinner also. I read there are receptors in the penis and scrotum that rely on DHT to grow and replace cells. No night erections to excersize the tissue, and no cell replacement means shrinkage. They have cases of permanent size loss after just 4 weeks and stopping

It's really weird looking at it. The desire is way down though. I kind of see what my wife says about it not mattering if my dick shrinks some since I basically impotent and not driven anymore. If I'm truly done having sex, then my dick size does not matter. Just weird to see happening.