What Black Men understand that white men apparently don't

I spend some time in an i/r chatroom and am sometimes asked why it is that i ONLY fuck Black Men but i will fuck almost ANY Black Man. Invariably these questions come from (a) white men or (b) white women who have never been really Black-Fucked. They point out that it can't only be a matter of dick size, as SOME Black Men are merely average in size and SOME white men are quite well endowed. And all that is true. But i "went Black" for reasons that go way above size, though i still maintain that "average" for a Black Man is still bigger than "average" for white.

Black Men seem to understand some things that white men don't. White men seem to think that women don't REALLY like sex very much, and that we only "do it" so the men will care for us, provide us with a good home and lifestyle, etc. NOTHING could be further from the truth. Women LOVE sex...LOVE it. More to the point, we LOVE to FUCK. LOVE it. CRAVE it. We HAVE TO HAVE IT. My ob/gyn (a woman) tells me that research shows that men can go without sex MUCH better than women can. A Man can masturbate himself and get something close to the same pleasure as He gets from the orgasms while fucking. A woman, on the other hand, while she can and will masturbate to orgasm, that orgasm is only measured to be 15-20% as pleasurable as an orgasm reached from FUCKING. A good fuck will make a woman cum so hard we pass out...our eyes roll back in our head...we foam at the mouth, speak in tongues, rant and rave. A woman who has experienced TOTAL orgasms from a big-dicked Man will do anything...and i do mean ANYthing...to get that feeling back again. Women become physically, emotionally and mentally ILL when we do not get FUCKED enough. Black Men seem to know this, and They use that knowledge to make us into sex slaves for Them. and we do it gladly. Eagerly. Joyously.

The other thing Black Men seem to understand is that women like me....white, upper middle class, wealthy or at least financially comfortable, are constantly catered to and pampered by society...men...who want us to spend our husband's money in their place of business. And yet we all harbor some basic insecurities, as we know we are ot worthy of that coddling and being cow-towed to. So, when a strong, virile Black Man treats us like a common slut, like a whore, like a piece of fuckmeat, we immediately cave in and submit to Him. When the first Black Man called me "cunt" and "slut"...it was as though i had been waiting ALL MY LIFE for someone to talk to me like that. i love it. i submit to any Black Man who treats me like i am trash. i can't help it.

So....its not JUST cock size. its attitude. And its understanding what we NEED....we need it like a junkie needs a fix. Black Cock is our heroin. Orgasms are our opiate. we will do WHATEVER we have to do to get it. ANYthing.

comments, ladies?

very hot, jodired. amazing.

Jodi, my ex feels exactly the same as you do, she exclusively fucks black now, the more they treat her like a piece of cunt the more she responds to their demands.

A white guy with that "bad boy" attitude is capable of getting the same response. Over time we husband's begin to treat our wives as the partner, mom, princess she is. We make love to them.

But bring in that "bad boy" who yanks her off that Princess pedestal by her hair, throws her onto the bed, shoves her legs apart, pounds the hell out of her while calling her a slut, uses her for his pleasure, then tells her to fix him a sandwich on the way out, and she'll go home totally satisfied. There are white guys out there like that. Most people call them assholes. Some women call them every night.

cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Jodi,

Have to agree w/PCC, a "bad boy" attituded can be of any race. Yes, you are correct it is usually the big Black man with a huge di*ck. My thoughts on your O/P is that woman wants not only the eye-rolling great s*ex but also the "Attitude" that comes with it, the best of both worlds.

My wife, cuckolds me with with a latin male. It is her ex-husband and left her for a younger gal. Until, this day she drools with the fu*cks she gets from him ( at least 9 inches) and does so many things to him/with him that she will not do with me at all.

I believe your a happy gal, enjoying life. There is nothing wrong with that ! As they say "Happy Hunting" LOL

-CH ( cuckold husband )

PCC, you are right, white men CAN have that same attitude and equipment, but sadly most don't. I wasn't totally accurate when i said i ONLY fuck Black Men. a few white men have had me in gangbangs that were set up by Black Men, and i have gone to my knees and spread my legs for several Hispanic Men recently, but Black Men are so much more likely to be what i want that i make Them my "default" choice.

