Wifes denial from sex

Wow rdvrk, you are so lucky, are you locked up?

I worked it out from my posts here 29 June 2007 was the last time I was allowed to enter my wife.

OMG I didnt realise how early in the process she denied me, thats 2 years and 2 months, I know it will never happen again.

I try to get used the idea of my wife denying me. Actually she doesn't but she promiced if she will have a lover again, she will.
And it seem she will have very soon. We will meet a guy next week saturday.

really good posts

No, not locked. I still jack off, mostly when she's out, but sometimes when she gets home.

4 years from Sept 26 for me

while we are no longer married. every girl I date I almost always think of me being cuckolded by my ex wife while I'm having sex.

Yep, that's it! Better for both of us when she's having sex than when we're having sex!

The last half of my marrage sex was never more than a couple of minutes. I have never pleased her from what she has said. But she pleased me all the time by cuckolding me and withholding sex from me. I did enjoy sex with her, but really love being denied and mocked about it.

I noticed back when we were still having sex that neither of us was really mentally present for it.

She was always open and honest about not being focused on what was happening between us physically. And, of course, I would usually be thinking about her getting done by another man while we were doing it. So, after a while, it just stopped making sense for us to have sex together any more, and just let her spend that time with someone else who she could be more into.

We have a really good life together without sex. I am happy to be married to a lovely, tender woman who is my partner in every other way. She is definitely enjoying her life more now that she's getting her sexual & romantic needs fully met, which, in turn, makes our lives together happier and more relaxed. I have discovered over time that I can be satisfied with masturbation (which she is very supportive of), and that the second-hand pleasure I take from her sex life is enough for me.

my last post was in 08 and here we are 2011 and i am still locked and my wife i still getting prositutes to milk me [at my own cost]
this means now that a lady calls at our home every now and then usualy about 6 weeks from my last milking and is given instructions to milk me for no longer than ten mins and then i am re locked till next time .
in between i must endure watching and listerning to my darling wife getting noisily fucked senseless by another guy or guys while i strain in my belt .
as i am unable to satisfy her i let my wife have her lovers.

I remember this thread! It has been closing on 10 years since I penetrated my wife and more than five since I even got so much as a handjob from her.

I noticed this comment from rdvrk:

Honestly, it is not so easy to remember a great deal about back when we had sex, other than the physical sensation. But like rdvrk I do recall that I was always fantasizing about something quite extreme and I vividly remember her telling me (not during, as a turn-on, but honestly during heart-to-hearts) that she had fantasized about old lovers, classmates, and coworkers from the first with me, that my penis was shaped thus that it felt uncomfortable and was a turn-off inside her, and that I it was impossible for me to turn her on as a lover because she had seen me submit and wimp-out so much. (She is turned on by aggressive top guys.)

Maybe these factors are part of why it was so easy for her to give me up. (Although I think the outside boyfriends helped.)
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

I wish this stuff was around when my wife was in her prime she could've made many more men happy.
I will enclose a picture of what I was passing around to the black male population and others.
just love my fun a lot

I have just passed my 5 month mark since my wife has let me inside of her wonderful pussy.... she wants me to wait a minimum of 6 months before she will even consider letting me inside of her again.

I have already commented on similar posts like this, but here it is again:

I am in a cuckold relationship, wife has had other men, though doesn't have a boyfriend at the moment. Whether or not she is seeing someone else, she has decided to deny me sex.

It started as part of the cuckolding game, she said she would not have sex with me again until she had another man. Well, it took a few months, and in that time she was true to word and i had no sex with her, apart from licking her pussy and caressing her. Then, when she did have sex with another man, she enjoyed it so much that she decided not to have sex with me afterward anyway. We decided to make it a full year instead. It had started as a New Year's resolution.

The year came and went, she had sex with another guy, but never with me. I was amazed she didn't even WANT to! I asked if she missed it with me, and she actually LAUGHED! She said that she didn't miss it at all, not one tiny drop, and she could have much more satisfying sex with other men. We do still have close bodily contact-- we kiss, hug, caress, and I finger her or lick her to orgasm, or use dildos on her. She does not give me blowjobs (but ALWAYS to lovers!) she says my little dick just does not inspire her to suck it at all. And obviously no anal sex. SO my sexlife consists of licking her pussy and asshole, and pleasing her. She occassionally gives me handjobs, but not often. SHe generally likes me NOT to have an orgasm when we have "sex"-- she likes it to be focussed on her, and when she is satisfied, she rolls over and goes to relax, or we cuddle some more.

I LOVE it this way!!!! It makes me feel like a real, submissive husband, who puts his wife before himself and pleasures her without expecting her to pleasure him. We both love it like this. Just a couple days ago, I looked up at her, seeing her pussy hair and above it her face looking down at me, and it was a beautiful moment. She told me later that she thinks of me more and more as her servant and sex slave, there to pleasure her, and less and less as her sex partner. We are both happy with this arrangement.

We do talk about it a lot, and I am happy this way, having "sex" only with my hand or hers when I am lucky, I really enjoy the offense and the presentation to her. It has now been more than 2 years, nearly 2 and a half since I have had sex. In a way I am really proud of this. She tells me that someone with a tiny, useless little dick that either doesn't get hard or when it does cums way too fast (true, all true...), doesn't deserve to ever be in a pussy again. I agree. Though I am happy, as I say, I still ask her often how long this will last, or if I will ever be allowed sex again, and she usually just laughs or says "it will be a LONG, LONG time....." Basically she plans that I will never have sex again as long as I live, certainly not with her and certainly with no one else, either, unless my own hand counts!

