Anyone ever expose others to this lifestyle without their knowledge?

Curious if anyone has ever exposed spouses, girlfriends/boyfriends, or just friends to this lifestyle without their knowledge?

I've been thinking about buying a Queen of Spades anklet from Nipple Charms and giving it to my wife to wear and making up some other meaning for the QOS charms. I've also thought about doing the same to a friend of mine.

Since I assume most people not into this lifestyle wouldn't know the meaning, it would be fun to watch if they got approached or hit on by any black men.

Has anyone tried something like this or some other exposure?

Ace

I understand what you're saying but I think it's pretty harmless. If the real meaning was brought to their attention, I could just play ignorant that I didn't know.

I just ordered a QOS anklet. We'll see what happens. Not sure who to give it to yet.

Nobody else has tried anything like this before??

Ace

I few years ago I had an interracial sex book on my e-reader, and my friends wife picked it up and started going through my library. I noticed that on the title page for the interracial book, that showed a black guy and white woman kissing, that she stopped and looked at it for several seconds. She then swiped through a few other titles, and put down the e-reader. I don't know what happened after that, but i know she saw the "White Wife Black BoyFriend" title.
Lisa