Jodired, great post. As a whiteboy who has shared 4 girlfriends/ex-wife w/ BBC, i know the TRUTH in what you say. They are just so POWERFUL and every girl i 'shared' got addicted. One even got really hooked on their cum. Great post and i'm glad you explained what its really like from a white woman's POV. So many idiot whiteboys in those chatrooms...

hey jodi - i really cant say i know a lot about women in general. im 48 and have been with the same girl for 27 years and i know her but dont know the intimate secrets of any other women. i guess i know my ****** and sisters view on sex kinda. what you write goes totally against what my wife says and i dont know my ****** and sister to particularly like sex. my wife is a HOT 42 year old and she gets nasty to the point where she could give any current adult film actress a run for her money. im not a cuckold but she is a kinda hotwife in that she will fuck other men occasionally but i dont fuck other chicks. i am however in control - with her - of who shes with and when where etc. i say kinda bc she has not embraced this lifestyle for herself per se. she has done the things shes done for me (she says). granted we live in a fairly unpopulated area of central oregon and there are virtually no black men. she did fuck one - one of the only ones i guess - and he was ok only slightly larger than me mainly in length not so much girth. my wife definately has an inner slut that she lets loose when she finally gets around to making a date with someone. once she decides shes going to fuck someone - then shes a fuckin total whore. but getting her to that point is pure hell. she fucked the black guy on jan 18 2013 and didnt fuck anyone again until this past jan 8 2015 so 2 years between trysts. each date is filmed - i am either in the next room watching on the tv from the cam in their room or as she has done one time - she went alone but still filmed it for me. she looks like shes having fun, sounds like it, is as enthusiastic a slut as you have ever seen meaning she lets them ass fuck her, cum on her face, she sucks cock like a champion, sucks after they assfuck her, any position, dirty talk - shes fucking awesome and my favorite porn star hands down. then she tells me she was faking it - acting. im like no fucking way! what a downer really. so i frankly think shes either full of **** or she seems to cater her answers to her mood. if i ask her if she likes fucking strangers while shes in the throes of passion with me - she says yes. if i ask her when shes all stressed about bills she says fuck no. but i say to her - if i am hungry and you make me a roast beef sandwich and ask me if i like them i say yes. if i just got done gorging on thanksgiving dinner and am about to explode and you ask me if i like roast beef sandwiches - i still say yes but i wouldnt eat one now. i remember that i do love them even though i wouldnt eat it now. she will contend that she doesnt like strange. could it be that she has slut amnesia?

We went through spells like that in years past. My wife would have an experience with someone, she would be moaning and cumming and getting off like crazy. She would be that way the entire time too, and was genuinely enjoying herself (I know her well enough to know the difference). After the guy left I would always ask how she was feeling... what she was thinking, etc. She almost always said it was great, she had fun and so on.

But days, or even weeks, later she would often give a very different answer, saying that it was just "okay" or even that she wished she hadn't done it. It seemed that after she had a chance to think about it, and the horny lust dissipated, she then found herself regretting it or feeling guilty. So I don't think your situation is too crazy. Women are complicated critters. Over time they can have pretty wide mood swings, sometimes caused by other things happening in their life.

FWIW, we finally got past all that back-and-forth stuff. Today she's a full-fledged Hotwife. But it took years, and a lot of honest discussion to get here.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I agree with Jodired... it is not totally about size..... but quality of the orgasim... that 110% all over whole body and mind orgasim... size is nice and feels extremely good especially when my pussy starts gripping uncontrollably on the cock in it. I have been with a few white guys and average black men seem to be bigger than average white. I have been with only one white guy that was able to get me to that 110% orgasim... he is now 64 and his dick is only 4 3/4 long... small but he knows what to do with it and knows how to treat me. to me sex is as much mental as it is physical. I would never tell a man that size matters, only because I would not want to hurt him. most of the white guys I have been with ask how they were... come on guys if you need to ask... you were not that good. If there were two males standing in front of me and one was black with 8" the other was white with 8".. I would choose the black man... I know he will give me the kind of fucking I need and want.... the white guy... never know for sure if he will last more than a few minutes..... I will also say if a 28 yr old white guy with 8" was standing next to my 64 yr old with his 4 3/4"... I would choose the old 64 yr old.... only because I know he has giving me that 110 percent every time. I love it when I feel used by black men... slap my ass pull my hair jerk me into the positions you want me in and call me anything you want... I will only try harder to please you and I will have more good hard orgasims while doing it

lisa...we seem to be much alike in our sexual urges. The problem is that when i fuck a Man i usually don't get to see His cock until i'm already on my knees unzipping His pants. i'm under His table in a bar or in the bathroom. Or else i'm in a motel room with 4 or 5 Men who are about to run a train on me. so i go with past experiences, and a Black Man is way more likely to give me what i want and need.

