Wife has just called me and told me what he did.

I am not sure whether this is theright place to share what i am feeling at the moment but i need to find out whether i am in fact a sissie or not.
My wife and i have enjoyed a fairly good sex life for many years but about 10 years ago things started to change from side because i could not get a proper erection anymore without having to ask her to dreee up in sex cloth, i really only get a hardon when she is in her PVC skirt and i also enjoyed it best when she gave a a handjob rather then having to penetrate her. this wnet on for many years but lately i asked her to have sex with an other guy and she always said yes during the sex but later on i could not actually make her do it. i dont think that i am really a sissie but as i write this , i am wearing my wifes PVC skirt and have her pantyhose and red bra on and i use her high heels but does that make me a sissie??
i can only do this because my wife is oversea on holidays and i just spoke to her and even that she has not confirmed it to me , i think she has done it with someone this evening. she was very shy on th phone and even that i pushed , she only said that we have to discuss this when she is back.

i am shaking at the moment and i am not sure what to do because the idea was always mine but now that i think she did it it seems to hurt me more than anything else. i have read some of the postings and i can see that i am not alone with these feelings but is it true that this will now change my live? I am really horney but i can not get hard even that i am jerking since the phone call. What is happening and should i forget about all of this or actually greet her in this outfit when she comes home? she has only ever let me put her suspenders on once and she does not know that i enjoy dressing up in her gear. Pls. help me with these feelings.

Mate i know what you are talking about! 1 the first when is she back?
Do you have a good relationship? if so it shouldnt be any problem! but the sissy thing! using her pvc and high heels, dont show her that when she coming back! try to keep it for you self... untill everything is in order again! ! more thingm if you want her to fuck other men? you must talk whit her in a easy way... taking step by step!!! otherwise you will hert your self like hell! 2. tlak whit her about your erection problem, and se if she can help you whit it? tell her that you only go hard when she�s dressed like a slut in pvc! YOU MUST TALK ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS!!!!

Keep me updated

Update on my situation:

Thanks for advise Cuckmannen , i thought about your comments and it took me a long time to get my head back to normal or as normal as you can call a situation like this.
Last night she rung me just to see whether everything was ok and i just said yes yes and yes again but neitherone of us mentioned anything about the previous call. I actually think that i might have jumped the gun , maybe she just had a bit of fun during her holiday but maybe still has not gone all the way. We will see whether she has anything else to say when she is back.
After the phone call i dressed up in her sexy cloth again and just thought i have a bit of a wanking session but then i got all my gutts together and i sent her an SMS saying: send me an sms when you are in bed and i will wank for you". Trust me , i was shaking when i typed the letters and was even more shaking when i hit send but i did it and thought ok you can always just say that you miss her and want to jerk off. a few min later i got a reply saying in about 1/2 hour so i responded saying:" any special requests" , was hopeing she might think about my likeing of the sex cloth but no bite. I was waiting , looking at this site , hoping to get some other opinions and was reading up on others being in similar situations or have been so that i would get a bit more confidence. about 1/2 hour later i got her sms and i rung her , she sounded 'normal" and she asked me , do you wank yourself at the moment? I said yes , rubbing my penis and it went on for about 10 min. and then i said to her that i miss her being her in her PVC cloth and i said i would take it out and put it next to me. Still was not sure what she would say but it was ok and i just took all my feelings and said to her : I will put it on. I was already fully clothed in stockings , suspender belt , panties , PVC dress and the high heels but i was not game enough to say this so i said i put on the dress , she was ok with it so an other couple of min went on and then i said i wanted to put on more and she was ok again , last i said i have to go back to the shoe shop where we bought the heels for her and straight away she said , " don't they fit?. I said they are a little bit to tight and that i need an size bigger and she agreed to go back. The best thing is that she really did not mind as far as i can see , she even said that she was wet and putting her finger into her pussy. She asked me to take a photo and send it to her but i said i was scared to do it so she said , take them with the digicam and show me when i am back. She does not know what i have already lots of photos in different outfits. She also asked me to take a video and to make sure that it was at least 2 min long for her when she is back to watch it. I happyly obliged. The we had about an other 15 min and i had the best orgasm in my life so far. She said that she loves me and that she wants me to dress up for her when she is back.
I am really not sure why i spill all of this here on a webbsite but i have to share my feelings with someone and i still think that it will take a long time before i could talk to anybody in permister about this so it feels ok to share it here and to see whether others have been at this point and have any advise for me so that the road ahead is not so difficult.

Thanks

see a shrink it may help

PVC, cool

Any more to tell?