I really, really enjoy this, and am happy that she ended my sexlife.

I wrote that in 2006!

I was lucky! Once a month.

I ate her pussy last December, and have had 2 handjobs since then. Except now I do the handjobs while she watches.

I can still jerk off when I am alone.

Permanent denial is a beautiful thing !!!

The beautiful thing about permanent denial/ chastity is wifey's peace of mind with hubby's sex totally restrained and in her control. It's so easy for her to be a complete bitch about his denial / chastity frustration; yet so pleasing to see his (self inflicted) sexual angst! The icing on wifey's cake is her freedom to find and enjoy a REAL lover. A man that don't have to play "post office" to stand and deliver the "male" in her box! Once the sexual denial becomes accepted by both parties, it only gains more momentum. Hubby ain't ever be the "man" in wifey's bed anymore! It can happen pretty quick!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

that will be regulated at some point...

that will be regulated at some point...

It has been 2 years and 3 months since we last had sex (only because she wanted to get pregnant) and before that it was very rare and only if she had a little too much to take and got horny but didn't have a lover around/available.

As soon as she got pregnant I knew the sex would be over during the pregnancy, but it has continued this way ever since. She always complained when we had sex that she wasn't enjoying it so even though she has not told me she has cut me off she has cut me off.

Married cuckolds should only be allowed to have sex with MEN.

My wife and I have been married for 12-years. From the beginning it was agreed that she would always keep other men as her lovers and I was to be her cuckold that sucks cock and would never be allowed to have sex with her or any woman. I'm impotent so I couldn't anyway. She brings her boyfriends home with her and the ones that agree have me suck their cock and sometimes she allows me to lick clean her lover's cum from her pussy lips after they finish fucking, which I watch sometime if they agree. She lets me jerk off my limp weenie sometimes but mine is but a couple drops of clear watery liquid, not real cum like real men. She does definitely have many lovers and gets plenty to keep a sticky cum filled pussy, and that does please us both. She does prefer black men and I do love watching her take black cock and I do get a thrill when they roll her over and fuck her up her Ass. I do usually jerk off as her lover cums in her Ass, especially if he is black. When they are finished, she will many times get up and make me lick her ass clean of his cum and then whip me for enjoying watching as she took it up her Ass.

I haven't been allowed to come inside my wifes pussy for about 51/2 years. About 4-5 times a year i get to 'dip' my cock in her for about 10 strokes.
My wife fucks other men from time to time but doesn't have anyone regular. She enjoys me fucking her with a big dildo about 1-2 a week (unless she has a date). I'm allowed to wank as often as i like, so i can't complain

I politely disagree! Should wifey choose hubby to be unworthy of providing HER sexual pleasure then why should he be allowed to please his or anothers sex?

100% of married cucks must devote 100% sex interest in wifey's pleasure! If any reamister she don't desire sex attention from husband then he must go into chastity. Smart keeps her man on a VERY short leash!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

I just posted elsewhere how we recently had our 4 year no-sex-for-me anniversary. It is hard to believe it has been 4 years!!! I have not had penetrative sex in that long. I have licked her pussy, her asshole, fingered her to many orgasms, and sometimes use dildos. She always tells me how much better the dildo feels than my cock did, and she is not just saying this for fun. She told me a few nights ago that she does not miss my dick at all, and that our sex life will continue like this indefinitely! Strange to think that my sex life is completely over, so long before my life is over. But it feels right. She has had 4 lovers in that time, but not often. I do get occassional hand jobs, but never anything else-- no blowjobs (she says my dick is so boring it just doesn't excite her to suck it), and nothing else at all for me, usually not even an orgasm after we have "sex" which consists of me bringing her to orgasm. I LOVE it!

pretty neat

This is really parallel to my situation. For me, it has been 12 years since I penetrated her and over a decade since she put her lips on my cock. I feel about it the same as you; it is right and I love it. (Well, sometimes I hate it, but I love that I hate it.) Like you, she has me use my hands and mouth to pleasure her when she wants. To be honest this is usually when she is between lovers and not that frequent even then (Less and less as the years pass.) Over the 12 years she has had more than the four lovers your wife has enjoyed, but there have been periods - sometimes extended - in which she had none. Nevertheless, she did not falter in here denial of me in that time. The infrequent occasions where I bring her off are all about her and do not include my orgasm. She sometimes (quite rarely anymore) does participate in my pleasuring myself, but only as a taunting voyeur, not a physical participant. The only exceptions are the very rare (anymore) occasions when she pegs me with the strap-on (last time was a reward for a promotion at work over a year ago) and the twice a year (my birthday and our anniversary) when she lets me lick her asshole while I beat off to the dildo in my ass.


Our approach is different. Although my wife has sworn the situation is permanent, we "celebrate" the anniversary each year of things being banned. So, for instance, we had a small dinner party and my wife surprised me with a cake with a jerking off slave cake-topper announcing to the gathered that one year ago she pledged to never again touch my penis at all. In another case, we marked the 10th anniversary of my not penetrating her by her arranging for me to be taken from both ends by two guys.

They commemorations aren't always so big, but this habit allows us multiple excuses each year for little reminders of the hotness of our lifestyle, renewals of vows and pledges, and moments when she can intensify my offense.

I recommend it.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

That is extreamy hot!