jodired... I understand... but I don't see that as a problem...

Absolutely not - an attitude like that is an asset surely! Enjoy!

Last week i was in a conversation with 3 other mwfs...all 4 of us have "gone Black" (in fact we were at one of the i/r pickup spots in town, seeking action for the day) but one was pretty new to the lifestyle. She had been Blackfucked four times before, having come to this place at the recommendation of a friend (who was also involved in this conversation). This woman, call her Shelly, was a bit miffed by how Black Men talk to her during the encounters. She says she is insulted and offended when the Men call her "slut" or "bitch" or "cunt"....she does not use such language herself (the friend who brought her here was a fellow Sunday School teacher at their church) and wants the Black Men to refrain from such language. She does acknowledge, however, that the sex is fantastic and that she loves the feeling of being used by the Men. She had never cum from being fucked before, and she had never had a Man cum in her mouth before, and she admitted that she LOVED both of those experiences. "I just want Them to not treat me like such a whore!" she whined. The other 3 of us laughed at her naiveness and lack of understanding. We told her (all 3 of us agreed wholeheartedly) that "thats the way things are", and that Black Men are going to do what Black Men do. If you want the big Black dick making you cum like a Roman Candle, then that's the way it going to be. And, as we pointed out, if you are in a cheap motel room and are on you knees sucking a Black Man's dick that you just met 10 minutes before, and don't even know His NAME, then you pretty much ARE a slut...a bitch...a cunt. Why shouldn't He call you for what you are? Besides, once you get used to it it becomes a turn-on all its own. Sort of like that famous Pavlov experiment with the bell and the dog...when a Man talks to me like that, i immediately get sexually aroused because i KNOW i'm going to get an amazing fucking. My cunt (yes i call it that now) gets wet and my knees get weak, and my hands are drawn to the Man's cock so i can suck It. So i welcome it......revel in it. By the end of the conversation, Shelly seemed a bit more comfortable with it. In fact, a few minutes later she eagerly left the bar with a Black Man who opened His conversation with her by calling her "cunt." The other 3 of us smiled at each other because this Man had previously fucked the other 3 women at the table a few times each, and this Man ALWAYS fucks white women in the ass...so odds are good that Shelly has now given up her ass to Black Men, something she had not previously done.

Jodi, I loved the little experience you and your friends enjoyed in the bar, especially the inexperienced girl ('Shelly'). What you say is exactly right, if she wants to become black man's fuckmeat then she HAS to accept the way she's going to be spoken to, it goes with the territory. I see nothing wrong in it, I know for a fact that my ex is constantly spoken to like that, and she thrives on it, she says it makes her feel so fucking horny, dirty, and slutty, all she wants to do is fuck. I often speak to women like that, most times it has the desired effect, a wet cunt!
I really loved the fact that 'Shelly' is most likely getting her anal cherry broken in by her black Bull, something she would never have considered previously. I think it's time you got 'Shelly' to confess all.

I saw "Shelly" yesterday at the same restaurant/bar, we were both there for the same thing. She blushed but confessed that she had not only had her first anal sex but the Man she went with called a friend of His and she was repeatedly DPd (spitroasted mouth and cunt, mouth and ass, and finally cunt and ass) for the first time as well and is now a true Black Cock Addict. she said she had more orgasms in one day with those two Men than she had in 8 years with her husband. we might have talked longer but she was picked up by THREE Black Men (the two who fucked her last week and a friend of Theirs) and eagerly went with Them to a motel. My city has gained another mwf who fucks Black Men without her husband's knowledge!

Brilliant! Another convert, good slut!

Good work jodired.