Yes , there is an update to the story.
The wife is back and as i said , on the phone i told her about the dressing and she said it was ok but how do you know whether she is for real over the phone.
Bottom line , i asked her to buy me some new stockings and when she got back , she had a pair in her handbag. Nothing happened that night and we both avoided the subject.
Next day i came home from work and she said that there is some clothing on the bed for me to change into and to my delight it was my favorite outfit.
On went the fishnet stockings and the rest and i walk out of the bedroom for the first time completely dressed as a woman. Nervous feeling but i said to myself , you want to do this so just do it and see what happens.
She was 100% ok with it and i can tell you , it aroused her nearly more then me. she was all over me and it felt so good. long story short , i am now dressing up every weekend and we are now discussing the boyfriend situation. She is very keen on that subject and told me already that she had a boyfriend/sex when she was married to her first husband so i am looking forward to my new and improved role and this relationship. I feel a lot better and more complete now that i can freely dress the way i like and she is taking to her new dominat role.

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Sharing with her was the secret - I'm so very glad that you two have found a new slice of life grats sissy.

Yes, talking is the best way to resolve this tricky situation. I am glad i put all my faith into my wife and i my case it worked out.
She is really interested in the sex with an other guy and i like it that she now openly talks about it. I think there is a real chance that it will happen shortly.
I think the fact that i now so comfortable around her dressed in my woman's gear might just make it a bit more easy to face her lover all dressed up.
I am still a bit hesitant to face an other man when i am dressed up like a woman but i suppose i will face it and hopefully will enjoy it as much as i imagine.
We have just looked at a british website for some nice sexy clothing and we have ordered some itmes including a full Maids outfit and we decided that i would wera it when we have sex with an other guy for the first time.
It is now hopefully only a few weeks before i am a full cuckold and i hope that it will be as enjoyable as the fantasies are.

Will update you all.

Here is a further update, not much happened on the weekend but today on Monday i decied to take an early afternoon and left the office at 1500 so that i would have plenty of time to get all shaved and dressed up for my pretty wife to surprise her when she would get home and what a surprise that was.
it was about 1800 when i expected my wife to come home and about half an hour passed and her car stopped in the driveway. I was all dressed but this time not in PVC but in Pantyhose and a nice dress with long skirt and i had my heels on. I was just going to open the door when i saw that she was not alone. I sturmed into the bedroom and closed the door , first i thought about undressing but i just thought i would be very quiet and wait. She came into the bedroom and told me that it was just a Tradesman for some work and she said i should stay in the bedroom. I was shaking like a frightened young and the guy did whatever he was suppose to do and left again.
I came out and she asked me what would i have done if she would have shown him to the bedroom? I couldn't answer anything and she enjoyed it , i could see it. This was a close call and i am now really question whether i really can go though with it. Could i really see a guy handle my wife and may be handle me too. What a surprise but i have to say that i certainly orgasimed and creamed my panties and she let me feel it.
Am i alone with those feeling?

DAAAAMMMMNNNNN!!!!!!! You are living the life!! Even at your present stage... well as of July 30. you are doing more than most, i'm guessing!!
Please...updates..... this thread is VV exciting
Who's Your Bitch.single,cuz not man enuf to attract a woman.
Will meet for sissy sex with yor cuck!!

i am in a very lucky situation , my wife is not just understanding but she enjoys the new situation.
I am in a Hotel on an overseas trip and it is 2300 hours at the moment, i just called her to say hallo but she is on a training seminar and it went to voicemail.
i am now fantasising that she might be in bed with an other guy. I am stiff and horney as hell. I also know that she would have received the latest parcel which contains some nice new PVC dresses for me , what a surprise and i am sure that they will be ready for me to wear when i come back so i think i am very lucky. will keep you updated. hope it is happening at the moment.

I am back home and i can not believe what i found , i got a new pair of high heels , a lacy top in red and a nice top in black to go out in.
I also got some new PVC gear , and i was allowed to wear it tonight.
My wife is so good with this situation now that i feel so comfortable to change in my female gear and wear it the whole time at home. She even likes it and may be get a bit horney. She is talking about a guy from work a lot since i am back home and i think i could be on a winner here. She is talking about doing some project work with him in the evenings and i think my chances are pretty good that this will end up in sex. As i said , very confusing feelings but i have to go through with it. Will update later.

My wife just SMSd me to tell me she was now sat on the toilet full of another mans sperm ! ( her boyfriends )
Before she went out on her date with him she had me paint my nails, full body shave and put on a pink dress and stay ups. She enjoys making me into a sissy wimp when she is away fucking her boyfriend.

For me it feels incredibly humiliating as he is bigger than me in both muscle and cock size and is very wealthy too etc..
There are those that think about it, those that talk about it, and those that do it !